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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Are you a feminist? Just a yes or no.

999 replies

RedHareWithBlondeHair · 09/02/2018 17:16

No need to go further into your reasoning if you don't want to but this has always a been curious issue to me and came up today with one of my colleagues. She is a feminist by how she described her beliefs but doesn't actually adopt the term.

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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 09/02/2018 19:09

Dd was talking about a poet she has to look at for gcse

The description said ' such and such is a fierce feminist)

So i said 'are you a fierce feminist'

And she said 'yes but she is a lesbian '

I did explain that being one didnt mean you had to be the other Grin

BertrandRussell · 09/02/2018 19:09

All feminists are “supportive of sex workers”. Some of us are not supportibe of pimps and punters.

Sorry, OP. I am trying to sit on my hands, I promise!

BertrandRussell · 09/02/2018 19:11

“There was a thread on here recently about someone being annoyed that a man held a door open to let her go first“

Was there? Are you sure? Really sure?

thatwouldbeanecumenicalmatter · 09/02/2018 19:12

Yes!

SusanBunch · 09/02/2018 19:12

Rufus was it Carol Ann Duffy? Her poems are great!

BertrandRussell · 09/02/2018 19:12
strugglingtodomybest · 09/02/2018 19:13

yes

ButchyRestingFace · 09/02/2018 19:13

Yes. Obviously.

camperjam · 09/02/2018 19:13

Yes

Timefortea99 · 09/02/2018 19:14

Yes

PompholyxOfUnknownOrigin · 09/02/2018 19:14

Yes

IfNot · 09/02/2018 19:14

Yes.
I don't think women are the same as men, but we deserve freedom from violence and objectification, and equality of opportunity. I would like to see what that is like, since we have never had it.
I don't much care if it makes men feel uncomfortable when I point out GLARING inequalities. Cry me a river.
Yeah, that wasn't one word was it?!

PurlPurl · 09/02/2018 19:14

Yes

PerfectlyDone · 09/02/2018 19:15

Yes, how could I not be?

Anybody in possession of a vagina who wants to have sole say over what happens to it and how they are treated because of it is a feminist - whether they know it or not! Grin

ifherbumwereabungalow · 09/02/2018 19:16

Yes.

busyboysmum · 09/02/2018 19:16

Yes Grin

Viviennemary · 09/02/2018 19:17

No

BlackEyedKid · 09/02/2018 19:17

Yes. And baffled by the no’s.

StargazyDrifter · 09/02/2018 19:18

Yes, most certainly, and also becoming more so as I get older.

windchimesabotage · 09/02/2018 19:18

bertrandrussel I think some people want it made entirely illegal. That is what I meant. I support the legalisation of prostitution and I dont think pornography should be made illegal. Im not saying you do! I was merely commenting that I see a lot of that view on mumsnet and so maybe some of those people would not consider me a feminist.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 09/02/2018 19:19

susan

Aah yes you are right it was Carol ann Duffy

I just couldn't be bothered to check with dd Grin

Mrsmiguelcervantes · 09/02/2018 19:20

Yes

GreenSeededGrape · 09/02/2018 19:20

Yes I always have been and my df was one too so I never really labelled it, it's just the way it was in my house.

As a dm to 2 dd I'm even more determined to fight for equality and support the ideal of movements like #metoo.

PencilsInSpace · 09/02/2018 19:21

Yes.

shaggedthruahedgebackwards · 09/02/2018 19:22

Yes

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