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AIBU?

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to think that AIBU threads which start "to ask you..." should be banned?

66 replies

MardyBra · 14/06/2014 10:22

Yes. I'm still on my thread-policing high horse.

But if someone is "asking you", then they are just posting here for traffic.

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Singlesuzie · 14/06/2014 10:24

YANBU! At all. Those ones really grate. Just post in the right topic!

"AIBU to ask you all to recommend a steam mop/eyeshadow/primary school in kent?"

Yes, yes you are!

MilkandCereal · 14/06/2014 10:24

And so what if they are? YABVU.

ChaosTrulyReigns · 14/06/2014 10:27

And ones that start AIBU that?.

Grammer mattars dontchano?

MardyBra · 14/06/2014 10:28

Milk. Because it reeks of queue-jumping and bad etiquette to me. And irks my sense of fair play.

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MardyBra · 14/06/2014 10:28

What about spelling Chaos? [wunk]

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pluCaChange · 14/06/2014 10:29

I always ignore them, as they're dull.

gamerchick · 14/06/2014 10:30

This irritation about AIBU is highly entertaining though. I wonder when somebody is going to pop up on a thread to bitch about where it's been posted Grin

Singlesuzie · 14/06/2014 10:30

Yes chaos!

"AIBU that a car has blocked my drive?"

Confused
MardyBra · 14/06/2014 10:32

I just wish more people would use Active Convos and hide unwanted topics. Then there wouldn't be this over reliance on one section of MN.

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ChaosTrulyReigns · 14/06/2014 10:33

Perfect example, Suze!

Wunkbackatya, Mards.

MardyBra · 14/06/2014 10:34

I am very tempted to spam Aibu with a whole load of inane/dull threads just to demonstrate how annoying it is.

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picnicbasketcase · 14/06/2014 10:36

YANBU.

Aibu to ask what colour is fashionable on toenails this summer?

Yes, you are. It'll probably just be nude beige anyway.

usualsuspectt · 14/06/2014 10:36

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MardyBra · 14/06/2014 10:40

I do occasionally report threads to MNHQ. (Yes. I'm that sad). In the olden days they used to move them. The last reply I had was

"We're going to let it stand on the AIBU board because she has posted it as an AIBU question - sorry!"

So, basically, it's a free-for-all. You can post whatever inane shit you like.

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MardyBra · 14/06/2014 10:44

Mind you, I've just noticed the home ed thread starts 'to ask you..." think that one qualifies as a bunfight though.

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NynaevesSister · 14/06/2014 10:59

I will delete mine if you like. I wasn't meaning to queue jump. I meant it as a genuine AIBU. I used the To Ask You format. Why be so passive aggressive you have to start a thread? I'm happy to delete it if I've broken some sort of etiquette rule. I've posted in AIBU for a long time and not ever noticed this.

MilkandCereal · 14/06/2014 10:59

Honestly I find the thread/grammar police much more annoying. I really don't see why it matters.

NynaevesSister · 14/06/2014 11:02

And I posted it in AIBU because this is where I see people complaining the most about this sort of thing. You don't need to friggin report the post or go all cats bum on a separate thread about it.

Just ASK me to move it and I will! I'm a normal human being you can talk to :)

MardyBra · 14/06/2014 11:02

I don't know which thread is yours, I'm afraid, Nyn

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MardyBra · 14/06/2014 11:03

I'm not singling you out and certainly not being passive or aggressive btw.

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 14/06/2014 11:03

Yes.

Except for the Scottish thread, which rocks.

OwlCapone · 14/06/2014 11:04

Surely this thread is just as wrong.

You are not unreasonable to think what you like but, personally, I think that the thread and grammar police should just butt out.

NynaevesSister · 14/06/2014 11:05

Ah ok then MardyBra! I just saw you had posted this not that long after mine. Coincidence then! Anyway as said happy to remove/delete if asked :)

MardyBra · 14/06/2014 11:05

Nope. Missed that Nyn. It was three hours ago.

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