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Tricky situation, please help!

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manicattack · 15/02/2016 13:34

Ok where to start, My girlfriends best friend has put me in a bit of a bind, she decided she's ready to not only talk to girls on this plenty of fish site but she's been actually going out and meeting up.

At first i kinda thought its not my business but then i realised that my girlfriend also new all about this too and had obvioviously been keeping it a secret, well my girlfriend told me about this kiss her best friend had the other night with this group of other lesbians.

im devasted i actually get on better with my girlfriends bestfriends girlfriend and i totally adore the baby, but now i m not going to be able to sit with them knowing i could just get an attack of the guilt monster and just blurt it out it as it has happened before.

Mind you she's no angel, she has slept with men in the past, but i thought after they planned their baby and she was born they would all end up with their happy ending.

Im worried about when it does come out and she knows i knew and i never said anything, will she hate me too?, im not great at lying and if she asked me she'd no there was something wrong .

what do i do?

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werewolfinladderedtights · 15/02/2016 18:15

Is books with spines facing in a thing now?

Op I would stay out of it.

decisionsdecisions123 · 15/02/2016 18:22

Nevermind phoning them. You need to get round there RIGHT NOW and have it out with them (and the nephew).

ElderlyKoreanLady · 15/02/2016 18:33

Not a fan of floating shelves myself. Got one of them sets that look like floating boxes and they just seem to acquire shite. And they do nothing to house my huge book collection.

manicattack · 15/02/2016 18:39

Try pintrest there are some amazing ideas

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ElderlyKoreanLady · 15/02/2016 18:45

Not looking for anything that would be classed as a feature piece nowadays manic. A family member built my a lovely unit for my feature wall. Two large shelves with my electronics on the top and books on the bottom with the wiring housed behind them. The whole thing is supported by the type of fancy iron brackets that posh people use for hanging baskets and he did me a matching coffee table too. A 50 stone bloke could do the Cancan on it and it's so solid it'd beg for more Grin

Patapouf · 15/02/2016 19:05

Wtf??

Advice: mind your own business, it's not your relationship so keep your nose out. HTH

manicattack · 15/02/2016 20:20

Sounds great i ve just finihed building my internal doors breath ,they really look great breath.My house was adjusted for wheel chair use breath, so it was cheaper to make my own.

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MissFlight · 15/02/2016 20:28

Hold on, I think I need my glasses and doctionary........

MissFlight · 15/02/2016 20:29

Or maybe dictionary?

manicattack · 15/02/2016 20:38

May be a sense of humor would help too 😂

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decisionsdecisions123 · 15/02/2016 20:46

And the award for using the word 'breath' as many times as possible in one post goes to........

jellycat1 · 15/02/2016 20:56

Where did ohshutupthomas go? Come back please - you were killing me GrinGrin

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