DH screws up again

[mrsruffallo]

Had to cancel all my plans for the weekend. And why?
He has caught a tummy bug and is vomiting constantly.
I have had enough.

Wow, YABVU.

is this a joke?

Eh??

Unless I am missing something, nothing that a box of Alka Seltzer can't cure and why are you cancelling your plans??

Sorry, perhaps I am missing something ...

It'sone thing after another.

what did he do all the other times?

Oh dear....Was this a well planned special weekend ruined?

Obviously YABVU, but understandable.

Unless there's more to it, I'd say 'give the guy a break'...

Apparently he can't keep anything down so tablets no good

Buy him some domperidone and 100 Actimel drinks

did he do it deliberatley?

yes, all people who catch bugs on purpose should be shot and then fed to the sharks

YABU, your DH has bad timing for sure, but come on...........

It's hardly his fault he's ill, but it must be frustrating if you had plans.

I think YAB a bit U but I kinda understand. My dh seems to always be ill with something or another and I get fed up of being the one having to take all the slack.
I'd have more sympathy if he'd ever go to the damn doctor but he never does so in my eyes is doing nothing to help himself.

Can you trade him in for someone healthy?

my wife gets irritated by me when i'm sick, sometimes it would be easier to be sick alone than with her around .

He should leave you.

That's because men always make such a drama out of it!
Well my DH does at least. Has to lie on the couch pitifully asking for drinks and paracetamol, football on tv.

I feel like I never get the opportunity to be sick because he always is!
With Man Flu!

Malgosia

I wouldnt cancel anything- he'll perk up.

I have a teeny bit of empathy with the OP, I hate sick people. Other than my DD, when I'm around people feeling poorly I turn into a horrid Captain Mainwearin type and want to tell them to pull themselves together. They bug me. It's not a nice trait, I'm aware of that .

But OP, your title sounds as if you have more issues than being pissed off at Man Flu.

Thanks for your understanding. We had tickets for something, a birthday present for him from SIL.
Now we can't go

OP this is abusive behaviour and it will get worse. Make no mistake, this man is a terrible role model for your children. Do you want them to grow up thinking it's ok to have viruses? Leave him now! Be brave. We're here for you.

Cannot type .

Just reversing the usual MN meme, BitOfFun.

Go without him, take a friend.