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[thanks] ( sensitive) should MN change the wording to flowers

42 replies

HadABadDay2014 · 08/03/2014 00:40

I may be the only one that thinks that the wording is wrong.

If someone post about abuse, miscarriage r baby loss and you do this Thanks there is nothing to say thanks for.

Of course if you get good advice it appropriate but on sensitive issues I really don't think it's appropriate to say thanks.

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aufaniae · 08/03/2014 00:41

I thought you could get it from Flowers already?

aufaniae · 08/03/2014 00:42

Yes you can I wrote [ flowers ] above not [ thanks ]

HadABadDay2014 · 08/03/2014 00:45

Didn't realise.

I'm always MN on my phone, and the list below only says thanks

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AgentZigzag · 08/03/2014 00:47

Weren't the flowers because of woolly hugs and saying thank you to someone?

I know what you mean though, it's like liking a negative fb status as a show of support.

It's easy to change the meaning in your head though.

HadABadDay2014 · 08/03/2014 00:47

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/2019108-Link-to-photo-please-ignore

Just did a screen shot

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HadABadDay2014 · 08/03/2014 00:48

Perhaps it is just my issue.

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AgentZigzag · 08/03/2014 00:49

And the context of your post should show that you don't mean thanks.

Envy is usually used to mean something barftastic rather than envy.

AgentZigzag · 08/03/2014 00:50

It's the same as my smiley list, it doesn't list the Bear either.

HadABadDay2014 · 08/03/2014 00:54

[bears] googled it lol

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cafecito · 08/03/2014 01:01

I've been insidiously petitioning for [vom] for yeeeeears

AgentZigzag · 08/03/2014 01:04

If you have Wine you have to have a [vom] emoticon, it's odd not to.

If only you were Queen of MN cafecito.

cafecito · 08/03/2014 01:58

Indeed,

It hasn't been a sustained campaign, but has been ongoing since its inception, with variable flounce in the mid campaign lull, a good 6+ years I'd say

... I've hit a glass ceiling...

hmphf

cafecito · 08/03/2014 02:07

[vom]

I would not want a moving depiction; nor a pile of residual vom... merely a face depicting the oft required [bleerrhhh], like the little green dude, but with [vom] coded (and maybe bashfulness or wine stainage)

As many women in fact physiologically vom in labour and birth, and babies incessantly do this too, has mumsnet moved on from mums? etc
are we no longer the target demographic?

Indeed I m not certain vom could be overtly more offensive than other items - and look

. . ;;
vom vom

1!1!
ALIEN/vampire REINDEER, with scope for FOX

cafecito · 08/03/2014 02:08

^ please ignore my proposal models. They were brilliant. MN are thwarting me again. mwaahaahhaaa I'll be back

HadABadDay2014 · 08/03/2014 02:14

www.sherv.net/barfing-emoticon-1426.html

[vom]

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AgentZigzag · 08/03/2014 02:22

I'm not quite sure what you're on talking about cafe, but I'm sure you're right Grin

I'm pretty squeamish but not about being sick or seeing someone chucking up, lots of people are though, maybe that's why HQ hasn't prised your Very Good Idea out of your hands and run with it cafe?

Some people don't even like seeing it written down, and lots don't like the word vom or barf.

I like, but never use, the word chunder, I put it on par with my affection for muppet, numpty and shreddies (for kegs).

cafecito · 09/03/2014 22:13

I've just read my post again, and not only do I have no recollection of it, I am totally confused by REINDEER

er, fine line.. genius and madness// etc

Grin
AgentZigzag · 09/03/2014 22:57

Hahahaha definitely swaying towards genius cafe Grin

Your day will come.

cafecito · 09/03/2014 23:03

strokes cat on lap from big black leather chair in glass office tall block above city of MNHQ towers

mwahaha

little finger raised to corner of mouth

ALIEN CAT

Confused
AgentZigzag · 09/03/2014 23:08

I'm sure the alien reindeer film genre is just ripe for the taking

cafecito · 09/03/2014 23:23

you're a genius too Shock

or are you mad? Grin

cafecito · 09/03/2014 23:25

tim burton, pixar, Rudolph alien glowing, santa saucer, vomiting from the sky,

yeaaaahh

AgentZigzag · 09/03/2014 23:35

And one little girl who won't get her presents delivered unless the alien cat puts a stake through the reindeer's heart - blood splattering Santa (who has never been so glad to have a red coat so it doesn't show up).

Nocomet · 09/03/2014 23:49

Actually you can type flowers Flowers in [] and get the same icon.

I like giving new mum's and babies [ flowers ] and a teddy [ bear ] Flowers and Bear

KeatsiePie · 10/03/2014 00:00

I type thanks as didn't know I could get the bouquet through typing flowers.

Actually that definitely didn't used to be true -- if you typed flowers, you'd just get the word flowers in brackets.

But isn't it obvious from context that when someone puts a bouquet up they are being nice, but not necessarily saying thank you? I think what's happening is that posters on here also want to show sympathy, encouragement, friendliness, sorrow, celebration, understanding, etc., so they offer the flowers. Just as we use bouquets in real life in fact!

What I would like is if we had more choices of bouquet. I would like to be discerning. Daffodils for you. Pansies for you. Stinkweed for you Grin

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