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To say dating sites don't randomly just appear in email junk boxes?

99 replies

QueenofmyPrinces · 15/01/2018 13:54

Or do they?

It was my understanding that emails may be sent from dating websites and end up in the Junk Mail section but only if the website has been accessed/viewed at some point?

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flirtygirl · 15/01/2018 15:07

Absolutely yabu, they are in mine every week with viagra and penis extension ones also and they know the county i live in and my age group. They are very targetted.

It doesn't mean that you have ever been to their website. They just target and send out what seems like millions of emails.

Groovee · 15/01/2018 15:09

Never been on a dating site ever yet still get junk mail.

Weedsnseeds1 · 15/01/2018 15:10

I get all sorts of targeted spam. I travel a lot for work and a couple of days after I have been somewhere, I'll get messages for Uber eats in Houston, or a news feed for Manchester, hot girls in Belfast or whatever.
I think if you use anything like Google maps or FB it identifies your location and a few days later the spam catches up with where it thinks you live.

ChardonnaysPrettySister · 15/01/2018 15:12

Oh yes they do.

I get them, I’ve never subscribed to one.

BhajiAllTheWay · 15/01/2018 15:13

I get them in my work spam!! Definately unsolicited. Really not interested in " doing sex with horny Russian babes" but they keep appearing.

LittleMyLikesSnuffkin · 15/01/2018 15:16

I keep getting ads for viagra in mine.

I have never had any issues with erectile disfunction. More crucially I am not even male.

I think it can be random. Well it must be actually at least a lot of the time.

QueenofmyPrinces · 15/01/2018 15:18

Blimey - I never get online dating emails in my inbox or penis enlargement information, sounds like I'm missing out.

I was in DH's Trash box because I was looking for an old email that contained information about our Government funding codes as we need it for new childcare arrangements and just couldn't quite take in how many emails there were from this dating website.

He hasn't read any of the emails, they were all marked as Unread but I genuinely thought such websites could only email you if you've registered or visited the website but apparently I was wrong!

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StopTheRoundabout · 15/01/2018 15:18

My DH keeps getting junk spam for Viagra in Canada [confuse] He definitely has no requirement for it and hasn't been googling it. Wink There are lots of third party spam advertisers using other companies cookie information which is not necessarily related to browsing.

danTDM · 15/01/2018 15:20

YABU I get them every bloody week. It really annoys me. For my area too if that makes a difference. I have no friends here so it isn't a prank or something!

Women and men! Hmm and porn sites, lovely.

GuntyMcGee · 15/01/2018 15:21

I get all sorts of shit.

Several 'matches' on online dating waiting for me, Russian, Thai and Chinese brides, busty blondes wanting to fuck, viagra, penis enlargement - I don't have a penis, not into women and have never ever been on a dating site, let alone registered on one.

For some reason my location services seems to think I'm in a town 30 miles away from where I actually am so my spam has all of these delightful offers based there.

danTDM · 15/01/2018 15:21

Oh yes, I get the Canadian Viagra one too!

Jozxyqk · 15/01/2018 15:23

I also get masses of targeted spam with the nearest city on it. Male & female dating sites, of various ethnicities & types (think bondage, MILF etc). I've never been on a dating site in my life. I also get the usual penis enlargement rubbish, etc.

I also get a lot of junk mail for Karen, & have done for several years. Karen apparently lives many miles away but also gets a variety of spam, for her area. Karen also receives penis enlargement spam. Karen is not my name, BTW...

DenPerry · 15/01/2018 15:25

I get loads OP, "hundreds of singles in my area dying to meet me" Grin It sounds like you have other reasons to suspect him though?

QueenofmyPrinces · 15/01/2018 15:27

sounds like you have other reasons to suspect him though?

I don't at all - that's why I was so shocked to see them. If I knew emails like that were sent to the extent they are now I've read people's responses I wouldn't have thought twice.

Maybe if he'd read them I'd have reason to be suspicious... Grin

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smashbake · 15/01/2018 15:38

I get them addressed to my dog's name. Bit niche that.

Skarossinkplunger · 15/01/2018 15:46

My husband and I both get “Asian nudes” emails all the time. One of our inboxes will
ping, then the other one does straight after, it makes us giggle.

tigerrun · 15/01/2018 19:06

Ah, fair enough - my DH is fecking useless at technology and I do often have to do similar, hadn't thought of that reason for the ferreting about!

So as you weren't looking for trouble and you've been re-assured it's not your DH doing anything untoward then case closed I guess.

However if you'd like your penis enlarged or the details of hot and apparently 'horny' local women just waiting for your call it sounds like we all have some contact details here should that requirement suddenly arise (surely, just surely no-one actually clicks through do they?? Baffling.)

BlooBagoo · 15/01/2018 19:53

I signed up to some OLD sites a while before I met DH, I unregistered from them after we met, but there's one that for some reason wouldn't properly unregister, and they still email me constantly with matches in my area despite it being around 6-7 years ago when I used them. Goes into my main mailbox too but I just mark it as spam every time. DH certainly has no reason to be suspicious but I could understand if he saw it and wondered. I get random spam from sites I never registered with as well though so it could easily be that as others have said.

TheQueenOfWands · 15/01/2018 19:57

I get loads. My email provider thinks I'm into Asian girls.

Heartoffire · 15/01/2018 19:57

Get loads! Hope it’s reassured you op. Your dh is not a lothario. Grin

fishonabicycle · 15/01/2018 20:13

Yep. Loads of invites to grow my penis, or meet shekshy laydeez.

Whitecurrants · 15/01/2018 20:13

Am I the only one who gets inundated with emails offering to cure my toenail fungus?

QueenofmyPrinces · 15/01/2018 20:18

Lol. @ DH being a lothario.

Maybe because we met via OLD is why it freaked me out a little...

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CocaineAndCaviar · 15/01/2018 20:42

Just today in my spam box: Married Muslims dating, Christian singles, Sexy Single Russians, SilverSingles, Asian Beauties, Desperate Russians, Russian Brides, Russian Beauties, Fuckbuddy Hangouts, Fun Hangouts.

I've also got a delightful lady called Samantha informing me that she's ready to "fill her holes with toys", Dr Tinnitus telling me he's discovered a food that cures tinnitus, Monroe is sharing a private album with me and Veronica SexyGirl has sent me two private messages.

WhatWouldFlopDoToday · 15/01/2018 20:46

I always have bored housewives in my area looking to suck and fuck apparently. I know an awful lot of housewives in my area and none of them seem like sex people.

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