Have name changed as I would be easy to identify based on previous posts.
I am currently on mat leave and asked my boss off the record if a flexible working request could be granted so that i could go back four days instead of full time.
I was told maybe if I drop a grade. This would be approx £6k paycut just for dropping grade then obviously an additional 20% cut for cutting down my hours.
I have quite a senior job but not director level.
I feel like this is a bit dodgy as it's mainly women who want the flexible requests so its a bit sexist.
I am not usually one for causing trouble at work but I would really like to get this request granted on my current level.
AIBU or are they....