Sick

[cheekypickle]

Woke up at 2am and was sick down side of the bed onto a towel that I managed to grab. DH woke up and shouted how 'disgusting' I was and that I was like a child for not being able to get to the toilet on time.

AIBU??

Its not exactly my fault ! Needless to say I cleared it all up. He's left me to lie in this morning but I know he'll be in a mood with me.

When he called me a child I called him a grumpy old bastard!!

I meant to write when more come up - sorry.

Lots of people love their children and remove toxic partners from their lives.

Your daughter is hardly going to benefit from growing up thinking that the way you, as a woman, get treated is normal.

I'm not normally in the "leave the bastard" camp, but I can't understand why you do nothing about it, either by leaving him or standing up for yourself.

If you love your dd, you wouldn't want her growing up thinking the way your husband treats you is normal. He sounds like an angry person to me. The sleeping is just weird.

You have a job from what I understand, leaving him wouldn't be hard because you're doing everything on your own anyway (that's what it sounds like).

If you love your DD then you shouldn't put up with his crap. The one thing that made getting rid of XP easy was knowing he would never be able to subject them to his nasty attitude again.

He was unreasonable. Any caring person would have leapt up to help.

Loving your daughter does not mean you have to stay in a relationship where someone treats you like shit you know. :(

knows this is wasted typing, but one day OP is going to realise her husband is a twat

He's an arse. I hope you recover soon - best treatment is getting some space from him I reckon.

The skies have just opened up, massive thunderstorm.

Such a shame DH hung all the washing out this morning

I'm not getting wet to get it all back in - fuck him!

I've never been in the "leave the bastard" camp before, but he sounds vile, sorry! I really feel for you, I would hate to be in a relationship with someone who wanted to nap all the time, was mean to me when I was ill, and thought that looking after their own child was doing me a favour. But you are the only person who can make changes to your living situation.
If venting here makes it okay for you to live with, then fair enough, but don't stay there for your DD's sake, because one day she will grow p and leave home and then you will be stuck with a life that doesn't make you happy.

Cheekypickle I second those who have been telling you to think really hard about what your DD will learn from seeing the way your DP treats you. Don't pass this down the next generation.

Do you enjoy being treated like crap by your husband?It's a genuine question,I really can't understand why else you live like this...get treated like a second class citizen in your own home,come on here and post about it,change absolutely nothing about your situation,then the following week its the same pattern all over again.

Seriously,why do you choose to live your life this way?

When you married him he did not become your boss, dad or correctional officer. Just tell him to get back up his own end and shut his clack.

And now someone's grumpy because I don't want I have sex! Fuck off!!

The OP loves the attention, her H is a shit. OP if you truely love your DD you will do what is right by her and leave the bastard!

op you sound a tad pathetic now

Are you kidding op? He knows your ill and wants to have sex no 1 and no 2 he should NEVER get angry of you don't want to have sex, and even more so when your ill. Seriously what is wrong with him? You need out.

ssd and GingerWrath agree - posts doesn't listen to advice and then starts another thread along the same lines!