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to find this Facebook status fucking disgusting?!

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ThinkIveBeenHacked · 13/07/2014 23:38

X is feeling disgusted, with the comment "cannot believe why certain people are cheering for Germany. Have they forgotten what they did to their ancestors?"

Wtaf!?!?

I am disgusted at reading that! I am defriendig but I dont know whether to tackle it first.

She is a work colleague. Not in my department and I thought she was alright but I.am.shocked and disgusted.

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littlemissangrypants · 14/07/2014 10:37

Comments like that do not surprise me at all. I am german and my kids are half german. Throughout my own school time I was called a nazi and beaten. My children get the same now. When the school are questioned about it all I ever get is " well you are german, what do you expect."
My children know what happened in the war and have to live with the consequences of this all the time. They have never been to germany, never learnt the language and don't have a german surname. I try my best to protect them but we will never escape this.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 14/07/2014 10:46

Shock "well you are German, what do you expect?" That is utterly vile. Were you Muslim or Black African that would be considered wildely racist of the school to take that approach!

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ThinkIveBeenHacked · 14/07/2014 10:46

And it is racist to say it about your kids too. Forgot to add that on the end.

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BuildYourOwnSnowman · 14/07/2014 10:48

That's is horrible.

I guess dh and I have gone the other way and encourage a very positive attitude of Germany and ds already has a pretty good understanding of the complexities of wars and how they start (for his age). Mil always says 'there are no winners in war' and we go down that route too.

I had a German exchange and the first she said to me was 'I must apologise for the war'. I told her not to be silly - she hasn't started it! Goes to show how sensitive it is over there.

On the other side of the coin I did a tour of Boston and once the guide found out I was English there was nothing but digs at me and the English. It was really unpleasant so I kind of get how dh feels!

tinklykeys · 14/07/2014 10:53

I have relatives and friends who live in Germany. They have spoken about how hard it is to find a sense of national identity/pride given the history of the nation, even though as a different generation they have no responsibility for the past. I was rooting for them last night because I think as a country they deserve something to celebrate.

The ops 'friend's comment is quite sickening and completely graceless in my opinion....

Anniegetyourgun · 14/07/2014 11:18

Those who forget the lessons of history are doomed to repeat it. However, it depends what lessons you take from it - that Germans are evil, or that civilised countries can behave in very uncivilised ways when conditions encourage it? The latter IMO. There's plenty of xenophobia, disablism and other nastiness around in this very country in this very century. How many of the skinheads with Union Jack painted faces and a can of (quite possibly German!) lager in hand, raucously singing "Two world wars and one World Cup", hold as offensive views as any Nazi, and indeed would have been first in line to join the Hitler Youth if they'd happened to be born a few hundred miles away and a few decades ago? Most, I betcha. Bigots are always with us, and, sadly, sometimes they end up forming a government and leading a nation into all sorts of trouble with inflammatory rhetoric. UKIP

International relations ebb and flow, and one may point out that in all the wars we've had anything to do with in nearly 70 years, not to mention the humanitarian efforts, along with numerous treaties and trade agreements, our erstwhile enemies have been on the same side, pulling enthusiastically, for the most part, in more or less the same direction. They may be our enemies again some time in the future. Or they may pull us out of the shit dumped on us by some other nation we currently count as an ally. Who can tell?

ps My dad had a German surname, though he and his numerous siblings were all born in England to an English mother and joined the British forces, during WW2 or shortly afterwards. He knew about 3 short phrases in German. When my mother announced her engagement an aunt said gravely, "But my dear, he's German". My mother shot back promptly "so's the King". Aunt subsided with a shocked murmur of "You can't say things like that!"

MammaTJ · 14/07/2014 11:28

Does "x" realise that Britain were at war with Argentina more recently that with Germany?

This! Argentina still claim the Falklands belong to them, so it could all kick off again at any time!

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