Hi everyone - just wanted to share the news that DH and I have been approved to adopt a little boy (nearly 2 years old and gorgeous) and are going to meet him on Wednesday! We're so excited - just spent the weekend rearranging rooms to get his ready so consequently both knackered - just had a celebratory glass of wine and a curry. Thanks to all MNers, particularly Kewcumber and Bran for all your advice and support along the way. Now I'm on adoption leave I hope to be better at keeping in touch and replying in a timely fashion to your posts. For now though, off to bed!