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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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ColourfulOrangex · 10/01/2017 09:28

I can't believe she still hasn't moved her car! Hope you feel better OP Flowers

JustSpeakSense · 10/01/2017 09:28

Nicolarse & Cuntaline Grin love it!

Hope you start feeling better soon op

redpriestandmozart · 10/01/2017 09:29

I so think Caroline & Nicholas have been texting back and forwards all night, he will give her the heads up when OP moves her car.. they're in this together, they've been up all night plotting.

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 10/01/2017 09:30

I predict she will turn up all apologetic with flowers, blame Nicholas and disappoint the whole of mumsnet. Of course I'm crossing my fingers for a more dramatic conclusion as its my day off work and I've nothing to doGrin

fuckoffdailysnail · 10/01/2017 09:33

I'm on the way to my friends house who is also following this thread!! We will be too busy following for updates to actually have a catch up as we intended Blush

TheMaddHugger · 10/01/2017 09:33

Despite all the fun and games due to caroline's car.

(((((((Hugs)))))))) and hope you feel much better soon OP. Get well Soon .

BubbleFairy · 10/01/2017 09:37

I think you should get in the car, drive to end of the road, count to twenty, and then return, to catch her in the act

BubbleFairy · 10/01/2017 09:37

Ps get well soon

CotswoldStrife · 10/01/2017 09:38

Please tell me you are getting a taxi to the doctors today - I just wouldn't let Caroline creep away quietly. Have you contacted the Police on the non-emergency number because they can contact the driver for you.

Manumission · 10/01/2017 09:38

But even if you do get better soon, PLEASE immediately develop Political Chickenpox a la Jerry in The Good Life. Smile

UptheAnty · 10/01/2017 09:38

Op- I certainly wouldn't be allowing the carpet to park on your drive. I'm sorry if that sounds callous but Nicholas has already proven to you that he is not reasonable and in fact is very entitled. What happens when you have s day off or you're ill or when it's no longer convenient? Do you think he will understand and just appreciate past help? Mmmm ...NO. More likely he will just take the piss more in the future.
Why can't he free up his drive for the carer? Either way not your problem- you're setting a dangerous precedent.....

Manumission · 10/01/2017 09:40

Carpet?? ConfusedGrin

UptheAnty · 10/01/2017 09:40

*carer

And - should you go and knock on for Caroline? Is she in the trunk??Shock

UptheAnty · 10/01/2017 09:41

Maybe Caroline is in a rolled up carpet in the trunk...

Stopmithering · 10/01/2017 09:41

Go out in the car but wait just round the corner, where you can see your drive but not be seen by Caroline. When she rocks up (prob within 2 minutes of you leaving) pull in right behind her so she has no escape.
She's definitely waiting for the all clear. Probably crapping herself.

CotswoldStrife · 10/01/2017 09:41

And when Caroline does collect her car, if she's a neighbour I would be really tempted to block her in ON HER OWN DRIVE when she's on it but not have the chutzpah to do it

schmack · 10/01/2017 09:41

Hope you feel better soon OP, please get a taxi to the GP - don't think you're well enough to drive .......

trulybadlydeeply · 10/01/2017 09:42

Please get this resolved and find out who Caroline is, so i can actually do some work today!

Isitjustmeorisiteveryoneelse · 10/01/2017 09:42

Maybe Caroline doesn't exist. Maybe she's Nicholarse's alter ego. Grayson Perry style.

Blatherskite · 10/01/2017 09:42

This thread is going to run out of space soon!

Come ON Caroline!!!

Mummyrowland · 10/01/2017 09:42

Shameless place marking

TheMaddHugger · 10/01/2017 09:43

I agree, you are tooooo sick to drive..... take a taxi Wink

C8H10N4O2 · 10/01/2017 09:43

55 messages left to find the answer, who is starting 'Caroline stole my drive/2'?

Trunkisareshite · 10/01/2017 09:44

I really hope when caz shows up she has a go at you for blocking her in. That would surely make this the winner of all parking threads if that happens.

Could you imagine? *sighs dreamily

User006point5 · 10/01/2017 09:44

Where do you live? Surely someone on this thread can drive you to the doctor, to ensure Caroline doesn't escape...

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