For making dp order takeaway when I caught him double dipping :O :O

[ItsAllABitStrangeReally]

Apparently I am.

I was stood talking to him and it was one of those did I just see that moments.

Not only does he have a stinking but he licked the fucking spoon out the curry then plonked it back in to stir it. Potentially killing us all in the process. Absolute minger.

Apparently everyone does it (( they don't))

So AIBU in making him order takeaway from the rather amazing curry house up the road ?? lets face It, takeaway curry always tastes better and I have the perfect excuse

If he's still cooking the sauce any germs will be killed...

I assume you've never kissed the man then. ..

He's your dp, chances are you've had his genitals in your mouth but worried about double dipping...

Not when he's dripping with cold no.

YABU - unless basically you,were just using any rubbish execute to get a takeaway

I assume you never kiss the guy then...

YABU. Double dipping in close family is absolutely fine.

That sounds very wrong, but you know what I mean

YAB a bit U, he’s not a stranger, you know where he’s been. I do it, I’m sure if my OH ever cooked something that wasnt oven heated, he’d do it, wouldn’t bother me. Would I like it done in a restaurant? No, not really.

My oldest DC would react the same as you. I think she's being a drama queen. We kiss each other. Germs are already shared. What's the issue?

YABU , for the reasons given by pp re having an intimate relationship with this person , having a cold makes no difference .

Oh, yuck. YANBU.

Double dipping is fine with people I exchange bodily fluids with.

But not when they have a cold. Yuk.

I'd eat a half licked ice cream off my dc - they've been in my body. Same goes with my husband - we've had kids together.

My Dh is v v fussy and would've reacted exactly like you have though

Potentially killing us all in the process.

Bit extreme! If you saw a restaurant chef do it? You'd be right to complain? But the man you swap bodily fluids with? Totally different!

You want to see wht goes on in professional kitchens! Start playing up - lick fingers - plate up some more - lick fingers - finish plating - lick lick lick.

Though I wouldn't do it if the other person had a cold

Still say heat would kill the germs though

Do it. YANBU. Love a good takeaway and if your DP is that bothered he can still have his and save the second portion for himself for tomorrow night. Sorted

You’ll live!

Potentially killing you how...?

Picking pickles out of the jar with fingers is far worse.

I hardly think the curry will be fatal now

I seriously advise you never to set foot in a restaurant kitchen.

Surely you'd just let it boil for two minutes?

Are you being serious?

What a massive waste of food and cooking time. Don’t be so precious! You think a cold virus lives in a hot cooking curry? And yeah if you sleep in a bed with him or kiss him or have sex, you’ll be covered in his germs all the time.