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Facebook Bridezilla? Rude or Understandable?

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Everyonelovesabridezillathread · 09/10/2018 21:53

AIBU to think this is pretty rude? Yes it probably is annoying when people ask questions about your engagement or wedding, but most of the time they are just making polite small talk?

Facebook Bridezilla? Rude or Understandable?
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TheHobbitMum · 09/10/2018 22:30

What a charmer!

Maryann1975 · 09/10/2018 22:30

Ha, is she my (future) sil. I don’t have anything in common with her, so have to talk about the wedding. No idea what we will talk about once they are married.

BleakBetty · 09/10/2018 22:32

God. That’s pretty cringy. Does she actually think people care that desperately about her wedding? The only reason people other than her close family will go is for a bit of booze and a knees-up, I imagine they couldn’t give a monkeys about the fine details of this once-in-a-lifetime event and are only asking as a point of small talk or just general pleasantries!

Lwoj · 09/10/2018 22:35

I think you should comment on the post with a question about the wedding!

SenoritaViva · 09/10/2018 22:38

So rude. Definitely comment!

MaluCachu · 09/10/2018 22:39

Comment and report back Wink

Xmasfairy86 · 09/10/2018 22:41

What milk said! Need to see the comments!

Scrumptiousbears · 09/10/2018 22:42

Silly cow.

I will also point out I know someone who claims her fiancé chose the ring bragging how well he did but hear from the fiancé she dragged him round numerous shops showing him who to buy "when" he does 👍🏻

It's all bollocks.

Ohyesiam · 09/10/2018 22:42

I can imagine thinking like that if i had really bad pms, but can’t imagine voicing it.Actually writing it and deciding to click send. That is something else .
A match made in heaven?

CoughLaughFart · 09/10/2018 22:44

My only question about her wedding would be ‘How the bloody hell did you persuade anyone to marry you?’

ClemClemFandango · 09/10/2018 22:44

Is it Princess Eugenie?

JeanPagett · 09/10/2018 22:45

God that's rude!

Especially as people are generally only asking to be polite and show an interest. God knows I don't actually care about how most people got engaged.

TomHardysNextWife · 09/10/2018 22:46

She never graduated charm school, did she.


I hope she got lots of "well we don't want to come anyway" in reply Grin

Witchofzog · 09/10/2018 22:46

Oh yes please post screen shots of the replies. She sounds like an arrogant rude asshole. I bet no-one is that bothered really and are just being polite.

Ellie56 · 09/10/2018 22:47

Is it Princess Eugenie? Grin

Starlight345 · 09/10/2018 22:48

I am place marking for replies

Everyonelovesabridezillathread · 09/10/2018 22:48

Alas, I am not facebook friends with her, so cannot see the replies Sad. It was posted to a group hen do chat by one of my friends friends, to say at least the our bride friend is a bit more chilled!

Tbh I get that getting asked about your glasses would be annoying, but the rest is a bit OTT.

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BrushTheCatEar · 09/10/2018 22:54

What a rude cow! It’s just a talking point for most people, doesn’t mean they actually care or are hinting for an invite!

ALemonyPea · 09/10/2018 22:55

Felt some sympathy with the glasses, the rest she’s just rude! Be thankful you’re not invited.

45redballoons · 09/10/2018 22:56

I could have written this on the run up to my wedding. I didn’t even care about these things. Now it is over though I find myself asking similar to people because I think they’d be hurt if I didn’t ask how it was going.

OhLookHeKickedTheBall · 09/10/2018 22:56

There are some brides out there who get upset that people don't show this level of interest in their wedding. I find it sort of refreshing that someone is losing it over people being too interested!

Villainelle · 09/10/2018 22:58

Wish i was friends with her so I could advise her how nobody actually gives a shit.

Wait til she's pregnant and everyone's asking questions about her vagina Grin

blackvelvetband · 09/10/2018 23:02

I wish she was my fb friend so I could comment that no one really gives a fuck.
I guarantee you that these people are just being polite
She needs a big ladder to get over herself with

InfiniteVariety · 09/10/2018 23:03

Wait till she's pregnant and everyone's asking questions about her vagina

Grin Grin Grin Grin

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