She is absolutely adorable, I am smitten. She is less smitten with us, but we'll wear her down.
It actually went better than expected - although the planning meeting was dreadful and very long with lots of waffle and needless pedantry.
When we went to meet DD she was still having a nap and I went up with the foster mum to get her up. The foster parents had warned us that she is very wary of strangers and will often cry so we gave her plenty of space and didn't try to rush her into communicating with us. She wasn't too overcome, although she didn't come over to us or smile at us she did let go of her FM after about 30 mins and roamed around the room on her little ride-on toy. FM said it usually took longer for DD to relax enough to get off her lap and go and play.
We are going back tomorrow with DS, he's really looking forward to it.