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AIBU?

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School asked me for 20p

195 replies

MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:06

Ds is going on a field trip. I'm always really busy (aren't we all), partly because I help out with lots of community things and one is the school committee.
I spend a lot of money when funds don't come through to cover for stuff that's asked for or needed by teachers etc., it goes without saying that I have given a lot of my time at events.
School asks for money to pay for school trip. I mistakenly underpay by 20p.
I get a call from the school asking me to bring in the 20p.
AIBU to be a bit miffed.

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BadgersArse · 11/05/2015 22:07

its got to come from somewhere

Littlefish · 11/05/2015 22:07

Yes, you are being unreasonable. Just pay the 20p.

MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:08

Yes, I knew that, but do you not think that they could have wavered it on this occasion considering the fact that I have probably given hundreds in the short time my ds has been there.

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Dublinlass · 11/05/2015 22:08

Never hears the likes. I'd be annoyed too especially if you're helping out all year around Shock

mrsfuzzy · 11/05/2015 22:08

a bit petty isn't it ?

MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:09

Little fish I AM paying the 20p. That's really not the point. If you read the op again it doesn't say I don't want to pay it.

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Eigg · 11/05/2015 22:09

I think personally I'd be embarrassed that I'd underpaid rather than miffed.

If you went to a tourist attraction and underpaid by 20p they'd ask you for it - what's the difference?

DirtyDancing · 11/05/2015 22:09

Yes very. Just pay 20p. God I'll even pay it for you!

MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:10

Mrsfuzzy you mean of them?

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BadgersArse · 11/05/2015 22:10

you dont know how many parents underpay

you know what bean counters are like - ruthless.

WireCat · 11/05/2015 22:11

It's very petty isn't it.

MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:11

Dirty dancing. Again I'll say it. I am not asking should I pay and AIBU if I don't. I am going to pay it.

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Eigg · 11/05/2015 22:12

But what if lots of people underpaid? Should those who volunteer not have to cough up?

BadgersArse · 11/05/2015 22:12

think the ' stuff i do for the school' is irrelevant, unless you are expecting a reduction off all trips?

Bair · 11/05/2015 22:12

I wonder how much the phone call cost.

hesterton · 11/05/2015 22:12

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MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:13

Eigg I don't charitably pay tourist attractions hundreds of pounds.

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BadgersArse · 11/05/2015 22:13

in all - just cough up - you didnt pay enough. At what point WOULD you think it is worthwhile them contacting you? £1? £5?

its like speeding at 31 in a 31 and complaining - the limit has to be set somewhere

MeggyMooAndTinkerToo · 11/05/2015 22:13

Where I work payments for school trips are paid into a specific account and the cost of the trip needs to balance with whats paid into that account. I understand what you're saying but I think YABU. If every parent mistakenly underpaid then who would pay the shortfall? I know our school couldn't afford to pay a shortfall as we have very little in the school fund.

PiperIsTerrysChoclateOrange · 11/05/2015 22:13

I believe that school trips that are part of the teaching it a voluntary donation.

It looks like OP can afford to pay the extra 20p but some parents may not have been able to contribute the full amount

MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:14

Badgers it's fairly obvious I underpaid as a mistake. They know the kind of person I am and how much time and effort I put in to the school

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MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:14

Eigg lots of people did not underpay.

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TigerFeat · 11/05/2015 22:14

If you're happy to pay the money anyway why are you miffed?

Yabu.

DoMeDon · 11/05/2015 22:15

Yabu to be miffed, you underpaid they told you Confused

MoanCraft · 11/05/2015 22:15

Badgers I a, not expecting a reduction in trips. What a silly thing to say. I clearly said I underpaid by mistake.

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