Long time lurker, first time poster. Please be gentle, as I am a sensitive soul (which makes me think maybe IABU).
I got some suits delivered last night. Both my husband and I got home late, and I tried them on to show him. He made appropriate noises to them, and then told me to turn my collar up on one and do a pose for him.
I didn't want to do that, as I'm not a poser and quite shy. To which he said "fuck your collar and fuck your suit then" and refused to speak to me all night.
This morning I got up and when I came out of the shower he grabbed me, pulled me close and asked me what was wrong with me. I said, "You mean what's wrong with you? It's not acceptable to swear at people for something as stupid as not turning up a collar," - this was said very calmly.
He said, "What's wrong with you? You don't refuse to do something as stupid as that for someone else," and stormed off and wouldn't say goodbye.
He's now texted to say he's stopping at his male friend's house as the friend has just got out of hospital tonight. I don't expect him back before I go to bed.
AIBU? Really? It's not the first time he's taken the opportunity to blow up at me for something this small.