Ive been with dp for 4 years and his children's lives for 3. He was a colleague of mine and we started seeing eachother 4 months after his marriage ended. He did not leave her for me. There is 3 dc aged between 5 and 8. They are with us eow and a night in the week.
I have a great relationship with the kids, i couldn't love them any more if i tried and for the most part its fine.
The issue is his ex. She has never spoken to me. Never looked in my direction. She tells dp she refuses to deal with me. The dc are not allowed to mention my name to her. I gather she believes that if dp hadn't met me then she could have got him back. Dp says that isn't true.
We're getting married soon. Should i just accept that this is how it will always be? Dp had the flu a few months ago and got out of bed to take the dc home because he was too afraid that she'd flip if i dropped them off..
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foursthescore · 22/07/2017 01:25
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