to ban dp from our bed?

[BobPatandIgglePiggle]

Because he's not had a bath in a week?

Every night this week he's said he'll go in but hasn't got round to it.

He's had a couple of armpit washes and doesn't smell when he's wearing his (clean every day) clothes but he rolled over in bed last night and he smelt foisty :-(

He's not depressed or anything, just lazy but I find it disgusting!

"dont see the harm in trying to make it something he would look forward to (sharing it with you) rather than a chore. "

That's how you train children and dogs.

I haven't got a shower, so have to get baths, as do many others.

I agree it isn't a male thing, there are many MNers who don't get a daily bath, yet are convinced that they don't smell because others aren't telling them straight.

It is a lack of respect for others and oneself.