AIBU or is my cat ?

[Sarsaparillajones]

He's over on the other sofa. Snuggled up to DH. And he's staring at me giving me huge cat evils. He's spent the last month refusing to settle unless he was sat on me. I may have tempted him over here 4weeks ago with promises of stroking and other delights (and Sheba) But now I am dead to him.

YABU.

You sound like you think your cat owes you something. He is honouring you by actually bothering to look in your direction so that should be more than enough.

Well it doesn't matter what went on, in any cat based scenario you are always going to be the UR one

Say sorry and accept your new place in the pecking order.

(Btw when cats do that narrow eye blinky thing it's a nice thing in their language. 'Cat kiss' him back)

YADBU. It's your cat's house.

YABU. His house, his rules. You sound needy, and bordering on EA :(

Ok the evils have stopped. But I can hear purring !

The purring is a dealbreaker. LTC (Leave The Cat)

You are most definitely showing signs of being needy. And a tad PA...

have just asked my cat for his opinion

he sent you purrs

he is not a normal cat, other cats would have questioned your ability to understand what being in a cats life means, that is accepting any scraps of affection that they choose to give you

You sound so entitled op. have one of these

Like this?

YABU of course. Now I shall read the OP and find out the actual problem...

More like this Fluffy.

My cat looked at me like this the other day:

YABvvvvvU I'm afraid. I don't think you are working hard enough to regain his love. Would more Sheba be an option?Always remember that a cat is doing you a favour by even acknowledging your existence, so if you want his love you have to work hard for it and cater for every little whim!

Btw - loving the cat pics!

I have 3 of the little darlings ALL giving me the death stare.

DP had the audacity to flea treat our cats on Wednesday, girl cat took it in her stride and was happy to forgive the infringement in exchange for fuss and food. Boy cat only forgave DP this morning. He's sensitive

I have never had a reasonable cat but yours sounds a whole lot more reasonable than mine....mine just pee'd in the dryer, which is near the (clean) litter tray that she's used without issue for years.... she seems quite pleased with herself too

Yab totally U and you know it.

Here's a pic of my cat giving me the evils after I had a sneezing fit in bed which freaked him out - he left and found solace in the bed of another. He stayed there with our visitor for the next few nights to punish me heartless furry bastard

Mine is hammering on the bedroom door as I want my bed to myself tonight. I'm gonna him a cuddle.

This is the same scowling cat when he saw I had food.

He only wants me for one thing.

:(

Mine didn't appreciate me making the bed today.

YABVU obviously

If you dare disturb this cat for anything but food, this is the evil face.

(Joking btw, he had just woken up) :o