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to stalk XDP of current crush?

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Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 18:54

Play nice I'm a MN virgin...

Background; Girl meets boy & develops huge crush that is ongoing for several years. They indulge in a little extra curricular occassionally over the yrs whilst remaining good friends but neither expecting anything to develop.

Boy meets XDP and very quickly father's a child, remaining in what can only be described as an unhealthy relationship for 4yrs.

They seperate and boy meets girl again on a regular basis (contact over 4 yrs has been restricted but constant with no extra curricular)
Girls crush becomes increasingly evident, as does boys and normal practice resumes ;0)

AIBU to accidentally on purpose bump into my very good friend outside their school playground and ask her to point out XDP (My children attend a different school) Purely on a weighing up the competition basis?

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SirSugar · 07/09/2011 20:38

U R a Top Stalker. YABVR

Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 20:40

AIBU to ask for compensation.... I have given myself whiplash practicing your collaberation now Sad

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AnyFucker · 07/09/2011 20:41

I have an actual allergy to stupid men

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 07/09/2011 20:42

Nope, still don't like it. But then I'm not a gurrrrl power type of woman

Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 21:15

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RealityVonCrapp · 07/09/2011 21:16

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SuePurblybilt · 07/09/2011 21:17

Hooooo, you may want to ask MNHQ to amend that last post. That's not considered an appropriate term.

SuePurblybilt · 07/09/2011 21:18

Not Reality, obvs.

SayCoolNowSayWhip · 07/09/2011 21:20

Oh dear. This could all go wrong.....

Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 21:37

Orrrrrrr mortified to have caused any offence. I wouldn't know how to go about amending it?

It's just a word. PFB is infact diagnosed & medicated for mental disfunction as I do not take offence it does not occur to me to watch my P's & Q's.

Huge apologies though if I have upset anybody.

Pass the popcorn - my last supper eh?!

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SuePurblybilt · 07/09/2011 22:08

I thought I'd posted but it crashed.
You can report your own post and ask them to amend. Click 'report'.

magicmelons · 07/09/2011 22:30

Can't you just stalk her on FB like the rest of us would?

magicmelons · 07/09/2011 22:32

Oh dear, you really are a MN virgin

Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 22:33

Thanks. I have emailed an sos already & sent out a search party for my lead balloon.

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bakeyouhappy · 07/09/2011 22:36

So. Funny. Can I have some popcorn?

SayCoolNowSayWhip · 07/09/2011 22:45
LadyBeagleEyes · 07/09/2011 22:45

This is a very strange thread.
Or is it me? I have had a spliff tonight and don't understand what the fuck this is about.
Nope, thinking about it, it's not the spliff. It's still a very strange thread.

Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 22:46

Sod off. It's a dead woman walking's last meal - am not sharing :0O

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bakeyouhappy · 07/09/2011 23:12

Thanks saycool

Boysr, you are not in a position to tell people to sod off. I think I liked you til now :)

bakeyouhappy · 07/09/2011 23:12

Thanks saycool

Boysr, you are not in a position to tell people to sod off. I think I liked you til now :)

Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 23:19

Bake, surely you cannot ask a stressed out woman to share popcorn in her hour of need?

Ordinarily (when entertaining self with somebody elses cock up) I would of course share. Right now it's been rectified so the milkybars are on me....

*Search party returned minus lead balloon - apparently there r far too many high horses obstructing the view :0P

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bakeyouhappy · 07/09/2011 23:24

Boysr, I will give you another chance.

bakeyouhappy · 07/09/2011 23:24

Boysr, I will give you another chance.

Boysrstupid · 07/09/2011 23:28

Excellenté Grin

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bakeyouhappy · 08/09/2011 02:04

Thanks. I'm all for a little innocent stalking, sizing up, checking the competition. I have a lot of crazy in me though. I can't neck snake, but I can do a good 'oh no you di'nt' stare.
I apologize for the double posting, why does this happen on my phone?

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