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[thanks] ( sensitive) should MN change the wording to flowers

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HadABadDay2014 · 08/03/2014 00:40

I may be the only one that thinks that the wording is wrong.

If someone post about abuse, miscarriage r baby loss and you do this Thanks there is nothing to say thanks for.

Of course if you get good advice it appropriate but on sensitive issues I really don't think it's appropriate to say thanks.

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TSSDNCOP · 10/03/2014 11:25
Bear
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PlentyOfPubeGardens · 10/03/2014 11:21

Bear Smile

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PlentyOfPubeGardens · 10/03/2014 11:20

I'm sure the wording used to say

Flowers: Thanks [ thanks ] or [ flowers ]

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Topaz25 · 10/03/2014 11:14

Why does it matter? I thought you only see the image and not the word in the post? Or have I inadvertently thanked sad posts?

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HadABadDay2014 · 10/03/2014 10:18

I did it :)

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mrsjay · 10/03/2014 10:18

oh go me Bear

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HadABadDay2014 · 10/03/2014 10:18
Bear
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mrsjay · 10/03/2014 10:18
Bear
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Nocomet · 10/03/2014 10:17

Just type bear in [] no spaces like all the others.

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BeverleyMoss · 10/03/2014 10:15
Bear
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mrsjay · 10/03/2014 10:10

I still cant do that bloody bear

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mrsjay · 10/03/2014 10:10

you can type flowers and still get Flowers you dont need to type thanks and it is the sentiment rather than the wording you are expressing

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StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 10/03/2014 09:47

just checking I could still do it, sorry.

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StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 10/03/2014 09:47
Bear
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GarthsUncle · 10/03/2014 00:21

When does the alien reindeer film come out?

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GarthsUncle · 10/03/2014 00:20

Flowers was added about a year ago, I think, for the reaso. OP said - it's weird to type thanks when you want to give sympathy flowers etc.

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cafecito · 10/03/2014 00:10

furiously scribbles manuscript a la JK Rowling

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KeatsiePie · 10/03/2014 00:00

I type thanks as didn't know I could get the bouquet through typing flowers.

Actually that definitely didn't used to be true -- if you typed flowers, you'd just get the word flowers in brackets.

But isn't it obvious from context that when someone puts a bouquet up they are being nice, but not necessarily saying thank you? I think what's happening is that posters on here also want to show sympathy, encouragement, friendliness, sorrow, celebration, understanding, etc., so they offer the flowers. Just as we use bouquets in real life in fact!

What I would like is if we had more choices of bouquet. I would like to be discerning. Daffodils for you. Pansies for you. Stinkweed for you Grin

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Nocomet · 09/03/2014 23:49

Actually you can type flowers Flowers in [] and get the same icon.

I like giving new mum's and babies [ flowers ] and a teddy [ bear ] Flowers and Bear

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AgentZigzag · 09/03/2014 23:35

And one little girl who won't get her presents delivered unless the alien cat puts a stake through the reindeer's heart - blood splattering Santa (who has never been so glad to have a red coat so it doesn't show up).

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cafecito · 09/03/2014 23:25

tim burton, pixar, Rudolph alien glowing, santa saucer, vomiting from the sky,

yeaaaahh

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cafecito · 09/03/2014 23:23

you're a genius too Shock

or are you mad? Grin

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AgentZigzag · 09/03/2014 23:08

I'm sure the alien reindeer film genre is just ripe for the taking

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cafecito · 09/03/2014 23:03

strokes cat on lap from big black leather chair in glass office tall block above city of MNHQ towers

mwahaha

little finger raised to corner of mouth


ALIEN CAT

Confused

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AgentZigzag · 09/03/2014 22:57

Hahahaha definitely swaying towards genius cafe Grin

Your day will come.

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