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Clafoutie · Today 17:02

GinToBegin · Today 16:57

You could try reporting it, but I’m guessing you’ll also get this response…

Thank you for getting in touch and reporting that thread - we do, of course, understand why you did. Sadly, as this is such a big news story at the moment we know people will want to talk about it, and as a discussion site we will be letting the conversation continue, while removing any posts which are reported to us which we find to break our Talk guidelines.

Please remember there is a function to hide threads which you no longer wish to see.

Best wishes,
Kim
MNHQ

So I can hide the nastiness, which makes it all alright…

I used to believe MNHQ cared about this sort of thing. Now I’m not so sure 😔

IHadaMarvelousTimeRuiningEverything · Today 17:05

MrsKiplingsSauna · Today 16:52

This whole thread needs taking down. The level of disrespect is off the charts.

I agree. It needs to be pulled asap.

Foolish1984 · Today 17:05

changedusername190 · Today 16:39

Any three year old could outrun an adult easily because when you get to a path with a left or right you will not not which way they’ve gone and if you pick the wrong way it gives them valuable time to go further afield. Most estates have lots of interlinked paths.
If you’ve watch police programs you will see that sometimes it takes three police officers and a heat seeking helicopter to catch someone who is running through a warren of roads, footpaths and alleys.

THIS! This is a brilliant point, if only everyone had your critical thinking skills

KimMumsnet · Today 17:06

Good afternoon, all.

We've received quite a few reports about this thread, but we do understand that people will want to talk about this awful news story. However, please avoid speculation and do remember that we are a parenting site - this is a real situation which is happening to real parents.

Thank you.

Limeandfigs · Today 17:08

KimMumsnet · Today 17:06

Good afternoon, all.

We've received quite a few reports about this thread, but we do understand that people will want to talk about this awful news story. However, please avoid speculation and do remember that we are a parenting site - this is a real situation which is happening to real parents.

Thank you.

It is, and surely that's every reason to have some respect for what those poor parents are going through and pull the thread?

Their grief and fear is not a sideshow to be gossiped over.

GinToBegin · Today 17:09

Clafoutie · Today 17:02

I used to believe MNHQ cared about this sort of thing. Now I’m not so sure 😔

I’m now sure they don’t. This thread is a disgrace, and the recent post from MNHQ ia utterly fucking craven.

Clafoutie · Today 17:09

Limeandfigs · Today 17:08

It is, and surely that's every reason to have some respect for what those poor parents are going through and pull the thread?

Their grief and fear is not a sideshow to be gossiped over.

Well said

MrsKiplingsSauna · Today 17:09

Please remember there is a function to hide threads which you no longer wish to see.
Best wishes,
Kim
MNHQ

Dear Kim,

Please direct me to the function that stops the family from reading this horrible thread on mumsnet.

Thanks.

GinToBegin · Today 17:10

Read the flaming room, @MNHQ - nuke this thread.

GhostEed · Today 17:12

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jonesonscam · Today 17:12

KimMumsnet · Today 17:06

Good afternoon, all.

We've received quite a few reports about this thread, but we do understand that people will want to talk about this awful news story. However, please avoid speculation and do remember that we are a parenting site - this is a real situation which is happening to real parents.

Thank you.

Take it down

florence1234567 · Today 17:13

I remember very well a couple of years ago when I took my then 3 year old to Birmingham Botanical Gardens. He was walking a few metres ahead of me. I glanced down to take a sip out of my coffee cup and when I looked up after a few seconds he was gone. Luckily I found him after half a minute, but I remember the sheer panic I felt, even though the area is fenced off.

I really hope they find this poor little boy soon, Healthy and safe.

GingerBeverage · Today 17:15

Can anyone tell me if there are sniffer dogs involved? I'm really hoping they would help...?

Sunnibee · Today 17:16

I don't really understand what the problem is with this thread that people are determined it must be removed? The overwhelming majority of people are simply using it to send love and solidarity to the family and pray for the child's safe return home. Also to relate to how utterly terrifying this situation must be. Of course people are going to what to discuss situations in the news and also to share any updates/ information as it comes. That's social media.

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 17:16

Just heard on the local radio (North Midlands) that a lot of people have travelled down to help the search. I can't help wondering how many of them are doing it because they genuinely want to help and how many are doing it for attention and SM.

Sunnibee · Today 17:17

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 17:16

Just heard on the local radio (North Midlands) that a lot of people have travelled down to help the search. I can't help wondering how many of them are doing it because they genuinely want to help and how many are doing it for attention and SM.

who cares . If it helps find Noah that's all that matters

KittyCorncrake · Today 17:18

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Efacsen · Today 17:18

GingerBeverage · Today 17:15

Can anyone tell me if there are sniffer dogs involved? I'm really hoping they would help...?

Yes the police have been using sniffer dogs since yesterday

BBC

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EasternStandard · Today 17:20

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Not helpful.

GingerBeverage · Today 17:21

Efacsen · Today 17:18

Yes the police have been using sniffer dogs since yesterday

BBC

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Edited

Thank you

3luckystars · Today 17:22

God help them. We have all been there with children running off or breaking free, it happens in a split second.

AutumnLover1999 · Today 17:23

MrsKiplingsSauna · Today 17:09

Please remember there is a function to hide threads which you no longer wish to see.
Best wishes,
Kim
MNHQ

Dear Kim,

Please direct me to the function that stops the family from reading this horrible thread on mumsnet.

Thanks.

With respect,I'm sure reading Mumsnet will be very low on their priorities today 😞

blueberrymilkshake · Today 17:24

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Wow, I've never read more stupid, unhelpful comment on here - and that's saying something!

Waitingfordoggo · Today 17:25

You do realise there is a chance that someone in the family or connected to the family could read your comment. Do you honestly feel ok about that? Would you say it to their face?

EDIT- this was supposed to quote the compassionate comment upthread from the poster helpfully telling everyone to watch their kids.

Fairyyqueen · Today 17:25

Sunnibee · Today 17:16

I don't really understand what the problem is with this thread that people are determined it must be removed? The overwhelming majority of people are simply using it to send love and solidarity to the family and pray for the child's safe return home. Also to relate to how utterly terrifying this situation must be. Of course people are going to what to discuss situations in the news and also to share any updates/ information as it comes. That's social media.

I also very much doubt the parents are going to go read through a 32 page Mumsnet thread

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