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To think this isn’t physically possible?

71 replies

QueenofmyPrinces · 27/07/2018 12:30

My cousin went on a date yesterday and she has been telling me about it this morning.

Apparently he told her that with his Ex they’d once has sex 13 times in one day?!!

My cousin seemed impressed by this whereas I thought he’s clearly lying.

Surely it can’t be possible?

OP posts:
viques · 27/07/2018 13:04

Why is she thinking of declining the second date politely? tell him frankly his obsession with his alleged sexual prowess makes him a boring conversationalist and an unpleasant creep with no respect for women.

Disquieted1 · 27/07/2018 13:05

He was on the receiving end of 12 of them.

THEsonofaBITCH · 27/07/2018 13:08

Very strange thing to have come up early on unless he is trying too hard to impress and therefore likely lying. I had a girlfriend ask how many orgasms I've had with previous girlfriend in a 24 hour period - 6. She took that as a challenge and made it 7. Next girlfriend took up the challenge and made it 8. Next made it 9 and in self defence I married her so it wouldn't go any further! Grin

OliviaStabler · 27/07/2018 13:10

Apparently he’s text her asking to have a second date and she’s trying to figure out how to politely decline

It was lovey to meet you but I didn't feel any chemistry between us so I'll decline your invitation. Take care.

OlennasWimple · 27/07/2018 13:10

He clearly has a stash of little blue pills and doesn't care that it would be rather sore for his partner. Unless everything is over and done with very quickly indeed

cochineal7 · 27/07/2018 13:11

The point would just be to add to the tally. To impress future dates. As the other party of the 13 is now an ex, it clearly wasn’t impressive enough for her.

Maybugger · 27/07/2018 13:13

😳🙄
Romantic isn't he....not!

hooochycoo · 27/07/2018 13:15

Me and DH managed 12 in one day once when we first got together. But he didn’t come each time. I did though. Needs to be said though, we were both high at the time. And thoroughly knackered after.

IDontEatFriedTurtle · 27/07/2018 13:16

Very strange thing to have come up early on unless he is trying too hard to impress and therefore likely lying. I had a girlfriend ask how many orgasms I've had with previous girlfriend in a 24 hour period - 6. She took that as a challenge and made it 7. Next girlfriend took up the challenge and made it 8. Next made it 9 and in self defence I married her so it wouldn't go any further! grin

Yeah, 3 of your girls friends just happened to ask you that? Hmm

Op, I'm sure it's possible but I'd assume that he was a minute man as most people couldn't be up to hours of any strenuous physical exercise. It's not actually impressive. don't tell matey up thread though eh

Bluntness100 · 27/07/2018 13:17

Ive no idea why he would tell her about his sex life with an ex, but yes it's hugely possible....

IDontEatFriedTurtle · 27/07/2018 13:17

Apparently he’s text her asking to have a second date and she’s trying to figure out how to politely decline

She doesn't have to be polite! "no thanks, I value my vagina too much".

delphguelph · 27/07/2018 13:17

Does he not have a job?

longwayoff · 27/07/2018 13:18

Politely decline? This is no time to worry about manners. What for?

whatwouldkeithRichardsdo2 · 27/07/2018 13:19

Always pays to listen.

I was once told by a guy that he had posed himself on a date and still managed to get a shag out of it. Also, the lady at the table behind us came over to me when he had gone to the loo to run for the hills.

I should have listened. He has made a terrible husband.

Always listen.

whatwouldkeithRichardsdo2 · 27/07/2018 13:20

*pissed

🤣

BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 27/07/2018 13:20

I'm always sceptical about the "five times a night romps" that the News of the World used to specialise in.

SendintheArdwolves · 27/07/2018 13:21

she's trying to figure out how to politely decline

Man spends date bragging about his sexual history. Woman is creeped out and doesn't want to have a second date. But how to say no without HURTING HIS FEELINGS???

Male entitlement is bred so deeply into our culture that women have to put a creepy guys momentary disappointment over their own feelings of repulsion.

I'm not criticising your friends reluctance - I've felt it myself. When I was Internet dating I had to steel myself to say firm things like "thanks for the offer but I'm really not interested" or "I don't want to see you again". It felt unbearably rude the first few times (and I had to force myself not to add "sorry" or "I'm afraid that it's a no" or other little apologies to soften the rejection) but it's OK to tell a guy you don't want to see him again.

TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 27/07/2018 13:21

Maybe it was just one marathon session with a lot of position changes where he took it out and then put it back in?

IDontEatFriedTurtle · 27/07/2018 13:30

Maybe it was just one marathon session with a lot of position changes where he took it out and then put it back in?

That's just sex isn't it??

THEsonofaBITCH · 27/07/2018 13:31

Yeah, 3 of your girls friends just happened to ask you that?
One asked, rest came up in conversation about previous relationships - do you not discuss previous relationships and sex with partners you've been with a long time? I've always had sex and prior relationships come up - but usually after we've dated for quite a while not first thing. I think not discussing priors is weird but maybe its just me/us. Confused

TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 27/07/2018 13:33

Exactly Turtle

AjasLipstick · 27/07/2018 13:34

Finally sex isn't only about orgasm. It can be fabulous without.

OP...why does she have to "politely decline" him? Confused She should just tell him to fuck off.

Mookatron · 27/07/2018 13:36

If you can concentrate on the number, you're not doing it right imo. 'Right, let's go in for number eleven, love!'

MoonsAndJunes · 27/07/2018 13:36

Apparently he’s text her asking to have a second date and she’s trying to figure out how to politely decline

I suggest she tells him that she wants someone who realises that there's more to life than shagging & that potentially spending all day in bed with him doesn't appeal! Grin

FilledSoda · 27/07/2018 13:37

He sounds absolutely grim .