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Is this a swear word?

82 replies

nicetobehere · 15/10/2013 18:47

I just heard in my room that my husband was saying 'stupid' as a small voice while he was cooking alone.

Was he swearing?

OP posts:
Youhaventseenme · 15/10/2013 18:48

Wha ??

CackleCackle · 15/10/2013 18:49
Halloween Hmm
nicetobehere · 15/10/2013 18:50

Sorry. My question was would you describe that he said 'stupid' alone in the kitchen as swearing?

OP posts:
runningonwillpower · 15/10/2013 18:51

No, it's not swearing.

But it's a word I would be very careful about using. For example, I would never call a person 'stupid'. It's very demeaning.

So, maybe your husband has the same mindset as me - be very careful about how you use the word 'stupid'.

Sleepyhoglet · 15/10/2013 18:51

Stupid is not a swear word.

Floggingmolly · 15/10/2013 18:52

He wasn't actually saying to anyone?

Alisvolatpropiis · 15/10/2013 18:52

Stupid is not a swear word Confused

Bowlersarm · 15/10/2013 18:52

Whaaaaaat?

You are a little peculiar, OP.

kaumana · 15/10/2013 18:53

Nope, only only one word syllables count.

eg Stu-pid versus Fuck

SilverApples · 15/10/2013 18:53

It's an insult. Insults are not always swear words, DD can be very insulting without a single obscenity.

nicetobehere · 15/10/2013 18:53

He said to himself. There was no one there.

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ShatnersBassoon · 15/10/2013 18:53

Not swearing, not even crude. It's an everyday word.

Why are you worried that he might swear anyway?

Chippednailvarnish · 15/10/2013 18:54

This is a really stupid AIBU.

Does that cause you offence OP?

usualsuspect · 15/10/2013 18:54

No stupid is not a swearword.

Who or what did he think was stupid?

LittleMissGerardBOOOOOtler · 15/10/2013 18:54

Confused Hmm no I don't think it is personally, it's bit a nice thing to say to someone, but he was on his own wasn't he?

LittleMissGerardBOOOOOtler · 15/10/2013 18:55

not a nice thing

Bowlersarm · 15/10/2013 18:55

Did he call the kettle stupid?

Or the oven?

thistlelicker · 15/10/2013 18:55

Is this a real thread???

nicetobehere · 15/10/2013 18:55

He swore a few times before and he said yesterday he would do his best not to swear any more.

OP posts:
usualsuspect · 15/10/2013 18:56

We're the potatoes being stupid?

Handbagsonnhold · 15/10/2013 18:56

Singing perhaps "stupid Cupid" la la la Lala

peppapigmustdie · 15/10/2013 18:56

He was probably calling himself stupid because of something he did. Not swearing, I often call myself an arse or say for fucks sake if I drop something or cut myself.

usualsuspect · 15/10/2013 18:56

Were* stupid kindle.

Bowlersarm · 15/10/2013 18:57

Blimey thistle I hope not.

Although, with MN recently, who knows?

It could become serious thread of the night contender.

kaumana · 15/10/2013 18:57

Cunt
Fuck
Shit

A few swear words that spring to mind. Stupid .. um no. but thanks for letting me have a reason to post them, crap day..