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Asher for a non-Jewish child?

65 replies

SarahAnderson · 15/06/2016 11:06

Just that really. I LOVE the name. Love it. But we're not Jewish. Would you think it weird?

If is relevant, my husband, myself and our first daughter all have names which could be Jewish but aren't necessarily. (e.g. Leah, Rebecca). I just feel like maybe this one tips us over into, 'Why are you pretending you're Jewish when you're not?' territory.

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halcyondays · 15/06/2016 11:09

Never heard of that name before so wouldn't have thought anything really.

AppleSetsSail · 15/06/2016 11:09

I wasn't even aware that it's a Jewish name! I really don't think there's any issue here. I've known a fair few non-Jewish Rebeccas in my time.

WorraLiberty · 15/06/2016 11:10

Jewish people don't own that name. No-one owns a name Confused

If anyone's thick enough to assume you're pretending to be Jewish, just because you chose it, just laugh at them and don't entertain the silly question.

DramaAlpaca · 15/06/2016 11:11

If you love it, use it.

AppleSetsSail · 15/06/2016 11:13

I also think it's a darn cute name for a little boy.

SarahAnderson · 15/06/2016 11:14

Thanks.

To clarify I'm not saying 'Rebecca' is an exclusively Jewish name - it clearly isn't. (It IS a Jewish name, but it's also a Christian name.)

I guess I've just never heard of anyone called Asher who WASN'T Jewish.

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MerryMarigold · 15/06/2016 11:15

My friends are not Jewish and have an Asher (boy). They are Christian though so it's a biblical name. I also know an Asha (girl) which is an Indian name. I think it's a great name.

SarahAnderson · 15/06/2016 11:15

It means 'happy' or 'blessed', and the nickname would be Ash, which I love (clearly I think more of the tree connotations than the smoking ones!)

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MerryMarigold · 15/06/2016 11:18

I think you should go for it. I have a Jude which is a Jewish name originally (or Catholic after the saint) and I am neither.

Alisvolatpropiis · 15/06/2016 11:27

I like it, however in my accent Asher and Asha sound exactly the same.

Hirosleaftunnel · 15/06/2016 11:33

I once knew a Catholic Asher, he was hot. Thanks for bringing the memory back. Blush lovely name.

SarahAnderson · 15/06/2016 11:34

Mine too :)
Whevs.

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SarahAnderson · 15/06/2016 11:34

Oops, crosspost, I meant 'mine too' regarding the accent, not the hot Catholic!

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HostaFireandIce · 15/06/2016 11:35

I know an Asher who's not Jewish. I think it's a great name, and anyway, it's no different from the plethora of Noahs and Isaacs. It's just a bit more original!

BoxofSnails · 15/06/2016 11:39

The old testament names don't get used exclusively by Jews - I say go for it. There are lots of Sarahs, Daniels, Josephs, Benjamins, etc in atheist, Christian families - most of the 'traditional' names have OT roots. It's a lovely name for a little boy.

pinkmagic1 · 15/06/2016 11:42

I think if you are of Christian origin you can also use Jewish names as most are just old testament names. Asher is Lovely.

Alisvolatpropiis · 15/06/2016 11:42

Sarah

It doesn't bother me tbh just thought I'd mention it Grin

Juanbablo · 15/06/2016 12:00

The only Asher I've heard of is part of a very Christian family. I wasn't aware it was a Jewish name. I have a Hebrew name but I am of no religion at all.

Mouthfulofquiz · 15/06/2016 12:05

I have accidentally given all of my boys completely catholic names, and we aren't Catholic... Well my MIL was, back when she was a schoolgirl.
Anyway - my point is, go for it - it's a great name!!

AdjustableWench · 15/06/2016 12:05

I think it might seem odd if you chose a Hebrew version of a name for your non-Jewish child, like Moshe, Shmuel or Yitzhak. Traditionally, Christians have used transliterations (Moses, Samuel or Isaac). And it would be really quite unusual if you chose a Yiddish version of a name, such as Yankel (Jacob), Dovid (David) etc.

But Asher is used by both Jewish and Christian communities, and their secular counterparts. And it's a lovely name!

blueskyinmarch · 15/06/2016 12:07

Asher is my MIL’s maiden name (so a surname). It is used by family members as a middle name. They family are not jewish at all as far as we are aware, and they have traced the family tree way far back many generations. I think it is a lovely name. Go for it.

JacquesHammer · 15/06/2016 12:11

My sister and I have both got Jewish names and we're not Jewish.

I don't think anyone would bat an eyelid.

Very lovely name

Buttock · 15/06/2016 12:12

Asher is also an Arabic name. It's my cousin's name.

MLGs · 15/06/2016 16:25

Asher is a beautiful name.

Had never heard of it til now but it's lovely.

sunnydayinmay · 15/06/2016 16:31

The Asher I know is not Jewish. In fact, his parents are very lapsed Christians. Cool name.