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Ted27 · 18/02/2026 16:35

I just wanted to let all my lovely friends here know that I will be stepping away from the board for a while.
I have been diagnosed with breast cancer so have a tough year of chemo and surgery ahead.
I am very positive. The surgeon has ahem 'a lot to work with' so I hope that at the age of 60 I will emerge from this with a nice pair of perky pert c cups. Every cloud......
You are all wonderful, I will back to catch up with you all.
Xx

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R8SKA · 26/05/2026 16:16

Ted27 · 26/05/2026 16:13

Hi all, a wee update from me.

I had a scan a few weeks ago and saw my oncologist today.
I've had the best news I could hope for at this stage. There is still a long road ahead, I will probably be on some treatment for the rest of my life, but the scan showed a reduction in the primary tumour and no sign of the secondary area of concern.
I feel optimistic for the first time
I can stop thinking about funeral planning and more about how to get back into work

Amazing Ted,

Ive been thinking about you and I’m so glad you’ve got some good news!

mumof2many1943 · 26/05/2026 16:17

What fantastic news! My daughter is on life long treatment and she doesn’t find it too arduous! Good luck and take care!

Baital · 26/05/2026 16:35

So glad to hear xxx

WeekendAgain · 26/05/2026 18:26

Brilliant news Ted xxx

flapjackfairy · 26/05/2026 18:27

Gosh I am so.glad to hear your positive update. Great news x

MrsMatty · 26/05/2026 22:22

That’s such good news! xx

Chocapple · 26/05/2026 22:34

Oh Ted that's such good news.

Hels20 · 26/05/2026 22:44

What wonderful news.

SomeTameGazelles · 27/05/2026 00:29

Ted27 · 26/05/2026 16:13

Hi all, a wee update from me.

I had a scan a few weeks ago and saw my oncologist today.
I've had the best news I could hope for at this stage. There is still a long road ahead, I will probably be on some treatment for the rest of my life, but the scan showed a reduction in the primary tumour and no sign of the secondary area of concern.
I feel optimistic for the first time
I can stop thinking about funeral planning and more about how to get back into work

I couldn’t be more pleased, @Ted27.

Reportingfromwherever · 27/05/2026 21:41

Hurrah from me too!

Seahorsesplendour · 27/05/2026 22:48

And me!! 😆💖 fab news!! So pleased for you!!

LeoLeo2 · 28/05/2026 00:45

What brilliant news. You can now head in to a summer of recovery and start to make positive plans again.

So pleased for you (and your boy).

jingscrivenshelpmaboab · 28/05/2026 00:46

That's lovely news Ted, so pleased for you both

OurChristmasMiracle · 28/05/2026 10:53

So so glad the hear this @Ted27 such positive news and I am sure you and your family are relieved.

please do take good care of yourself.

LittleBear21 · 29/05/2026 09:08

Glad you've had some positive news. Wishing you the very best for a continued recovery.

Kewcumber · 01/06/2026 10:05

That's such good news @Ted27, my mum had metastasized stage three bladder cancer and she was given a 5% chance of making it to 2 years. She had an amazing reaction to the chemo and radiotherapy finished it off and she died 15 years later from a totally unrelated illness (cervical cancer - get your smears done, ladies).

I am channelling my lovely mum and sending her vibes your way.

onlytherain · 08/06/2026 20:48

I am currently reading Cured: The Power of Our Immune System and the Mind-Body Connection by Dr Jeff Rediger - anything is possible! I am very glad you have had such good news!

Ted27 · 20/06/2026 15:24

Thank you for all your support and kind words.
I had my last chemo this week. Have to be honest its been brutal but hopefully its done its job
I will now be on an injection every 3 weeks and a daily hormone therapy tablet.
It will take a lot of time to recover from the chemo. My cancer is incurable, but treatable. Life has changed forever and Im not sure what Ted27 v2 is going to look like.

If Im honest I fear dementia more than I fear cancer. We all have to die of something but I dont want to spend my final years oblivious to the world and my loved ones.
But there is plenty of life in me yet, lots of things to look forward to over the summer.
My lovely boy has finished his degree and will have his graduation in September so very excited about that

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Formby · 20/06/2026 17:48

Great to hear this stage of your treatment is over. Take care and enjoy a relaxing summer with your boy before you go full throttle into life again. Best wishes.

LeoLeo2 · 20/06/2026 19:54

Wow, graduation! Amazing.

I am glad you will have some time to regain some strength ready to enjoy the celebration in September and that the future is looking different but with positives in it.

mumof2many1943 · 20/06/2026 20:06

Best news for a longtime!So glad you are now through your chemo and you have coped so well. Mind you are a warrior and I am not surprised.
Well done to your lovely son, enjoy his graduation!
BTW I am with you on your dementia comment! Anyway good luck.

Baital · 21/06/2026 21:47

Ted27 · 20/06/2026 15:24

Thank you for all your support and kind words.
I had my last chemo this week. Have to be honest its been brutal but hopefully its done its job
I will now be on an injection every 3 weeks and a daily hormone therapy tablet.
It will take a lot of time to recover from the chemo. My cancer is incurable, but treatable. Life has changed forever and Im not sure what Ted27 v2 is going to look like.

If Im honest I fear dementia more than I fear cancer. We all have to die of something but I dont want to spend my final years oblivious to the world and my loved ones.
But there is plenty of life in me yet, lots of things to look forward to over the summer.
My lovely boy has finished his degree and will have his graduation in September so very excited about that

Congratulations to you both on graduation!

LeoLeo2 · 23/06/2026 07:51

What an achievement for you both. Such a journey!

onlytherain · 23/06/2026 23:51

Congratulations to being done with chemo! I hope it's onwards and upwards from here.

To clarify my book suggestion: I am not sure you know that both my children have severe health issues. The book is written by a Harvard medical doctor and psychiatrist who writes about spontaneous healing, without making unrealistic or unevidenced claims.

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