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PurplePillow · 23/07/2010 15:13

Sorry for shouting in the title but I am sooo excited and nervous!

Finally I recieved a phone call from my link worker to say that he and his boss are coming to see me on Wednesday to discuss a possible match!

i know it's still only a maybe but after being aproved for 3 years my dd and I are bursting with prospective happiness

Just wanted to share

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pirateparty · 23/07/2010 15:15

Fab! That's very exciting. Hope it goes well.

PurplePillow · 23/07/2010 15:18

Thanks pirate, just hope it's not another false start, seems like we've waited forever to get to this point

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PurplePillow · 23/07/2010 15:35

Seems like only pirate cares

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booyhoo · 23/07/2010 15:37

i care!!

that is good news. hopefully it will be a positive meeting and you will be on the road to being a mum again.

StealthPolarBear · 23/07/2010 15:39

good luck for Wednesday, hope the wait is not too agonising!

PurplePillow · 23/07/2010 15:50

Thanks booyhoo and Stealth

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StayingDavidTennantsGirl · 23/07/2010 15:52

I've only just seen this - and I think it's great news, PurplePillow. I'll cross my fingers and send you good vibes for the meeting and its outcome!

PurplePillow · 23/07/2010 15:55

Thanks SDTG

I'm soo bloody excited

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StayingDavidTennantsGirl · 23/07/2010 16:02

Really? 'Cos you seem so calm and chilled here!!

Swarski · 23/07/2010 16:13

Good luck - let us know how Wed goes....have a good weekend!

ajandjjmum · 23/07/2010 16:20

Hope it goes well for you.

MumInBeds · 23/07/2010 16:25

Fantastic news! I hope it goes really well on Wednesday.

caramelwaffle · 23/07/2010 16:26

Good luck

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hester · 23/07/2010 21:59

Oh PP, I do hope this is your breakthrough. Let us know how you get on, won't you?

HaveToWearHeels · 23/07/2010 22:09

How exciting....please update us on Wednesday !

PurplePillow · 23/07/2010 22:27

Thanks every-one

Sorry I dissappered, had to go to work.

We are both really excited, don't know any details til wednesday but we are now approved for a child 0-5yrs, so it is wide open really although dd want's a little sister

I hope your right Hester, after nearly 5 yrs since we started the process ans numerous hoops jumped through there finally looks like there could be light at the end of the tunnel

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PlumBumMum · 23/07/2010 22:33

Thats brilliant Purplepillow there are some lovely adoption threads on here, best of luck for wednesday

KristinaM · 26/07/2010 15:19

wonderful news

please let us know when you can ( although obviously you wont be able to give any details of the child )

coventgarden · 26/07/2010 15:44

This is great news

Were you approved 3 years ago but have been waiting all this time for a child?

pumpupthevolume · 26/07/2010 16:35

Hooray - keeping my fingers crossed for you...

PurplePillow · 26/07/2010 17:49

Yeah coventgarden, we were approved (me & dd) 3 yrs ago for a girl 2-5 yrs but then was suspended for a year til I had stopped smoking then new approval in may for 0-5 yrs child

It has been a long road but one well worth treading especially now with a light at the end of the tunnel (I hope) at last

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coventgarden · 26/07/2010 17:51

I didn't know they were making people stop smoking but for everyones benefit it is the right thing to do.

I really hope it works out for you on Wednesday .

I was meant to be adopted.

PurplePillow · 26/07/2010 19:28

the legislation is (with my la) that they will not place a child under 5 in a smokers home.

I do agree fully with the legislation but after all the hoops they get you to jump through to get approved it felt like another hurdle to cross slap in the face but we got there in the end

What do you mean "I was meant to be adopted"? If you don't mind me asking, tell me to piss off mind my own business if you like

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