To ask friend to remove photos of my DC fe her FB feed?

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We have no recognisable photos of our DC on social media. My visiting friend has just posted some where they are recongisable and I'm tagged. DC aren't tagged, no names mentioned . She didn't ask our opinion/permission...

Aibu to ask her to remove those where DC can be recognized?

I am not a fan of Facebook but I really can't get worked up about photos of kids on s8cial media unless there are extenuating circumstances. And no-one seems to be able to point out to me the difference between social media and the local paper for example. A photo is just a photo.

I guess social media ties in to other details about your life that make you more identifiable in a way a group shot of 30 kids doesn't?

Surely one is still allowed to make decisions for one's own kid? It doesn't matter whether people think it's ridiculous or not. It's not a big request to ask someone to take down a picture. I don't understand people who endlessly want others to justify their parenting decisions, just because they think they know best.

Just ask politely. It's fine.

Surely one is still allowed to make decisions for one's own kid? It doesn't matter whether people think it's ridiculous or not. It's not a big request to ask someone to take down a picture

No in this instance. You have no control over other peoples images of your children. It's not a big ask but they don't have to agree if they don't want to.

my sister in law doesnt allow anybody to taje pics of her 3 year old niece... we have never ever been allowed to take her pic. only pics that are allowed are ones that she has taken herself and she only posts them on fb if they r perfect... she posts loads everyday but nobody else is allowed even a picture of her at christmas i tried to take a group pic of her and my children and was told in no uncertain terms not to include my niece in the pic as she doesnt was any pics that may be "unflattering" of her daughter..

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