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Young woman took her own life after 'surprise' disciplinary interview at HM Treasury - shocking

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Gizzasec · 15/10/2026 09:53

Story about a 26-year-old civil servant who, although she had a 3-year "spotless" record, was called into a disciplinary interview without warning, about anonymous complaints of misconduct. She took her own life soon afterwards.

www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/oct/15/chloe-moffat-suicide-parents-treasury-staff

She wasn't allowed to have anyone supporting her, ffs. In other words, she got worse treatment than she would've got had she been interviewed by the police, even without an arrest. You're entitled to free legal advice. Her parents are getting a meeting with the Treasury permanent secretary, after they basically stonewalled during the inquest - presumably on legal advice.

How in God's name is this even possible in this day and age? Who do these managers think they are? And where was the civil service trade union in all of this? Her parents are getting a meeting with the Treasury permanent secretary; they want people to be held to account for what happened. Can you blame them? The Treasury have admitted this wasn't a one-off.

I worked for a long time at an NGO with similar procedures to the civil service; I've seen people crushed by "disciplinary" proceedings that are little more than kangaroo courts. I'm sick of hearing stories - both personally & in the media - about appalling management behaviour. Some people seem to think being a boss in Britain means you get to treat your staff however you want. Sickening.

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Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 12:39

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 12:36

We should be following best practices. Especially with a young employee who will be more vulnerable due to their age.
I have conducted disciplinary meetings and have always followed good practice. Acas have very clear guidelines.

Yes, but a great many organisations won't be following best practice in lots of different areas but will still be legally compliant. It is also a very grey area to suggest that age should drift into these decisions. It is ageist to deny a colleague a companion on the basis of age when you have allowed younger colleagues this.

Legislation needs to change if you want to add clarity to the process, otherwise you are relying on organisations to voluntarily follow best practice. Looking to 'crucify' them if they don't is unreasonable. If it's that important then make it mandatory.

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 12:43

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 12:38

If you want to follow bare legal minimum practice instead of good practice, that is up to you.

It's not about me. It's about as a society having clear rules with clear penalties if you break them. It's also about reasonableness for organisations that are often trying to operate with limited funding and resources.

Relying on organisations to voluntarily adopt best practice in all areas is completely unrealistic. We obviously need to carefully identify the rules that we find most important and to make them mandatory.

Glowingup · 16/10/2026 12:45

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 12:36

We should be following best practices. Especially with a young employee who will be more vulnerable due to their age.
I have conducted disciplinary meetings and have always followed good practice. Acas have very clear guidelines.

She was 26 years old. At what point do adults stop becoming “vulnerable due to age”. If she was 18 fine, but it’s ridiculous when you’re talking about people in their mid 20s.

Windowcleaning · 16/10/2026 12:55

Law is full of grey areas. That's literally what the role if courts and tribunals is - to arbitrate about these.

And in this instance, the coroner identified that the way this organisation conducted itself materially contributed to Chloe's suicide.

It is a dreadful state of affairs that all involved in the fact-finding process, her family,friends and colleagues will be living with this for the rest of their lives

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 12:59

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 12:43

It's not about me. It's about as a society having clear rules with clear penalties if you break them. It's also about reasonableness for organisations that are often trying to operate with limited funding and resources.

Relying on organisations to voluntarily adopt best practice in all areas is completely unrealistic. We obviously need to carefully identify the rules that we find most important and to make them mandatory.

I think government organisations should be following best practices. This wasn't an independent company with five employees.

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:01

Glowingup · 16/10/2026 12:45

She was 26 years old. At what point do adults stop becoming “vulnerable due to age”. If she was 18 fine, but it’s ridiculous when you’re talking about people in their mid 20s.

Young people are often younger in their maturity these days than in the past. That is a societal issue, but employers can't just pretend it's not a thing.

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:07

Windowcleaning · 16/10/2026 12:55

Law is full of grey areas. That's literally what the role if courts and tribunals is - to arbitrate about these.

And in this instance, the coroner identified that the way this organisation conducted itself materially contributed to Chloe's suicide.

It is a dreadful state of affairs that all involved in the fact-finding process, her family,friends and colleagues will be living with this for the rest of their lives

The coroner identified that it materially contributed to her death but this doesn't mean that the organisation has definitely breached their legal duty to her. That is entirely different and would have to be tested in court.

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:08

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:01

Young people are often younger in their maturity these days than in the past. That is a societal issue, but employers can't just pretend it's not a thing.

As someone that presumably works in HR, have you not heard of age discrimination?

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:11

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 12:59

I think government organisations should be following best practices. This wasn't an independent company with five employees.

There is no legal obligation for government organisations to follow all best practice. It wouldn't be practical for them to do so on every occasion. Ultimately, like a lot of organisations, they are trying to get stuff done with shrinking budgets and fewer resources. The role and work they do is vital and there has to be a balance with doing everything perfectly and being efficient. In some cases, following every bit of beet practice would cost lives.

LasagneGoblin · 16/10/2026 13:14

Didimum · 16/10/2026 12:28

Mumsnetters frequently have a huge chip on their shoulder when it comes to the civil service.

I think a significant part of the civil service is shite, but that aside the actual facts of the conclusion of the coroner are:

The coroner concluded that HM Treasury materially contributed to Chloe Moffat’s death because it failed to follow its own disciplinary policy and failed to reassure Chloe that dismissal was not the likely outcome.

The coroner also said evidence showed this was “not a one-off” but standard practice at HM Treasury and across other government departments, which she described as a “matter of concern”. She sent a Prevention of Future Deaths report to the Treasury, the head of the Civil Service and Acas.

So personal opinions about the civil service and the need for crucifixion aside, it's a clearly stated matter of public record that the Treasury (yes the whole thing, that's how legal entities work) was at fault and there's a serious problem with similar actions across the civil service as a
whole.

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:19

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:08

As someone that presumably works in HR, have you not heard of age discrimination?

As someone who understands the law it is legal to discriminate on the basis of age under various circumstances. Otherwise lone adults could go to kids soft play and vulnerability in terms of age would not exist under PACE guidelines.

Didimum · 16/10/2026 13:24

LasagneGoblin · 16/10/2026 13:14

I think a significant part of the civil service is shite, but that aside the actual facts of the conclusion of the coroner are:

The coroner concluded that HM Treasury materially contributed to Chloe Moffat’s death because it failed to follow its own disciplinary policy and failed to reassure Chloe that dismissal was not the likely outcome.

The coroner also said evidence showed this was “not a one-off” but standard practice at HM Treasury and across other government departments, which she described as a “matter of concern”. She sent a Prevention of Future Deaths report to the Treasury, the head of the Civil Service and Acas.

So personal opinions about the civil service and the need for crucifixion aside, it's a clearly stated matter of public record that the Treasury (yes the whole thing, that's how legal entities work) was at fault and there's a serious problem with similar actions across the civil service as a
whole.

I have not disputed on here at all that the Treasury failed in this. I said upthread that I fully accept the inquest's finding, and that it shows how important best practice is for all individuals – whether they have a known mental health issue or not.

There is no putting aside the 'personal opinions about the civil service and the need for crucifixion' – because that was my entire point in the last comment.

The civil service is an enormous organisation, and this scenario (and much worse) happens across so many private sector organisations across the UK – it just doesn't end up on the news, specifically because it hasn't occurred in the civil service or any large public sector body.

The specific witch hunt on the civil service and its employees, as though it's unique, matters and isn't OK by any stretch.

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:28

I have never seen any posts on here about the civil service. Well with the exception of racist anti migrants threads criticising immigration services.
Maybe if you work for the civil service you are more attuned than normal to any criticism?

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:28

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:19

As someone who understands the law it is legal to discriminate on the basis of age under various circumstances. Otherwise lone adults could go to kids soft play and vulnerability in terms of age would not exist under PACE guidelines.

You obviously don't understand the law if you think it would be legal to allow 'young people' up to some arbitrary age beyond 25 a companion in an informal fact finding meeting but deny an older colleague the same in the same scenario.

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:30

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:28

You obviously don't understand the law if you think it would be legal to allow 'young people' up to some arbitrary age beyond 25 a companion in an informal fact finding meeting but deny an older colleague the same in the same scenario.

Except that is not what I said. I said vulnerability should be considered and being young is a legally accepted vulnerability in many instances

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:36

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:30

Except that is not what I said. I said vulnerability should be considered and being young is a legally accepted vulnerability in many instances

Vulnerability on the grounds of age wouldn't have been relevant in this case. The lady was over 25. The laws generally will classify anyone under 18 as a vulnerable employee but there is no specific provision for people in their late 20s and they aren't considered especially vulnerable by law. I think you are really stretching. Presumably you perceive anyone under 30 as being 'young' and therefore inherently vulnerable?

Glowingup · 16/10/2026 13:39

Constantrunner · 16/10/2026 13:01

Young people are often younger in their maturity these days than in the past. That is a societal issue, but employers can't just pretend it's not a thing.

When do we stop assuming they are vulnerable if not at 26? 28? 30? 35? I’ve seen people in their late 30s and 40s describe themselves as “just a girl” and deride older people for daring to criticise them (comments like “I think it’s wrong for a woman in her 50s to start attacking someone a lot younger” where the “a lot younger” person is 38). Where does it stop?

mybiggreenfrog · 16/10/2026 13:41

Crocsforlife · 15/10/2026 12:29

Maybe follow the law and not give surprise disciplinary meetings.

There is no law which bars a person speaking with an employee about a potential disciplinary matter (with or without notice)

Gengha · 16/10/2026 13:47

Gizzasec · 15/10/2026 15:42

@TinDogTavern a workmate of mine was told she couldn't talk about the things she was accused of to anyone else while the "investigation" was in progress (oh how they love to play at detectives). So she couldn't talk to colleagues who may have witnessed the incidents - unjust. And after the investigation was over (which, predictably, found against her)? STILL not allowed to talk about it. To anyone. Ever. It's Kafkaesque. This in a unionised workplace; they didn't want to touch it. What the hell are unions FOR if not to fight this appalling - and surely illegal? - overreach.

@Rosecoffeecup "fact finding" sounds so fair and neutral, doesn't it? But it isn't. Allegations made by people whose identity you're not allowed to know are so often taken as fact, and the person under investigation is left to deny them without being able to back anything up. The imbalance of power is obvious. It's often more like nailing down one version of the truth than an impartial search for facts.

No, @DeafLeppard @SemperIdem committing suicide after one meeting isn't normal. But does that make you think "Christ, what the hell went on at that meeting?" or "Oh well the girl was clearly unusually sensitive, these things happen in the best-regulated workplaces, press on with Business As Usual"?

I don't know whether Chloe was a union member or not, but does anyone think that matters? I don't have a solicitor, but if I get arrested I'm automatically entitled to one. No-one should be going into these meetings alone & unsupported.

I agree, @LasagneGoblin & @Constantrunner. I also don't understand why people seem to think that saying she must already have had MH issues somehow exonerates her employer. Loads of people have MH issues ffs. I have MH issues, there's practically an anxiety epidemic going on. Disciplinary meetings - whether masquerading as fact-finding or not - should be survivable by all employees, not just the "normal" ones.

See that telling people they can’t talk to people about stuff, that’s a lot of shit. I don’t know why employers think they can insist on this. Yes confidential information they shouldn’t disclose in accordance with their obligations under their contracts but you can’t stop people trying to get witnesses or telling people what’s happening to them, it’s their life.

sending people home and blocking access to emails etc ie suspension can be just as detrimental to mental health of employees and many employers don’t put in place proper support measures there either.

LasagneGoblin · 16/10/2026 13:51

Didimum · 16/10/2026 13:24

I have not disputed on here at all that the Treasury failed in this. I said upthread that I fully accept the inquest's finding, and that it shows how important best practice is for all individuals – whether they have a known mental health issue or not.

There is no putting aside the 'personal opinions about the civil service and the need for crucifixion' – because that was my entire point in the last comment.

The civil service is an enormous organisation, and this scenario (and much worse) happens across so many private sector organisations across the UK – it just doesn't end up on the news, specifically because it hasn't occurred in the civil service or any large public sector body.

The specific witch hunt on the civil service and its employees, as though it's unique, matters and isn't OK by any stretch.

Edited

I have literally no idea what your point is.

Factually, a coroner thought there was sufficient evidence of issues like these across the entire civil service to include the head of the civil service in her Prevention of Death notice. So yeah, there is a problem across the civil service as a whole.

Maybe read your AI generated posts back to see if they make any sense and don't completely contradict eachother before posting? And tell it to lose the em dashes for the next one.

Didimum · 16/10/2026 14:10

LasagneGoblin · 16/10/2026 13:51

I have literally no idea what your point is.

Factually, a coroner thought there was sufficient evidence of issues like these across the entire civil service to include the head of the civil service in her Prevention of Death notice. So yeah, there is a problem across the civil service as a whole.

Maybe read your AI generated posts back to see if they make any sense and don't completely contradict eachother before posting? And tell it to lose the em dashes for the next one.

That it’s not unique to the civil service. Which it isn’t. But coroners aren’t investigating those, are they?

Nowhere did I say it didn’t happen across the civil service. I said it frequently happens outside the civil service in addition.

I haven’t used one em-dash in any of my posts (nor are any AI generated). They are open en-dashes and very common in British language. Perhaps brush up on punctuation next time you make a sulky post just because someone isn’t agreeing with you.

For future reference, closed em-dashes are the ones commonly flagged from suggested AI use.

thefeelingofbeingalive · 16/10/2026 14:11

Having been the subject of an unwarranted and unexpected disciplinary meeting, there was obviously other things going on.

LasagneGoblin · 16/10/2026 15:01

Didimum · 16/10/2026 14:10

That it’s not unique to the civil service. Which it isn’t. But coroners aren’t investigating those, are they?

Nowhere did I say it didn’t happen across the civil service. I said it frequently happens outside the civil service in addition.

I haven’t used one em-dash in any of my posts (nor are any AI generated). They are open en-dashes and very common in British language. Perhaps brush up on punctuation next time you make a sulky post just because someone isn’t agreeing with you.

For future reference, closed em-dashes are the ones commonly flagged from suggested AI use.

Edited

Fair correction, I meant the long parenthetical dashes that have been littering all your posts bar the last one, like, "....the need for crucifixion' – because..."

The biggest AI tell is confidently asserting things that are completely wrong, but I won't attribute to an LLM what can just as easily be explained by a baffling determination to argue black is white even when the facts are laid out in front of you.

Anyhoo, this thread is about the tragic death of a young woman which has been investigated by a coroner who reached a clear conclusion. I'll bow out now as there's apparently little value in continuing to point out those actual findings to you. I suggest you do likewise and continue your crusade to defend the poor victimised civil service elsewhere.

Cadeaukatze · 16/10/2026 15:14

Itchthescratch · 16/10/2026 13:11

There is no legal obligation for government organisations to follow all best practice. It wouldn't be practical for them to do so on every occasion. Ultimately, like a lot of organisations, they are trying to get stuff done with shrinking budgets and fewer resources. The role and work they do is vital and there has to be a balance with doing everything perfectly and being efficient. In some cases, following every bit of beet practice would cost lives.

If you are starting a process which could lead to someone losing their livelihood, yes you bloody well do follow best practice. Especially if you are a government department.

And you should be able to take someone to a fact finding meeting with you - either a colleague, a union rep, a lawyer or a friend/family member if there's nobody else.

Cadeaukatze · 16/10/2026 15:15

Gengha · 16/10/2026 13:47

See that telling people they can’t talk to people about stuff, that’s a lot of shit. I don’t know why employers think they can insist on this. Yes confidential information they shouldn’t disclose in accordance with their obligations under their contracts but you can’t stop people trying to get witnesses or telling people what’s happening to them, it’s their life.

sending people home and blocking access to emails etc ie suspension can be just as detrimental to mental health of employees and many employers don’t put in place proper support measures there either.

It also seems very one-sided and against natural justice. Employees should be able to defend themselves.

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