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To think this isn’t physically possible?

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QueenofmyPrinces · 27/07/2018 12:30

My cousin went on a date yesterday and she has been telling me about it this morning.

Apparently he told her that with his Ex they’d once has sex 13 times in one day?!!

My cousin seemed impressed by this whereas I thought he’s clearly lying.

Surely it can’t be possible?

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Haworthia · 27/07/2018 12:32

Whether he was lying or not, a man telling a woman that on a (first?) date is just creepy and immature as fuck. I hope she’s not going to see him again Grin

AjasLipstick · 27/07/2018 12:32

Well I'd not be impressed if a first date told me that! But of course it's physically possible. He needn't have come every time. "having sex" doesn't ultimately mean it has to be orgasmic. does it....no. It can just be a period of penetration.

Sparklingbrook · 27/07/2018 12:32

That's not really a conversation for a first date is it? Confused

LeighaJ · 27/07/2018 12:33

It's physically possible but he's probably lying and that's a weird conversation for a first date.

HirplesWithHaggis · 27/07/2018 12:34

Depending on age etc, but it averages out at roughly once every two.hours - doable, but probably painful for a few days after. I wouldn't be impressed, I would be running a mile in case he wanted to beat his record! Grin

ComtessedeLancret · 27/07/2018 12:34

Can’t imagine how that crops up into conversation on a first date or why he’d think it appropriate to share but it’s doable. With DH and I our record in 11 in the one day, we were on a cruise and it was the most fun activity we cared for lol

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 27/07/2018 12:34

Ugh. If that's the sort of expectation he has (or the sort of conversation he thinks is appropriate for a first date), I wouldn't be going for a second date.

Anxious2niteaaah · 27/07/2018 12:37

He sounds a sleaze to talk like that on a first date, first dates are for making good impressions and for finding out if there is an attraction or if you are compatible and have things in common and general getting to know each other...if that's his idea of first date talk then he's probably trying to get your cousin to be the next notch on his bedpost

NoelHeadbands · 27/07/2018 12:41

Well it was unlucky for some.

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QueenofmyPrinces · 27/07/2018 12:42

She’s not seeing him again Grin

She met him via OLD and said the reality of him was not quite the same as how he’d painted himself.

He was older than her and apparently spoke about his Exes and sexual history quite a lot in the hope of impressing my cousin I guess?

She was impressed that he had the stamina but said his conversations topics didn’t exactly endear her to him Grin

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QueenofmyPrinces · 27/07/2018 12:43

*endear him to her, obviously Grin

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Racecardriver · 27/07/2018 12:47

The most I've seen was seven. The most I have heard of is 9. I suppose it could be possible but I've never heard of such a thing.

longwayoff · 27/07/2018 12:48

Definitely lied about his age. Cant be more than 15 tears old surely?

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QueenofmyPrinces · 27/07/2018 12:54

He was early 40’s and my cousin is 30 so not a huge age gap.

They’ve been chatting online and texting for a few weeks and apparently he seemed like a really lovely man but my cousin soon realised he was a creep.

Apparently he’s text her asking to have a second date and she’s trying to figure out how to politely decline Grin

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QueenOfMyWorld · 27/07/2018 12:54

Once an hour?

moanykids18 · 27/07/2018 12:55

Why would you think its not possible?

HoppingPavlova · 27/07/2018 12:58

I’d be very confused (and very creeped out) and could not help my curiosity. I’d have to ask him why he is telling me this. Is it to impress me, to insinuate going back to his for a 13 session marathon, is he looking to beat his previous score? Why mention it at all? What a dickhead. Definitely no further dates.

DiegoMadonna · 27/07/2018 12:58

The most I've seen was seven. The most I have heard of is 9.

Wait... so you've watched someone have sex seven times in a day?

Beingthere · 27/07/2018 12:58

Perhaps he meant thrusts! 😂

LittleLionMansMummy · 27/07/2018 13:00

Possible I would think. Probable, not so much.

MsJinglyJones · 27/07/2018 13:01

Eeeeeeeeeeeewwww

That would put me right off, whether it was possible or not.

OctaviaOctober · 27/07/2018 13:01

Sex 13 times in one day is probably going to be followed by no sex for 4-5 days while the chafing heals, so it will all balance out.

FinallyHere · 27/07/2018 13:02

"having sex" doesn't ultimately mean it has to be orgasmic. does it....no. It can just be a period of penetration.

Not sure i see any point in counting, if no one reaches orgasm as a result. What would be the point?

eyycarumba · 27/07/2018 13:03

I've erm.. ahem.. erm... beaten that Blush - but we were both 17! Safe to say I couldn't walk properly the next day. Or two.

eightfacesofthemoon · 27/07/2018 13:04

Ok...
He’s clearly crap in bed then