To defriend "friend" over Christmas card

[onthebus]

So, I have a friend. She's been a friend for years and years and has been there for me through thick and thin. However, today I received a Christmas card from her and it upset me so much that I think I will have to "defriend" her. AIBU?

Here's what she did:

• Wrote the card in blue ink, she knows I prefer black

• Addressed the envelope as 12a Our Street, it should be 12A - I cannot believe she does not know where we live after all this time

• Included mine, DH and DC's names in the card, but wrote DS's name last - why did she put him last? I think she must have issues with him.

• chose a card with a picture of a robin on when she should realise that robins really upset me after I saw one on the same day my cat died (14 years ago)

• used a non-standard sized card. I know she must have done this deliberately to mess with my Christmas decoration scheme.

• I only got the card today and I know she is normally mega organised. Basically she must have sent the card as an afterthought.

I have done absolutely nothing to offend her, I don't know why she would do any of the above ...

Dump her ,she sounds toxic to me

oh dear someone is bored, here have a

De-friending is not enough.

You need to wait for her down a dark alley with a length of 2 by 4.

That is shocking.

The fucking cow.

ditch the bitch

Is this a thread about a thread?

The bitch! How very dare she? Defriending is too good for that cowbag.

Link?

I suspect so help. One of those attention seeking threads.

Toxic narcissistic emotionally abusive arrrrrrse. She's probably also your mother in law and uses prostitutes and parks in mum & toddler spaces

why the biscuits?

Deffo NPD. She'd feed a baby cake given half the chance.

I hope this is nothing to do with my thread from a couple of days ago moaning about people sending me cards that don't stand up, in see through envelopes when they are supposed to be friends. When I have bought them a nice hand-chosen card!!

At least it wasn't a recycled card. I got one - recycled (I don't usually keep other people's rubbish in my house, thanks) AND a charity card. Help the Homeless. She knows I hate poor people.

Nice one OP, that made me chuckle

This sounds like EA, to be honest, OP. You need to cut her out of your life .

I may be able to get the number for 'someone who can sort her out' if you want it?

Sorry, I just LMFAO at theprovinciallady

Anyone who gets het up about a Xmas card is only one step away from writing ranty letters to pointless local papers IMO.

Just cos I'm down wid da kidz

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Very funny. Amused me anyway!

I am so shaking with rage at your friend on your behalf, I think her intestines should be ripped out with your fingernails, they should be plaited and she should be hung by them, after that I'd maybe consider torturing her. Sorry I can't type any more my shaking has made my laptop shake, I'm so angry my coffee table is joining in shake rage, oh no, my head has just flipped, and raging blood is spurting from my ears and even that is shaking. I've never been so angry.

I am going for a lie down.

ProvincialLady - the OP was a little odd but your post gave me a giggle