To be a bit freaked out

[bibbetybobbetybooo]

Ok.. I know I shouldn't be, but tonight DS has toddled into our room and seen us doing, stuff! Not full sex, but masturbating and whilst I don't think he saw much, I'm massively weirded out by it.
I'm being daft, right?!

Anyone?

How old is DS?

It's practically inevitable that they catch you at some point. Don't worry, he won't be bothered.

Er yeah it IS weird IMO. And I WOULD be freaked out ifI were you. I bet your DS was. Poor devil! Why the heck would you not lock or secure the door?!

How old is DS?

I would never have been able to look any of my kids in the eye again if they had caught us 'doing stuff.' Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

2 kids at home for 20 years - never ever caught us.

Ever.

As I said, why would you not secure the door/lock the door?

Please don't listen to littlefrog. Shit happens! He will have forgotten about it before you know it! I caught my parents having sex and I hated it but it hasn't scarred me for life!

Shut the door next time and teach them that if the door is shit we knock. Everyone. Before we come in.

He's nearly three. Little bugger scaled the baby gate. We thought he was safely fast asleep and imprisoned in his room. Apparently not! Luckily the bedding covered us mostly!

*shut

Happens to a lot of parents. Relax it wasn't intentional don't beat yourselves up. Just be more careful from now on. The cringe factor will fade in time.

I walked in on my parents having full sex when I was about nine. Quilt off, everything visible missionary position

Scarred me for all of three hours, before my Mum "had a chat" with me

How old is your DS? I'm guessing young ("toddled"). Be prepared for a question on why you were tickling Daddy's willy.

Never look your kid in the eye again? FFS.

It was kind of a sleepy toddle in. Our door doesn't lock - might need to look into a way to secure it!

Bloody hell frog

Just let it go and dont listen to any po faced boosum hoikers neither.

Put a little hook and eye on the door or a bolt. It comes in handy anyway.

God forbid anyone should have a different opinion on here (to the masses!) You get fucking jumped on!

Have you read the comment about a baby gate, frog?
I think your reaction is a bit OTT! It's not like we made it easy for him to just walk in there!

Personally I am not OK and never HAVE been OK with my kids seeing me and DH shagging. Even if YOU are OK with it
Careful. That's a pretty disgusting interpretation of anyone's post.

I am still entitled to my views.

Alright keep your hair on!

Nowhere does it say she wanted her ds to see it! Get a grip!

First time he's escaped and it just had to be one of the first time in ages that we've done stuff! Typical.
I'm still cringing but I'm calmer! Thank you to most of you.
Hook and eye thingy being bought tomorrow

OP isn't saying she is ok with it. I imagine she is going to be able to look her child in the eye again though, I imagine never offering eye contact to her child again will be a lot more damaging than seeing her and her DP having foreplay.

Oh FFS report me then if you're so precious and think my post is disgusting!

At NO point did I say we were shagging - he toddled in and we were kind of doing stuff, but nothing major
I would clearly NEVER want him to see anything - thus my concern and embarrassment.
Don't godmod me on my post, please.

Oh give over, Littlefrog, who said they want their kids to see it? That's a ridiculous stretch and you know it. Of course nobody wants their kids to see it, but neither is a 3yo about to be scarred for life by something they don't even comprehend.

I don't know anyone who has a lock on their bedroom door.