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The number overweight people at swimming today

588 replies

pingu2209 · 19/02/2013 18:40

I went swimming today with my 3 children. I am not exagerating to say that well over half the children and teenagers were overweight; some were seriously obese.

It really was noticable. Girls as well as boys. Anything from age 4 to 14.

Okay - at least they were exercising but I was really shocked.

OP posts:
user1471545174 · 09/03/2017 11:01

The reactions - I am only on page 4 - are telling. People are being huffy and offended about a simple statement of fact. More people are overweight and more people are more overweight.

It's not shaming, it's a health problem.

TabascoToastie · 09/03/2017 11:21

The real Pingu would be disappointed in you.

Alfieisnoisy · 09/03/2017 13:10

I agree with you OP, I didn't read your original post as sneering.

My son is autistic and overweight...he gorges if left to his own devices.

I cannot buy normal loaves of bread even.

I take him swimming regularly because he loves it and also because he needs the exercise. It's working thankfully....his weight has dropped and is now static...as he is growing so he is thinning out.

It's so easy for children to eat far too much though. We've lost all sight of "normal". I say this a lot....I inherited a set of dinner plates when my auntie died...they come from the fifties and are at least a third smaller in size than current dinner plates. We use the smaller Ines and we are all losing weight.

Ev1lEdna · 09/03/2017 13:38

I hate people like you. People like you are the reason I won't go swimming.

100% agree. You aren't worth any more words.

Ev1lEdna · 09/03/2017 13:39

sorry should have rtft zombie thread

Verbena37 · 09/03/2017 13:42

Jeez....it's people like you being the reason I hate going swimming at my local pool.....ive paid £70 for this year's membership and haven't been once because I can't make myself get in a costume and face walking into what I know will be a pool full of judgey women like you. My poor kids miss out going too because I won't take them as I really don't want to subject others to my cellulite covered thighs and chunky arms!

Obviously I won't know what they're thinking but you've just reiterated how people feel towards overweight people.

Verbena37 · 09/03/2017 13:43

Oh, zombie thread!

PageStillNotFound404 · 09/03/2017 13:47

Not another fucking zombie thread Hmm What the hell are people searching for to unearth four year old threads, and why don't they look at the date on the search results before commenting?

Joey7t8 · 09/03/2017 13:57

It's a good thread though. And obesity is a problem that shouldn't be ignored. It's a preventable condition that's costing the NHS billions.

LeninaCrowne · 09/03/2017 14:01

I'm the obese one doing breaststroke, in the slow lane, with my peers. Sometimes you get the thin whipper-snappers,with their swim hats, goggles and nose clips, get upset that us slow-lane fatties have a wider lane, swim a fast front-crawl up and down the middle of the slow lane. They obviously think we shouldn't be in the pool at all.

iklboo · 09/03/2017 14:03

I thought it was Easter with all these thread resurrections.

EnormousTiger · 09/03/2017 14:11

In our pool it is I and the old people in the slow lane and my teenagers if they want a chat.

The more people who are over weight who swim the better. Swimming is very good for you - no pressure on joints like with running on hard roads and particularly good for those who are over weight - try to get out of breath if you can. My swimming is usually so pathetically slow I might as well have pushed the hoover round the front room instead.

KoalaDownUnder · 09/03/2017 14:13

It's a good thread, though

No it's not. It's a shit thread that only served to upset people.

PageStillNotFound404 · 09/03/2017 14:15

I thought it was Easter with all these thread resurrections.

Grin
bigbuttons · 09/03/2017 14:16

It is awful that there are so many over weight children. At least they are in the swimming pool and not simply glued to the computer eating shit.

LouKout · 09/03/2017 14:17

They're probably quite thin if they are still in pool after 4 years

countrygirl55 · 09/03/2017 14:21

I always wonder why there are so many judgmental arses, personally.

Mrsknackered · 09/03/2017 14:22

Judging children and those who probably already with self esteem issues. Nice

I will continue to put my overweight self in a swimsuit and go with my children because if you don't like what you're looking at, why are you looking?

Mrsknackered · 09/03/2017 14:23

Oh ffs. Zombie

CarrieMyBag · 09/03/2017 14:24

I'm overweight myself but boy there are so many touchy overweight ladies here. YANBU, OP. I find it hypocritical that many British people keep telling me how fat Americans are (and that seems fine, never mind their feelings) yet one observation makes people go nuts.

And FYI, the fattest person I've seen is a Brit.

iklboo · 09/03/2017 14:30

ZOMBIE THREAD!!

KindDogsTail · 09/03/2017 14:36

Out of interest, was there a vending machine selling sweets, crisps and fizzy drinks in the entrance - ready to take advantage of people who would be hungry after swimming to make extra money? There is one at my pool, and I think it's wrong they are allowed to make money this way.

KindDogsTail · 09/03/2017 14:38

Zombie thread

Gottagetmoving · 09/03/2017 14:39

This one just keeps coming back doesn't it?

What fool revived it this time?

mowgelijeffs · 09/03/2017 15:02

Pungu,

Totally with you. And to reluctant mother and the others saying they hate people like pingu and they don't swim for people like pingu. No, you don't swim because you have body hang ups (like most of us!!) I am a size 6 and I still have body hang ups.

People really are so fat these days and seem to have no self discipline. I found myself having to justify why I was back to my jeans about 4 weeks after having my son ... because I don't eat shit all day long and sit on my arse!!!