to hate giving bj's?

[LoveMyOscar]

I hate giving dp oral sex. He doesn't give me oral sex neither but expects it from me. I hate getting jaw ache and the feeling of wanting to vomit, and let's not even go there if he ejaculates in my mouth. I do enjoy penetrative sex, as does dp. The relationship is quite new. AIBU to refuse to give dp oral sex because I dislike it so much?

hello again pumpernickel, i had to change my name , i was banned

Why are you doing something that he Hayes for basically the same reasons

If you was banned then you should not be on here dear.

Naming changing won't change the fact you was banned!!

you going to behave this time then, dad ?

interesting to see you on a BJ thread

take my advice, don't restrict yourself to the sex threads, it gives a very clear message to the reader

AF- the recurring 'get rid of him' on threads like this is a joke isn't it?

quite frankly i thought that my graphic langueage couldnt shock a group of women capable of such foul insults , the abuse i took on that thread , and and i have never insulted anyone on MN
remember pump, i was talking openly about masterbation and porn on a thread about masterbation and porn. thats all.

at dadof he seemed such an inocent chappie too

Dh always makes me orgasm by oral sex. Like 3 times a week.

I don't like his clear pre-orgasm stuff (makes me hurl) so I use flavoured condoms if I feel like doing this. Only happened half a dozen times in 7 years, he prefers sex.

charicteristic snipe from you anyfucker, i post on many topics btw, oddly enough i only see you on threads of a sexual nature ?

OP it seems a shame you and your partner don't enjoy eachother in bed more. But then I am a sex-obsessed old nympho who hasn't seen her partner for weeks so probably biased in favour of bjs.

allegra...would you think a bloke like this was a good bet ?

I wouldn't

and if it was a new relationship, so no ties nor complications, then oh yes indeedy I would "get rid of him"

life is too short to saddle yourself with someone with an attitude like this, when they they give you such a brilliant signpost as to how the future is going to be

dadof genuine question- why did you get banned then...

no I wouldn't personally AF but...but... I suppose the OP only described one aspect of her relationship with him so I suppose I wouldn't want to prejudge.

nonetheless point taken

YANBU. He doesn't do it because he doesn't like it - so he has no right at all to expect it from you. Being very polite, I would always give as well as receive , but since you're not on the receiving end, I wouldn't be giving either.

If it was a new relationship I would question if I wanted to be with somebody so uptight and selfish TBH

I was one that reported you dad as you literally made me gag. I was horrified at how graphic you was.
If you are banned it means your banned so why you back on here?

its supposed to be of a advice nature though dadof not in the same context it sounds you were saying things maybe

long story alle , beter read the thread, it's old by now , probably about 1o pages back, called 'what do i do about DP's porn habbit' or somthing similar

Alle - not on the threads where the OP has only been with the guy for 5 minutes and he's already being a knob!

i would say again what i said , but i might get banned again, if what i said made you gag , you simply need to grow up

dad you don't see me on any other threads than sex ones, because you don't frequent them yourself

yeah Bertie I generally find myself in agreement with those too. Well...usually.

OP - firstly no of course you don't have to do anything you don't want to! Secondly, it shouldn't be one rule for you and another for him.

All these tips on how to start enjoying it are missing the point somewhat, I feel

Do you not think OP's new man is being a knob then?

dont open your mouth and let your brains fly out any fucker do you know what threads i have posted on? if you dont your not really in a position to act like you are , are you?