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to find this Facebook status fucking disgusting?!

57 replies

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:38

X is feeling disgusted, with the comment "cannot believe why certain people are cheering for Germany. Have they forgotten what they did to their ancestors?"

Wtaf!?!?

I am disgusted at reading that! I am defriendig but I dont know whether to tackle it first.

She is a work colleague. Not in my department and I thought she was alright but I.am.shocked and disgusted.

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Showoffer1 · 13/07/2014 23:39

Another fb thread Hmm

Squidstirfry · 13/07/2014 23:40

Racist.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:41

Sorry Show? This is my first thread about FB.

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SwiftRelease · 13/07/2014 23:41

That is disgusting

Pumpkinpositive · 13/07/2014 23:42

More xenophobic than racist, I would have thought.

Not a viewpoint I've never heard expressed before, but usually by those who can actually remember the Blitz. Grin

LEMmingaround · 13/07/2014 23:43

Some people are idiots. Your colleague is one of them

onedev · 13/07/2014 23:43

I've also defriended someone tonight for a horrible status related to Germany & Argentina - some people are just wankers unfortunately.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:44

Its just she seems to be branding the whole nation by the actions of an extremist group. I have German friends. Even if I didnt, I feel massively defensive against her awful.comment.

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passmethewineplease · 13/07/2014 23:44

Horrible horrible status.

STOPwiththehahaheheloling · 13/07/2014 23:44

I'm not sure i understand.

Are you X? Or has someone (X?) posted "X is disgusted ..."

BiscuitMillionaire · 13/07/2014 23:45

Maybe the colleague is referring to a Jewish friend, who lost ancestors in the Holocaust. It's possible.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:45

Im not x. Sorry. You know when you post a status and you can add an emoticon and an emotion?

X is hungry
X is bored etc

Then the actual.comment below.

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YouAreMyRain · 13/07/2014 23:45

Does "x" realise that Britain were at war with Argentina more recently that with Germany?

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:46

So the Jewish friend is cheering Germany on, and she is then judging the Jewish friend for cheering on Germany "after what they did to their ancestors"?

Just adds another layer to it imo. The Jewish football fan can surrly cheer for whoever they want.

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TheHandbagOfGlory · 13/07/2014 23:47

My DH is German and sadly people do make comments like that, im never sure how to deal with it.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:48

I dont know what to do with it either. I want to stand up to it. I cannot be the only person who has seen it who has felt this opposed to it.

Yet I am an acquantance. Not a friend.

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STOPwiththehahaheheloling · 13/07/2014 23:48

Ah so The status reads "X is feeling disgusted. cannot believe why..."?

It is possible that someone they know to have lost family to the nazi's is celebrating Germany's win? And that X finds that odd/thinks they shouldnt celebrate?

STOPwiththehahaheheloling · 13/07/2014 23:50

Xposting.

YourKidsYourRulesHunXxx · 13/07/2014 23:50

Tell her that she is a silly fuck then delete.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:50

Possibly.

But the footballers and residents of current Germany cannot be held accountable for the actions of the Nazis.

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Finola1step · 13/07/2014 23:51

Good grief. Really? How can grown people be so silly? Makes me want to find a brick wall so that I can softly bang my head against it.

I did remark to DH that I never thought I would see the day that I would be supporting Germany but that was in reference to the number of times Germany have beaten England in big competitions. Not because of wars! Idiots.

SwiftRelease · 13/07/2014 23:52

My instinctive criteria for fb defriending:

Blatant advertising at me via supposedly informal, friendly channel- so someone sat on my friend request for 2 years when she suddenly decided that i and 20 others were suddenly worth knowing in order to flog her forever living crap Angry. Instant defriend.

People who have turned out not to be genuine in some way

And then those who suddenly say/do something obnoxious like Op's friend.

The irritating and the narcissists i just hide!

TucsonGirl · 13/07/2014 23:52

If people can blame British people today for slavery and oppression of British empire countries in the past, or for that matter, any other country for doing the same years ago, I don't see how Germany should be left off the hook for something that happened within living people's lifetime. I think it's ridiculous to blame individual Germans who weren't even alive at the time, and I haven't got a problem with Germany as a country. But there is a double standard I think.

TucsonGirl · 13/07/2014 23:53

And I should add, choosing allegiance at football due to past wars is absolutely ridiculous.

TucsonGirl · 13/07/2014 23:55

If they're Jewish they'd also know that Argentina supported the Nazis during the war and many Nazi war criminals fled to Argentina and lived there for years.

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