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To have parked in a disabled spot today

227 replies

AuntiePickleBottom · 30/09/2011 21:42

my mum recently broke her leg, she has a full cast on, I took her food shopping today so parked in a disabled bay as there is no way my mum could of used crutches far or get out of a normal spot, my mum used one of the wheel chairs supermarkets offer for the customers.

OP posts:
lisad123 · 30/09/2011 21:43

Grabs popcorn, hard hat and sits back to watch fire works Grin

lisad123 · 30/09/2011 21:43

Does she have a blue badge??

LoremIpsum · 30/09/2011 21:43

Yes. You could have dropped her at the door, parked and walked.

worraliberty · 30/09/2011 21:43

YABU

You should have used the P&C spaces

Why did you take her shopping though, if it was enough of a problem to have to use a disabled parking spot?

gordyslovesheep · 30/09/2011 21:44

oh it's Friday

Valpollicella · 30/09/2011 21:44

Couldn't you have done the shopping for her and her stay at home?

Choufleur · 30/09/2011 21:45

Yabu. Drop her off then park.

Valpollicella · 30/09/2011 21:46

I'm not saying anyone who needs a disabled bay shouldn't go shopping, as they have a blue badge entitling them to park in that space.

You, unfortunately don't...hence why I ask why you couldn't have just done the shopping for her.

MogTheForgetfulCat · 30/09/2011 21:47

I did this when my mum broke her leg last year. I checked with the store first, they said it was fine. My mum was using one of their mobility scooters. I took her shopping because she wanted to get out of the house for a short while and preferred to choose her own groceries than have to try to remember everything she might want and then write me a list.

troisgarcons · 30/09/2011 21:48

Supermarket carpark?

they are courtesy spots unless otherwise sign posted (ie clamping/warden controlled)

Dozer · 30/09/2011 21:48

Yanbu, unless disabled spaces were v few, in which case yabu.

Sevenfold · 30/09/2011 21:48

yanbu
as long as she had a blue badge

MillyR · 30/09/2011 21:49

Surely disabled parking is a legal requirement, not a supermarket courtesy.

5inthebed · 30/09/2011 21:49

Do you really need to ask?

Crosshair · 30/09/2011 21:49

Supermarket carpark - yanbu

elesbells · 30/09/2011 21:49

It must be Friday....

AuntiePickleBottom · 30/09/2011 21:49

My mum has been in all week and for her own sanity wanted to go.

Didn't think about dropping her off at the door them going to park.... Note taking the next time she need to shopping I will do that

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AtYourCervix · 30/09/2011 21:50

what? is not a woman with a full leg cast just as disabled as someone 'entitled' to a blue badge albeit temprarily? how the actual fucking hell would you work out that someone else would be more 'in need' of a wide space closer to a door? you heartless gits.

ShirleyKnot · 30/09/2011 21:52

um.

YANBU.

Also. YOUR MUM.

(ignore the foamers)

MillyR · 30/09/2011 21:53

AYC, it is the same for everybody though. It takes a while to get a blue badge, so all people with a disability have a period of time when they are disabled and do not have a blue badge. There isn't a way around that.

Having a temporary injury is the not the same thing as being disabled.

jellybeans · 30/09/2011 21:53

I think YANBU in that situation.

lisad123 · 30/09/2011 21:53

Because there is no reason why she needed to be closer to the storeHmm her dd could have gone and fetched a wheelchair from store.
Blue badges are for those that need to be closer to places, not those with broken leg.

Pixel · 30/09/2011 21:54

FGS, ds is a blue-badge holder and I get as annoyed as the next person with people taking the p and using the spaces when not entitled, but I certainly wouldn't begrudge a person with a broken leg using one!

AtYourCervix · 30/09/2011 21:54

so one 'disability' is more deserving than another then?

AtYourCervix · 30/09/2011 21:55

and if she could fetch a wheelchair from the store then why cannot every other disabled person being driven to the supermarket?

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