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Original poster

Sick

67 replies

cheekypickle · 05/08/2012 11:00

Woke up at 2am and was sick down side of the bed onto a towel that I managed to grab. DH woke up and shouted how 'disgusting' I was and that I was like a child for not being able to get to the toilet on time.

AIBU??

Its not exactly my fault ! Needless to say I cleared it all up. He's left me to lie in this morning but I know he'll be in a mood with me.

When he called me a child I called him a grumpy old bastard!!

OP posts:
Petsinmyolympicpudenda · 05/08/2012 11:01

Go be sick in his shoe!

YANBU

ssd · 05/08/2012 11:02

poor you living with a prick like that

Emmielu · 05/08/2012 11:02

agree with pets be sick in his shoe!!!

FelicitywasSarca · 05/08/2012 11:03

^ what ssd said.

PicklesThePottyMouthedParrot · 05/08/2012 11:03

That's totally out of order. I'd be fuming with him, he should say sorry today!

Original poster
cheekypickle · 05/08/2012 11:03

He's downstairs looking after DD. I know he'll be in a mood with me. Best get up and face the music! :(

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ssd · 05/08/2012 11:04

its your choice op, its all your choice

MissPants · 05/08/2012 11:13

WTAF? How can it possibly be your fault? Poor you Sad
My DH once had surprise d&v he managed to get to the loo and had to prioritise which end was more urgent, he chose back end so sat down and promptly vomited into the sink. I spent the next half hour unblocking it. Ne'er a grumble was heard that day!

In sickness and in health and all that...

AngryBeaver · 05/08/2012 11:14

Poor you,what a horrible bastard he sounds Sad as if you would do that on purpose!!

puds11 · 05/08/2012 11:16

He's a cock head. Go be sick in something he wont use for a while so it will be even more gross when he finds it.

Reminds me of my ExDP shouting at me for ruining his plans for the day because i had gone into labour!

WigGold · 05/08/2012 11:20

If it was a self inflicted vomiting then YABU

If you are poorly through no fault of your own then he is BVVU, and poor you.

piprabbit · 05/08/2012 11:20

If you were poorly the he should have been cleaning you up and soothing your forehead.
If you vomited in the bed because you got pissed and were too out of it get up, then I would be furious too.

puds11 · 05/08/2012 11:23

Even if its vomiting from drinking, i still think a certain level of sympathy is required. Being sick is payback in itself as far as im concerned

Inneedofbrandy · 05/08/2012 11:25

I would be really pissed off if my DP just vomited and didnt even try to get to the bathroom. YUBU and you are not a child, sorry but agree with your partner.

Original poster
cheekypickle · 05/08/2012 11:26

No drinking involved! Was just randomly sick! No apology. But I guess he Deserves an Olympic gold for looking after DD for a few hours ;)

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puds11 · 05/08/2012 11:30

Not really, she is his DD too.

tethersphotofinish · 05/08/2012 11:37

Tell him you accidentally caught sight of him naked. It couldn't be helped.

mumsknots · 05/08/2012 11:41

Always amazes me that people come on here upset with what their dp/dh has said done and in the next breath are stating how wonderful they really are Confused

Krumbum · 05/08/2012 11:43

Inneedofabrandy. Sometimes when ill ppl get nauseous and know they are going to be sick and other times it just hits you suddenly and you don't feel nausea you just start puking! There's nothing you can do about it!

Original poster
cheekypickle · 05/08/2012 11:45

I was taking the mick when I said he deserves a gold medal, hence the wink! He should bloody look after her when I'm ill!

I literally woke up and was sick! Best to be sick on towel by bed than to be sick all over carpet en route to bathroom

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Inneedofbrandy · 05/08/2012 11:50

Krumbum I have never ever just started puking without knowing im going to first, maybe its just me.

Cheekypickle I know I sound like a bitch but really you could'nt of ran for it and eww kept it in your mouth.

Im actually phobic about sick so someone next to me throwing up would have me running for the hills, you've actually described my worst nightmare.

Krumbum · 05/08/2012 11:52

No because your body is still retching and sicking up more vomit. So your mouth would be completely full, it's gotta go somewhere!

Inneedofbrandy · 05/08/2012 11:58

Krumbum I have made runs for it before keeping it in my mouth so it can be done. It goes into the toilet when you get there.

Why would you just vomit and not try at least get it in a bin or something. Even morning sickness where i couldnt move without barfing I knew it was coming.

notsofrownieface · 05/08/2012 12:00

Your 'd'h sounds like an arsehole. Why would your 'd'h be angry because you were ill.

honeytea · 05/08/2012 12:04

I would be very very worried in my DP was sick in bed. With morning sickness I have had to be sick in the kitchen sink a couple of times as I knew I wouldn't get to the bathroom. Also I was sick down the back of the bathroom sink, he was very sweet and helped me clean up. He is very worried about me being sick on him, I was resting my head on his bare chest this morning and gagged and he said "i will be very angry if you puke on me" I told him he was more easilly washable than the sofa so if I was going to puke in the living room he was the best place to puke!

I think your OH is bu, but maybe he was very worried about you, and he should get up with dd anyway it's his dd for goodness sake!

I hope you feel better soon.