To be feel bitter watching one born every min

[Kannet]

Cause all three women this week are pregnant by accident and my second round of IVF just failed. Not trying to attention seek just a bit pissed off and want to stamp my feet

YANBU. Life isn't fair, mate

Hope everything works out for you xx

Nope, I just had a mc and hate every pregnant woman with one exception, a friend who had had a mc and is having a hard time being preg and has supported me loads, it's just not fair is it

Stamp away. It's not fair at all. I'm so sorry ivf hasn't worked.

Nothing worse than hearing about happy accidents when ttc.

Have some &

Yes that sucks. Makes you want to cry. It's not bitter- it's normal and understandable and not fair.
I have 2 DSs and always wanted more but can't. I know I'm soo fortunate to have them but I can't help but be upset when people have their third.
Really hope you get ur baby x

Stamp away. I felt like that when I had three MCs.

Good luck to you.

It isn't fair. Stamp away

It certainly isn't fair. x

YANBU. More hugs from me. The 'baby lottery' can seem so unfair .

Yanbu in your circumstances. So sorry it's not worked.

I can remember feeling the same when 17 year old at work got pregnant and I was just starting on road to fertility treatment. It's a horrible feeling.

It totally isn't fair

I can't bear to watch obem anymore. I can't bear to see pregnant women either

I hope you have more success soon

Totally understand and it is soooo not fair.

It's totally unfair and YANBU. I got pregnant by accident three times, while using various methods of contraception.

It was only when we stopped and thought about people like yourself that we realised how truly blessed we actually are, instead of whining about whether we could afford another etc.

I'm not saying this to rub salt in a wound btw, I truly feel for you and wish that IVF was more accessible for everyone who needs it.

Good luck with TTC, I wish you every ounce of good luck as you continue your journey :)

Thanks every one, I have been pretty positive so far, just feeling a bit sorry for myself tonight

I don't understand why you are watching a programme if you know it's going to upset you.

yanbu and good luck in your next round of ivf. we couldn't get pregnant and then had 2 mc when we did but now have 2 dds of 17 and 19 so be positive it will happen for you x

I feel very bitter, I MC the baby Ive wanted for more than a decade. Its absolutely not fucking fair. But I also have hope for the future. There is always hope. You have to hold on to that.
And look at it this way. Would any of you want any women to go through what you have been through?

YANBU.

When I was TTC (2.5yrs) I could see pregnant bumps every-bloody-where. Just awful.

UnMNetty hugs x

Sympathetic as ever I see Holly.

YANBU OP.

I hope it happens for you soon.

Totally am with you right now.

I'm not unsympathetic, i'd just turn off something that made me sad.

Perhaps I'm pragmatic?

YDNBU. That sucks. . I wish you all the best of luck

We had 4 goes at IUI and then two of IVF before getting lucky, we had ICSI and got a near 100% fertilisation rate, did a 5 day transfer of two embryos and finally it worked - we have 16 mo twins now. I know it's early days but if you are able to try again then they can make some small changes to the treatment protocols and massively increase chances of success.
I hope it works out for you

But why make a point of posting that Holly?

And the OP didn't ask whether she was unreasonable to watch. She asked if she was unreasonable to feel bitter.

You post didn't address the question.

Disclaimer: I don't always stick to the point either.

YANBU

I probably wouldn't watch OBEM if I was in your position tbh.

We have been trying for No2 for a year and for that reason I don't watch it. I am well aware we are very lucky to have pfb though.

Good luck with whatever you decide