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Young woman took her own life after 'surprise' disciplinary interview at HM Treasury - shocking

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Gizzasec · 15/10/2026 09:53

Story about a 26-year-old civil servant who, although she had a 3-year "spotless" record, was called into a disciplinary interview without warning, about anonymous complaints of misconduct. She took her own life soon afterwards.

www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/oct/15/chloe-moffat-suicide-parents-treasury-staff

She wasn't allowed to have anyone supporting her, ffs. In other words, she got worse treatment than she would've got had she been interviewed by the police, even without an arrest. You're entitled to free legal advice. Her parents are getting a meeting with the Treasury permanent secretary, after they basically stonewalled during the inquest - presumably on legal advice.

How in God's name is this even possible in this day and age? Who do these managers think they are? And where was the civil service trade union in all of this? Her parents are getting a meeting with the Treasury permanent secretary; they want people to be held to account for what happened. Can you blame them? The Treasury have admitted this wasn't a one-off.

I worked for a long time at an NGO with similar procedures to the civil service; I've seen people crushed by "disciplinary" proceedings that are little more than kangaroo courts. I'm sick of hearing stories - both personally & in the media - about appalling management behaviour. Some people seem to think being a boss in Britain means you get to treat your staff however you want. Sickening.

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SomebodyElsesGuy · 15/10/2026 09:56

This is disgraceful.

tiptoptoemaytoe · 15/10/2026 11:20

My sympathies with the parents- I hope they hold the treasury to account for this. Have experience of disciplinary hearings sadly- once the organisation has made up their mind (dismissal), there’s very little you can do except prepare for a lengthy and expensive tribunal.

TinDogTavern · 15/10/2026 11:50

A long time ago a similar thing happened to me. I was suspended last thing on a Friday and told I wasn’t allowed to talk to anyone about it, and at that time of day I couldn’t contact the union. I wasn’t told the nature of the allegations (I never did find out).

I was unsuspended about a month later but I never went back and had suicidal thoughts throughout that time (and I was a good few years older than poor Chloe).

I will never forget them saying to me that suspension was “a neutral act”. Oh yeah, nothing screams neutrality like turning someone’s life upside down, humiliating them in front of their colleagues, then leaving them entirely unsupported.

Shocked but unsurprised this is still going on. RIP Chloe.

tokennamechange · 15/10/2026 11:53

it is appalling - particularly her LM still saying there was nothing they would have done differently at the inquest - but not sure why you blame the trade union - if she wasn't a member (article doesn't say she was) they wouldn't have any involvement?

Just because this happened in one CS department doesn't mean every public sector org is the same. It's a huge employer. I've worked at a few arms length bodies and the policy was absolutely that people could bring friends - we even had special training and volunteers for people who could act as such if you weren't a union member (obviously you could also just bring a different colleague instead if you preferred).

Rosecoffeecup · 15/10/2026 12:04

Perfectly normal in every private sector organisation I've worked in to have a fact finding meeting before a formal disciplinary meeting (the latter of which you are entitled to bring someone to).

Maybe I'm callous but I struggle with the idea that the line manager and/or HR are to blame here.

Dollymylove · 15/10/2026 12:14

Its difficult to make any comments without more information. What evidence did they have of wrongdoing? Was she in a union?

DeafLeppard · 15/10/2026 12:19

I don’t think committing suicide after one meeting is normal, and if work weren’t aware of any MH problems, I’m not sure what they were supposed to do.

Crocsforlife · 15/10/2026 12:29

DeafLeppard · 15/10/2026 12:19

I don’t think committing suicide after one meeting is normal, and if work weren’t aware of any MH problems, I’m not sure what they were supposed to do.

Maybe follow the law and not give surprise disciplinary meetings.

SemperIdem · 15/10/2026 12:32

It was a fact finding meeting, not a disciplinary.

Yes, they could have offered her the opportunity to have someone sit in there with her, though this is not a mandatory requirement at fact finding stage (it is at disciplinary).

Her death is extremely sad but so far out of the realm of normal reasonable reactions that there is no way they could have anticipated such an outcome.

Nofeckingway · 15/10/2026 12:35

Don't they always say that someone killing themselves is nobody's fault . Like if a partner threatens it if you leave him ? Because it is a drastic reaction to a very common situation. Unless she had a history that management were aware of , how can they be held responsible. Nobody at that meeting could have forseen this . I feel so sad for her family and it's understandable that they want someone to blame .

LasagneGoblin · 15/10/2026 12:39

From personal experience I know the civil service is toxic but dear lord that's horrific, that poor woman and her family. I hope whoever organised that meeting is crucified for it.

HermioneWeasley · 15/10/2026 12:39

It is a very sad case, but I also can’t see that her employer did anything wrong

when you are investigating something, it is usually beneficial to the investigation to give no notice of meetings. You don’t want to alert people and have them destroy evidence or start colluding. I don’t know what Chloe was being investigated for, but as a principle it is important that employers retain the ability to speak to employees to establish facts and get their unrehearsed reaction to evidence.

I have had situations where multiple employees have been kept alone in separate rooms without devices etc as they have been interviewed one by one, and the differences in their stories has been critical evidence in uncovering fraud.

this is an isolated but very sad case of a young woman who tragically overreacted to events. I suspect she had poor mental health in the first place for her to take that course of action.

HermioneWeasley · 15/10/2026 12:40

LasagneGoblin · 15/10/2026 12:39

From personal experience I know the civil service is toxic but dear lord that's horrific, that poor woman and her family. I hope whoever organised that meeting is crucified for it.

Put your pitchfork down

Boomer55 · 15/10/2026 12:46

SemperIdem · 15/10/2026 12:32

It was a fact finding meeting, not a disciplinary.

Yes, they could have offered her the opportunity to have someone sit in there with her, though this is not a mandatory requirement at fact finding stage (it is at disciplinary).

Her death is extremely sad but so far out of the realm of normal reasonable reactions that there is no way they could have anticipated such an outcome.

This. The vast majority of people do not act in extreme ways, after a career fact finding interview.

If she had mental health problems, then it’s sad she didn’t get appropriate help.

But, thoughts with her loved ones.

Glowingup · 15/10/2026 12:51

LasagneGoblin · 15/10/2026 12:39

From personal experience I know the civil service is toxic but dear lord that's horrific, that poor woman and her family. I hope whoever organised that meeting is crucified for it.

Crucified? What do you expect them to do if allegations are raised? If you reported something that someone had done at work you’d want the employer to investigate wouldn’t you? It is highly unusual for someone to kill themselves after one disciplinary meeting. Very unusual. Especially if they were innocent of any allegations and they had a supportive family who would presumably have helped out financially if they did lose their job. She must have had quite serious MH issues.

Windowcleaning · 15/10/2026 13:06

According to the article, the dept have since changed their policies so there is a tacit admission that the situation could have been handled better.

If there was sufficient evidence to hold a meeting and change her email access and duties, then giving her notice and a chance to speak to her union, family or friends wouldn't alter the facts that they had.

I agree that Chloe's suicide wasn't anyone else's fault, but everyone involved in this process will be living with it for the rest of their lives.

The feeling of being ganged up on and a decision already having been made must have been horrific and would have been less if Chloe had been able to access some support, know her rights and feel that someone was fighting her corner before the meeting.

Glowingup · 15/10/2026 13:13

I get the sense that the “suicide is nobody else’s fault” only applies selectively. Eg in the Jason Arday case, people were happy to label others as having “killed” JA. And here people are also keen to blame the managers. But in support material about suicide it’s always emphasised that it’s never anyone else’s fault.

LasagneGoblin · 15/10/2026 13:18

Glowingup · 15/10/2026 12:51

Crucified? What do you expect them to do if allegations are raised? If you reported something that someone had done at work you’d want the employer to investigate wouldn’t you? It is highly unusual for someone to kill themselves after one disciplinary meeting. Very unusual. Especially if they were innocent of any allegations and they had a supportive family who would presumably have helped out financially if they did lose their job. She must have had quite serious MH issues.

What do you expect them to do if allegations are raised?

I expect them to follow the law regarding the handling of disciplinaries, which clearly states an employee should be given sufficient notice and time to prepare as well as their legal right to be accompanied. The Coroner's Court found that the Treasury's claim it was a fact finding meeting and not a disciplinary was absolute bollocks.

And well done for so astutely observing someone who ends their own life off the back of something line this is likely struggling with their mental health. All the more reason the Treasury's behaviour was abhorrent.

daffodilandtulip · 15/10/2026 13:20

Used to work for the NHS.

I whistle blew and got demoted during the same conversation. I didn’t even get any kind of hearing. Neither did anyone I “accused”.

A patient made absolutely wild accusations about me and I was suspended, told I could not speak to my colleagues and sent home. It took weeks of constant requests to even find out what the allegations were, because of “patient confidentiality”. Thus dragged on for about 8 months.

I reported Drs making dangerous drugs errors and got told I would be disciplined for bullying.

Public sector is vicious.

LasagneGoblin · 15/10/2026 13:24

Glowingup · 15/10/2026 13:13

I get the sense that the “suicide is nobody else’s fault” only applies selectively. Eg in the Jason Arday case, people were happy to label others as having “killed” JA. And here people are also keen to blame the managers. But in support material about suicide it’s always emphasised that it’s never anyone else’s fault.

Because the conclusion of the coroner's court was literally, “HM Treasury materially contributed to Ms Moffat’s death by not applying their written discipline policy and procedure in that they did not inform her that the likely penalty, if the allegations were proven, was a written warning and not dismissal.”

Do you work for the Treasury or something?

HangryBrickShark · 15/10/2026 13:33

My partner had this happen to him. He'd worked somewhere for 20 years, was in charge of a team. He went into hospital and nearly died with sepsis. When he finally went back to work on a phased return his bosses objected to the conditions of what tasks he could physically carry out which were set by his doctor. They asked him if he'd thought about retiring and when he said no he was offered a settlement agreement but they wouldn't discuss the terms or reasons why they were offering this. Finally he was hauled into a disciplinary meeting where numerous false and totally unfounded allegations were made against him by the junior team members who wanted rid of him as they were in essence 'angry with his reaction to the lack of work they'd carried out during his illness'. In other words they'd been lazy bastards and had done the bare minimum. The one team member in particular was after his job and the spurious accusations centred around some pretty inexcusable lies. His employers being keen 'not to rock the boat' ended up firing him. He was to weak and poorly to fight it. He lost his job. He lost his pension. He lost his self respect ( one of the lies which was sexual in nature could have caused him issues in seeing his Grandchildren). His employers had a long and unhappy reputation of doing this to there staff and there were at least ten or more people we knew over the years that had been treated in this way.

He became very down and depressed. I was incredibly proud of him for how he controlled his emotions and he never really put his previous employers down although he could easily have done so and exposes the lies. He gradually built his self confidence up again.

We were delighted to find that the staff member instrumental in lying so he could take his job soon found out that without my partners help and guidance he was not capable and he got fired/quit not long after.

The whole thing was disgusting and made me realise that in some situations employment rights mean sweet FA.

Erin1975 · 15/10/2026 13:41

Crocsforlife · 15/10/2026 12:29

Maybe follow the law and not give surprise disciplinary meetings.

It wasn't a disciplinary meeting. No disciplinary process had started.

What happened is standard procedure in every workplace in the country and entirely in line with what employment law expects.

LasagneGoblin · 15/10/2026 14:18

Erin1975 · 15/10/2026 13:41

It wasn't a disciplinary meeting. No disciplinary process had started.

What happened is standard procedure in every workplace in the country and entirely in line with what employment law expects.

Ok seriously now, is the Treasury PR team on this thread?

Why are people confidently stating there was no wrongdoing when the actual Coroner concluded,

"...the informal meeting at which Moffat was told of the disciplinary process had not been held in line with departmental policy, and that Moffat should have been informed of her right to be accompanied and any likely penalty she could face."

Source

Coroner sounds alarm on civil service disciplinary procedures after PA’s death

HM Treasury and cabinet secretary are in line to receive a “prevention of future deaths” report following conclusion of inquest into the death of C...

https://www.civilserviceworld.com/professions/article/coroner-sounds-alarm-on-civil-service-disciplinary-procedures-after-pas-death

Lunalara · 15/10/2026 14:51

I had something like that happen to me and it nearly destroyed me. It doesn’t help that on top of the stress of not knowing what you did wrong (most of the time), the job market is stupidly difficult. Could easily be out of a job for a year. Unless she did something terrible, she didn’t deserve to have this happen.

BoredZelda · 15/10/2026 14:51

Erin1975 · 15/10/2026 13:41

It wasn't a disciplinary meeting. No disciplinary process had started.

What happened is standard procedure in every workplace in the country and entirely in line with what employment law expects.

And yet, was against HM Treasury’s own written policy.

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