to stalk XDP of current crush?

[Boysrstupid]

Play nice I'm a MN virgin...

Background; Girl meets boy & develops huge crush that is ongoing for several years. They indulge in a little extra curricular occassionally over the yrs whilst remaining good friends but neither expecting anything to develop.

Boy meets XDP and very quickly father's a child, remaining in what can only be described as an unhealthy relationship for 4yrs.

They seperate and boy meets girl again on a regular basis (contact over 4 yrs has been restricted but constant with no extra curricular)
Girls crush becomes increasingly evident, as does boys and normal practice resumes ;0)

AIBU to accidentally on purpose bump into my very good friend outside their school playground and ask her to point out XDP (My children attend a different school) Purely on a weighing up the competition basis?

Yes, YABU. He's not with her, why the need to 'weigh up the competition'? She will always be involved in his life because they have a child together.

Reading that made my head hurt. Just for that you probably ARE BU.

YABU.

Sorry but that sounds so childish..even the way it's written out

Couldn't you just tell it straight ?

You want to have a nosy at the ex gf of your fuckbuddy ?

Why ? What "competition" ? Is this bloke the human equivalent of the FA Cup trophy ?

Get a:

a) Life
b) Grip
c) Hi tech spy kit

YABU and a Douche to boot

You know it's silly and childish, but if you can make it look as though you're simply chatting to a friend, who could resist?

The boy sounds awful. He uses you for sex with no commitment for several years. He fathers a child and still sees you while in a relationship with the mother of his child. He then ditches the mother of his child and wants to use you for sex with no commitment again. What a catch! Sounds like the XDP is well shot of him.

Yabu, and very wierd.

Barrel of laughs you lot are. Apologies for the story telling - I was bored drying my hair and thought i'd indulge in a little creative writing - Note to self; don't give up your day job.
I am infact going to have a nosey purely coz it's fun and does indeed make a thirtysomething mother feel like she's back at school.
I'll let you know if the Vicky Pollard style rumour is true

Can you do the neck-sideways manoevre ?

Ps... AnyFuker he's more Charity Shield than FA cup but a trophy is a trophy right?!

Ack, he sounds like a booby prize to me

Welcome to MN, btw

You have had your initiation ceremony now

< touches each shoulder with a shiny sword >

Thanks for the Welcome AnyFucker (suspect you r on your own with that 1 though)

I am currently perfecting my neck sideways manoeuvre as we speak.

Grow the fuck up.

HTH

U r a chav.

I think the neck sideways-manoevre has a proper name but I'm fucked if I can remember it.

I perticular mannerism of the bee-atch said with a "who does she think she izzzz "

A particular

And this chap sounds like a piece of work himself.

If she's fatter than you or a bit tired looking will you skip home ?
For shame, really, slap yourself right now for being such a dilbert.