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46 replies

Ted27 · 18/02/2026 16:35

I just wanted to let all my lovely friends here know that I will be stepping away from the board for a while.
I have been diagnosed with breast cancer so have a tough year of chemo and surgery ahead.
I am very positive. The surgeon has ahem 'a lot to work with' so I hope that at the age of 60 I will emerge from this with a nice pair of perky pert c cups. Every cloud......
You are all wonderful, I will back to catch up with you all.
Xx

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Playingvideogames · 18/02/2026 16:38

Best of luck for your treatment hope you return with the perky C cups! 💐

mumof2many1943 · 18/02/2026 18:36

Oh Ted27 I am so sad to read this. I had breast cancer when I was 49 I survived and continued to adopt, I was so lucky! I am sending love and positive vibes. My thoughts are with you and stay strong as you always have!!

Ted27 · 18/02/2026 18:42

@mumof2many1943

You are my hero.

My prognosis is good. But its going to be a tough year.
Ive just come off the phone with another friend. Im overwhelmed by generosity of the support I'm receiving.
Who needs drugs when you have the power of the sisterhood - and a couple of husbands

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WeekendAgain · 18/02/2026 18:45

Sending best wishes to you & yours.
Looking forward to reading your posts again, and news of those C cups!

Formby · 18/02/2026 18:46

Occasional poster here but long time reader of adoption and fostering boards.
Sending you my very best wishes for your journey through this and will be looking forward to your updates as you progress and come out on the other side.

LaughingM · 18/02/2026 19:09

I’m a long time reader and hope to be future adopter who has always appreciated your wisdom and cautious positivity Ted. Best of luck with your treatment and take care.

GratitudeGoddess · 18/02/2026 19:34

Very long time reader here, sending you love and positive healing vibes ♥️ 🙏🏾 💫

mumof2many1943 · 18/02/2026 19:46

Ted27 Thankyou I am near to tears and I am a tough old bird!
If you can please stay in touch I am here for you! Take care of yourself and your lovely son!

Gafan · 18/02/2026 20:11

Best wishes for the chemo/surgery etc.
I always look for an answer from you as your very helpful and knowledgeable.
Wishing you all the best x

Ted27 · 18/02/2026 20:19

@mumof2many1943

I will of course check in from time to time.
I am facing a difficult week with hospital appts. I also have to tell my family, including that lovely boy of mine

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FinallyMummy · 18/02/2026 20:49

Relatively new adopter here who has long appreciated your posts.
Sorry to hear about your diagnosis Ted. Best of luck to you (and your boy as he supports you through this) Flowers

sunshineandskyscrapers · 18/02/2026 20:55

Sending you the best of wishes @Ted27 A tough year ahead indeed, but having followed your posts over the years, I know enough about you that I don't doubt you will make light work of this. Time to put yourself first now. Hope to see you posting again soon. 🌻🌼🌹🌻🌼🌹

Reportingfromwherever · 18/02/2026 20:59

I’m so sorry to hear this Ted. I’m a regular name changer so while you don’t recognise me, I have felt very lucky to have heard so much of your wisdom over the years. I will be sending good vibes and thinking of you xx

LeoLeo2 · 18/02/2026 20:59

You are such a strong presence here Ted; always so measured, thoughtful and wise.

Sending all our positivity and best wishes to you and your boy.

Jellycatspyjamas · 18/02/2026 21:44

Oh @Ted27 I’m so sorry to hear that, I’m glad you have strong support around you and know you’ll face this next part of your journey with pragmatism and fortitude.

May the road rise up to meet you.

LittleBear21 · 18/02/2026 22:55

Sending prayers and best wishes @Ted27 Your words of wisdom have been so helpful. You will be very much missed; but are right to conserve your energy for what is most important.

MrsMatty · 19/02/2026 04:01

Very best wishes to you Ted27. Sending loads of good vibes through the ether xx

UnderTheNameOfSanders · 19/02/2026 06:13

I'm not great with words at times like yous, but bedtime wishes for a good recovery.

Terew · 19/02/2026 09:21

Good luck and you will be missed!

jingscrivenshelpmaboab · 19/02/2026 09:28

We will miss your wisdom and humour @Ted27 and know those qualities will hopefully guide you through the year ahead. Sending lots of positive thoughts to you and your boy

OurChristmasMiracle · 19/02/2026 13:21

@Ted27 wishing you the very best on the journey ahead. I will be thinking of you and your family.

onlytherain · 19/02/2026 14:00

I am very sorry to hear this. I will miss you and your knowledgeable, wise and kind posts. Wishing you a speedy recovery! 🍀

Jenhen1982 · 19/02/2026 14:28

Our AD has been home almost 2 years and I’ve lurked a lot on this forum and found your posts super hopeful. So sorry to hear this news! You’ve got this. Thinking of you. We’re all here when you need us xx

flapjackfairy · 20/02/2026 18:09

Ah Ted sorry to hear the news.
Sending every good wish for the time ahead .
You have long been the voice of reason on this and the Adoption UK boards. We will miss you and hope you are back happy and healthy in the not too distant future xxx

FoolShapeHeart · 20/02/2026 21:12

I'm sending you the very best wishes for kicking cancer's arse swiftly and definitively @Ted27 and am looking forward to seeing you back here whenever you feel like a visit x