to ban dp from our bed?

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Because he's not had a bath in a week?

Every night this week he's said he'll go in but hasn't got round to it.

He's had a couple of armpit washes and doesn't smell when he's wearing his (clean every day) clothes but he rolled over in bed last night and he smelt foisty :-(

He's not depressed or anything, just lazy but I find it disgusting!

YANBU, especially if it's just down to him being a lazy fuck.

Has he always been so crap at keeping clean?

Does he work? Why doesn't he wash for work if he does?

YANBU I would not enjoy that! Try luring him in with you? Or running him a bath?

YANBU. It would take 5 mins to have a shower. Stinky boy!

Eugh
Revolting! He'll make the sheets stink.
Run him a bath yourself?

He's always been lazy and has never bathed daily (he's been 'doing up' our bathroom for 3 years and we still have no working shower) but usually goes in every 3 days ish.

A fucking week though???

Yes, he works - doesn't need to be smart for work.

YANBU. Sadly I too have a man child DP who has to be reminded to have a shower every couple of days. Drives me up the wall.

Would you really run him a bath Lots and pepper?

I don't think I could just on principle, he's old enough to sort out his own personal hygiene.

Lotsof - no way am I getting in with him, he must be filthy!

Doesn't he come across other people at work though?

His ripeness must waft after him all day.

DP knows he won't get a shag if he hasn't had a shower. It's worked for the last 18 years.

I would run him a bath - but not in a loving and supportive way More of a "get your lazy arse in here or sleep in the shed" kind of way..
Accompanied by my highly successful Death Stare.

Nope thats just skanky! Every other day is my limit!

He does Agent but tbh he's not smelly clothed - it was only last night in bed I noticed and asked him this morning when he last went in the bath

I was just about to ask how old he was thinking he couldn't be very old if he was still coming into your bed, then I realised you said DP and not DS. Eurgh, ban him.

Yanbu.

That's minging tbh.
He may be washing his pits but there's more body parts his arse that need a good bloody wash.
I'd have no respect for an able bodied, capable adult who didn't take personal hygiene seriously and even less for one who expected to share a bed with them.

I am sorry but that's really disgusting. My shower is a bit broken, so I have a quick bath every morning. It takes me about 10 minutes in total. This is not the Middle Ages.

Gross. Yanbu.

expected me*

YANBU!!

YANBU. I just actually vomited in my mouth reading this (am 9 weeks preg and feeling queasy but tbh the thought of not washing over a week prob would have done it anyway)

Gross. Even if he only runs an inch bath and cleans himself quickly he needs to wash tonight.

Glad I'm not just being fussy. He reckons it's just a bloke thing!