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Facebook Bridezilla? Rude or Understandable?

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Everyonelovesabridezillathread · 09/10/2018 21:53

AIBU to think this is pretty rude? Yes it probably is annoying when people ask questions about your engagement or wedding, but most of the time they are just making polite small talk?

Facebook Bridezilla? Rude or Understandable?
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thecatsthecats · 10/10/2018 08:28

There’s really no excuse for that sort of outburst. People ask polite questions about weddings, pregnancy and children etc to be nice. Ugh.

My sister and I were talking about this. We both HATE it. Small talk is a necessary evil, but a year's worth of focused small talk is torture. Especially when it comes with the insane weight of interference that people DO show with decisions you make about weddings or babies.

Usually flippantly meant, in all fairness, but when you hear for the millionth time, I can see someone snapping fairly.

Haven't myself, but in December, when my wedding is over, I'm looking forward to being asked about my life again!

WasabiSpring · 10/10/2018 08:44

Seems quite likely she's the type who would get just as pissed off if nobody asked her about the wedding at all.

Mehaveit · 10/10/2018 08:52

What an arsehole! Imagine people asking her about a major event in her life Hmm

My colleague is pregnant. I'm not the mother and I'm not going to be invited to the birth but I still asked how things were going and empathised at the sickness she'd experienced.

MacosieAsunter · 10/10/2018 08:53

Some people are intrusive - I absolutely loathe and abhor that line of incessant questioning.

waves arms expansively< just wait until she gets the starting a family questions, she'll absolutely implode.

I fully empathise with her. TBH, most adults would get bored shitless being repeatedly asked the same question by 20 people daily.

HomeMadeMadness · 10/10/2018 08:54

Bloody hell what a rude cow! If they hadn't made small talk about her wedding it would be about the weather. She could have just said "It's going fine but I'm bored of wedding talk, how is your aunt Judy getting on?" or whatever. Does she think she's some kind of celebrity whose wedding is strangely fascinating to everyone.

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 10/10/2018 09:13

Lol at the "selected children".

WhoGivesADamnForAFlakeyBandit · 10/10/2018 09:41

I want to know what's wrong with her glasses that everyone's asking whether she'll be wearing them on the day in the photos Grin

CalonGlas · 10/10/2018 09:48

"So, Moira, where are you getting married?"
"Oh, how nice."

KeiTeNgeNge · 10/10/2018 09:54

The glasses question could be exciting - is she rocking massive multihued Elton John shades on her beehive updo as she struts down the aisle in her mini kilt, selected children flinging Hershey kisses as they go... Grin

Wherearemycarkeys · 10/10/2018 16:18

Rude and insanely obnoxious! Who does she think she is?

wenwell · 12/10/2018 17:00

I wonder how many guests will show up after that post? If you don't want to deal with wedding questions then you better remove yourself from the planet because there will ALWAYS be questions.

Persiangirl · 12/10/2018 22:31

Don’t know her but don’t like her!
What a horror!

SteelRiver · 09/10/2019 23:21

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BanKittenHeels · 09/10/2019 23:28

When will these bridezillas realise that no-one is anywhere near as bothered about their weddings as they'd like to think.

Hopefully a year ago when this was first posted.

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