In what universe is this ok?

[Ambonsai]

Asking me at school pickup time if I think it would be ok if her husband climbed the mountain that my husband died on.

She'd make sure he got life insurance first

No no no.

What the fuck is wrong with that women.

I'm so sorry you've had to deal with that kind of twattery.

How did you respond??

Whaaaaat?
I hope you're ok.

I actually have no words!!

Sorry OP that's not on at all for her to say.

Did she know???!

Was it in jest, a bad joke as in shes annoyed with her husband?

Whatever it was, it's disgusting!!

Why is the husband planning to,climb the mountain? For charity? If so, maybe she wanted to,pass it by you in case you heard from someone else that he was planning on climbing it, and she didn't want to upset you.

The life insurance comment was a bit crass though.

No. Not ok to ask you.

I'm sorry she ever thought it would be ok.

Let alone making a joke? about life insurance

Is that it or more context (grasping at straws that she wasn't so insensitive)

Some people are just born stupid - sorry for your loss

Yes she knows
Not for charity, just for the challenge I guess.

She did preface with "I hope it's not inappropriate"
And then went on to tell me that she came across the newspaper article about it.
All in the school playground.
I was ok, but now I'm just gobsmacked really.

Fuck me, what an utter twat

There were two other mums there too

So sorry OP, who knew that there are so many cretins in the world.

Shitting hell. WHAT was she thinking.

I'm just trying to imagine her having a conversation in her head thinking "oh I'll have to catch Bonsai and ask her about the mountain"!

Bloody hell. What a thing to ask

Grossly insensitive.

Wow! Twenty points for sensitivity! I hope you just death stared her down.

Oh wow, horrid of her.

So sorry OP I hope your kids didn't hear.

OP That's appallingly insensitive. So sorry 💐