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Has everyone seen the photo of the Archbishop of Canterbury presenting an award to Hafiz Muhammad Tahir Mehmood Ashrafi? If not, please have a look

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TheStateWeAreIn · 18/09/2026 12:28

I don’t know what to say really, I just want as many women on MN as possible to see this picture.

Particularly Hafiz Muhammad Tahir Mehmood Ashrafi‘s wife.

There’s so much going on there.

(I know there’s another thread about the award and it’s subsequent withdrawal, I just wanted to start a thread to focus on the photo)

Has everyone seen the photo of the Archbishop of Canterbury presenting an award to Hafiz Muhammad Tahir Mehmood Ashrafi? If not, please have a look
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nomas · 22/09/2026 14:01

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 14:00

So wanting women to stop mentioning utterly regressive acts against women in 2026. Colour me surprised… etc

More than happy for you to mention them. But I think the charity on the ground will do more to help Afghan women than a thread on MN.

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 14:03

nomas · 22/09/2026 14:01

More than happy for you to mention them. But I think the charity on the ground will do more to help Afghan women than a thread on MN.

Ok so you’ve given a lot already, that’s great.

Meanwhile a female dominated site can and does effect change here and I’m happy with that.

nomas · 22/09/2026 14:04

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 14:03

Ok so you’ve given a lot already, that’s great.

Meanwhile a female dominated site can and does effect change here and I’m happy with that.

Change is effected by people who actually care.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

MaturingCheeseball · 22/09/2026 14:05

nomas · 22/09/2026 13:54

How are you supporting the women of Afghanistan by sneering at their plight?

A think a donation to an Afghan women's charity would be more helpful to them.

Why would anyone donate to Afghan women, in your opinion? Because you seem to be saying they’re living according to their own feminist choices?

nomas · 22/09/2026 14:06

MaturingCheeseball · 22/09/2026 14:05

Why would anyone donate to Afghan women, in your opinion? Because you seem to be saying they’re living according to their own feminist choices?

Because you seem to be saying they’re living according to their own feminist choices?

Did I? Are you reading things in my post that aren't there just as with Debbie's posts? Which bit was satire in her post?

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 14:07

nomas · 22/09/2026 14:04

Change is effected by people who actually care.

I do care. It doesn’t align with what you want but for women and girls I find it important. I’m glad this thread has moved on from the usual and in a way the image is stark enough to open the door for women to discuss it.

nomas · 22/09/2026 14:09

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 14:07

I do care. It doesn’t align with what you want but for women and girls I find it important. I’m glad this thread has moved on from the usual and in a way the image is stark enough to open the door for women to discuss it.

What do you care about? Genuinely not clear about that.

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 14:12

nomas · 22/09/2026 14:09

What do you care about? Genuinely not clear about that.

Edited

As said below I’d like to look to the twenty other countries including Denmark who have introduced legislation. Scroll back for more info.

I think the image in the op is helping women talk more openly about changes they want to see.

WinterGold · 22/09/2026 14:47

Ultimately, protecting rights both abroad and at home requires decisive policy decisions. While long-term diplomatic pressure remains vital for the women of Afghanistan, the UK must act within its own borders to uphold its core national values. Banning the burkha is not a rejection of diversity, but a necessary step to safeguard the integration, openness, and inclusivity that define modern British society.

The UK must now set clear boundaries at home. Those who choose to make here their home are welcome, but integration is a two-way street—and certain cultural practices, including niqabs/burkhas must be no longer allowed in order to align with British values of openness, equality, and mutual visibility.

5MinuteArgument · 22/09/2026 15:26

nomas · 22/09/2026 13:07

Here is a woman who has risen to the highest position in the Church of England because of our liberal society and beliefs in equality for men and women giving an award to a man whose religion and beliefs require his wife to wear a living shroud with two tiny holes for her eyes.

Actually Islam does not require women to cover their faces. You're confusing culture with religion.

Educate yourself.

I think you'd better go and educate Islamic schools like Barnett Hill Academy in North London, now getting state funding, who require girls as young as seven to wear the hijab as part of their school uniform.

They seem to think head covering for women and girls IS part of Islam. But no doubt nomas knows better.

5MinuteArgument · 22/09/2026 15:54

WinterGold · 22/09/2026 14:47

Ultimately, protecting rights both abroad and at home requires decisive policy decisions. While long-term diplomatic pressure remains vital for the women of Afghanistan, the UK must act within its own borders to uphold its core national values. Banning the burkha is not a rejection of diversity, but a necessary step to safeguard the integration, openness, and inclusivity that define modern British society.

The UK must now set clear boundaries at home. Those who choose to make here their home are welcome, but integration is a two-way street—and certain cultural practices, including niqabs/burkhas must be no longer allowed in order to align with British values of openness, equality, and mutual visibility.

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Yes, it should happen, but it won't.

Those in positions of power and responsibility are too far gone down the road of tolerating the intolerant. Politicians are chasing the Muslim vote and we have sectarianism growing in our cities especially. Add in a big dose of fear, and I'm afraid I don't feel very hopeful.

Talkinpeace · 22/09/2026 15:58

When in Rome, do as the Romans.

Niqab is not part of British culture.
It should not be tolerated.
I am not sure which country will admit to being the source of it
but those who support that culture should move there

or adapt to the culture of the country in which they reside

5MinuteArgument · 22/09/2026 16:00

Talkinpeace · 22/09/2026 15:58

When in Rome, do as the Romans.

Niqab is not part of British culture.
It should not be tolerated.
I am not sure which country will admit to being the source of it
but those who support that culture should move there

or adapt to the culture of the country in which they reside

Agree 100%

DebbieSavage · 22/09/2026 16:05

Talkinpeace · 22/09/2026 15:58

When in Rome, do as the Romans.

Niqab is not part of British culture.
It should not be tolerated.
I am not sure which country will admit to being the source of it
but those who support that culture should move there

or adapt to the culture of the country in which they reside

British culture is a blank slate that has always absorbed elements from other cultures. Without that we would be nothing. The niqab and burqa absolutely are a part of British culture and will likely become more so as the years go on and more and more people come to wear them.

5MinuteArgument · 22/09/2026 16:08

5MinuteArgument · 22/09/2026 15:54

Yes, it should happen, but it won't.

Those in positions of power and responsibility are too far gone down the road of tolerating the intolerant. Politicians are chasing the Muslim vote and we have sectarianism growing in our cities especially. Add in a big dose of fear, and I'm afraid I don't feel very hopeful.

Although I would totally support any move to assert British values and create a more cohesive society. I think quite a few Muslims would support this too as at the moment we're pandering to the most extreme forms of Islam.

MaturingCheeseball · 22/09/2026 16:08

DebbieSavage · 22/09/2026 16:05

British culture is a blank slate that has always absorbed elements from other cultures. Without that we would be nothing. The niqab and burqa absolutely are a part of British culture and will likely become more so as the years go on and more and more people come to wear them.

Careful there, you’ll have Nomas all of a swoon !

Imdunfer · 22/09/2026 16:17

DebbieSavage · 21/09/2026 15:52

The only thing that is oppressive in all this are the women who seem to think it is their business to police how women from other cultures live their life. So what if they decide they want to wear the niqab instead of a T-shirt and leggings? Modesty is a very important virtue to some communities and if it helps them feel closer to God then why can't you just be happy for them?

I find it difficult to be happy for anyone who has been brainwashed from birth that they are immoral if they don't dress and behave how men tell them to.

Talkinpeace · 22/09/2026 16:19

DebbieSavage · 22/09/2026 16:05

British culture is a blank slate that has always absorbed elements from other cultures. Without that we would be nothing. The niqab and burqa absolutely are a part of British culture and will likely become more so as the years go on and more and more people come to wear them.

That is incredibly offensive to the people who arrived in the British Isles as the ice sheet retreated.

Would you say the same of Native Americans
or Aboriginal Australians

should they give up the way they lived for centuries
just because intolerant newcomers hate women ?

DebbieSavage · 22/09/2026 16:23

Talkinpeace · 22/09/2026 16:19

That is incredibly offensive to the people who arrived in the British Isles as the ice sheet retreated.

Would you say the same of Native Americans
or Aboriginal Australians

should they give up the way they lived for centuries
just because intolerant newcomers hate women ?

We are not indigenous to the British Isles, as descendants of the Anglo-Saxons we are essentially colonisers in our own right. You cannot put us in the same category as the Aboriginals.

Talkinpeace · 22/09/2026 16:28

Educate yourself

The people who built Stonehenge, Avebury and Maiden Castle were here
before the Romans
who were here LONG before the Anglo Saxons

5MinuteArgument · 22/09/2026 16:50

DebbieSavage · 22/09/2026 16:23

We are not indigenous to the British Isles, as descendants of the Anglo-Saxons we are essentially colonisers in our own right. You cannot put us in the same category as the Aboriginals.

I don't know why you bother trolling this site. There are so many people who actually believe in the type of shxt you're spouting and many of them are in positions of power.

MaturingCheeseball · 22/09/2026 17:07

I think the “wokery cokery” needs to be a bit more on the nose because look at that Nomas poster - they were applauding and cheering Debbie’s posts.

Although maybe you can never go far enough: perhaps if it were suggested that we have “burka day” and every woman must wear one to show affiliation with her Islamic sisters (oh, and brothers and non-binaries) then we’d still get posters leaping up and down with excitement at the idea.

WinterGold · 22/09/2026 17:14

DebbieSavage · 22/09/2026 16:05

British culture is a blank slate that has always absorbed elements from other cultures. Without that we would be nothing. The niqab and burqa absolutely are a part of British culture and will likely become more so as the years go on and more and more people come to wear them.

Imagine believing an entire nation’s history, literature and legal system are a “blank slate” just because you discovered curry yesterday.

Run along now. Leave the cultural history to the adults.

ThatCyanCat · 22/09/2026 17:34

MaturingCheeseball · 22/09/2026 17:07

I think the “wokery cokery” needs to be a bit more on the nose because look at that Nomas poster - they were applauding and cheering Debbie’s posts.

Although maybe you can never go far enough: perhaps if it were suggested that we have “burka day” and every woman must wear one to show affiliation with her Islamic sisters (oh, and brothers and non-binaries) then we’d still get posters leaping up and down with excitement at the idea.

I think the “wokery cokery” needs to be a bit more on the nose because look at that Nomas poster - they were applauding and cheering Debbie’s posts.

And that was very funny and made it all worthwhile. All is forgiven, Debbie, mate. Give me some more flowers, you know you want to.

dairydebris · 22/09/2026 17:36

ThatCyanCat · 22/09/2026 17:34

I think the “wokery cokery” needs to be a bit more on the nose because look at that Nomas poster - they were applauding and cheering Debbie’s posts.

And that was very funny and made it all worthwhile. All is forgiven, Debbie, mate. Give me some more flowers, you know you want to.

I suddenly got the point of Debbie