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I won't be able to heat my home..

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Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 11:00

Due to the war in Iran, I simply cannot afford to heat my home.

I'm on heating oil, and since day 1 of the war, oil prices have risen sharply. I've just done a quick calculation, and to fill my tank today it will cost £550, the day before it all kicked off it would have cost £260. I'm just hoping and praying we have a mild winter. 🙏 Just venting.

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Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 13:59

shellyleppard · 31/08/2026 13:56

@Ihateboris there was something on the news at the weekend about heating oil companies having to refund customers for overcharging them? Sorry can't remember where I read it

Thanks for this. I'll do some research.

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shellyleppard · 31/08/2026 14:00

@Ihateboris you are very welcome x I hope it helps x

chirrupybird · 31/08/2026 14:02

I thought the government were going to do something about capping the price of heating oil, it's ridiculous that it's not covered by the restrictions on gas and electric prices.

NervousSheepy · 31/08/2026 14:03

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 13:59

Thanks for this. I'll do some research.

This was for people who had placed an order but had it cancelled when the prices rose significantly and subsequently had to pay the higher prices at the time. I don't know if/when it was intended to happen though or indeed if it has already happened.

TinaWarriorPrincess · 31/08/2026 14:05

Westfacing · 31/08/2026 13:00

... to save money my husband has set the heating so it doesn't come on until the inside temperature falls to 18° but I really feel the cold so for Christmas two years ago he bought me a heated blanket...

Do you have no say in what temperature the thermostat is set at?

I'm always astounded on the many MN thermostat threads in the winter at how many women are uncomfortably cold because the man of the house dictates what month the heating comes on and at what temperature!

It’s so awful isn’t it? Especially given that men run warmer than women biologically, so an okay temperature for a man will always be cold for a woman.

My old workplace went through a restructure, and with it offered voluntary redundancy, and one of my colleagues who was around 60 at the time decided to take early retirement (her husband was also due to retire around 6 months after her anyway). She confided in me that she was worried about those 6 months between her and her husband’s retirement because she was not “allowed” to turn the heating on when he wasn’t in the house! So many women are living in these disgusting dictatorships in their own homes.

HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · 31/08/2026 14:14

JustOneMoreScroll · 31/08/2026 13:34

@LumpyandBumps where are you? Your oil seems considerably more expensive than Essex and our prices are bad enough. Approx 50p in September 2025, jumping to 122p in March 2026 and then 62p in June 2026

Blimey! I’ve just ordered a tank full (east central Scotland) and it’s over £1,000. We have no alternative because there’s no gas here.

Cyclebabble · 31/08/2026 14:28

Hi OP I am on heating oil. There were some changes made to the support scheme in my area, so it might be worth checking again if you are eligible. Not of much use, but do you have a buying syndicate in your village? This is usually worth a couple of pence per litre off.

Backfrombright · 31/08/2026 14:32

Do you live alone? How many hours do you usually work a day? Just thinking that you will hopefully be out lots in heated homes cleaning?

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 14:38

Backfrombright · 31/08/2026 14:32

Do you live alone? How many hours do you usually work a day? Just thinking that you will hopefully be out lots in heated homes cleaning?

Edited

Just myself and my dog. I'm usually out from 8am until 630. I'll probably just go to bed as soon as I get home 😅

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Napsarelife · 31/08/2026 14:42

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 11:00

Due to the war in Iran, I simply cannot afford to heat my home.

I'm on heating oil, and since day 1 of the war, oil prices have risen sharply. I've just done a quick calculation, and to fill my tank today it will cost £550, the day before it all kicked off it would have cost £260. I'm just hoping and praying we have a mild winter. 🙏 Just venting.

I also have a house on oil, the government in Scotland ( I'm sure the rest of the Uk will have something similar) have a scheme you can apply for twice, £300 each, it was released in April, after the war started to try and prevent this. They pay your provider directly, you do need to prove you cant afford it, we just sent photos of us in our overdraft. We didn't have to re-apply for the second payment it was done automatically. If you dont already set up a monthly direct debit with a supplier, we do this and it evens out throughout the year, well did previously until the war, we will see how it works this year. I'll link the Scotland scheme below. https://www.gov.scot/news/support-for-households-using-heating-oil-and-lpg/

Support for households using heating oil and LPG

Details of emergency fund confirmed

https://www.gov.scot/news/support-for-households-using-heating-oil-and-lpg/

Datetime · 31/08/2026 14:45

I don’t have any heaters in my home and so I have bought plug in ones.

But usually I will just have layers, a hot water bottle and a blanket.

As long as you don’t have a draft you’ll be fine.

Morepositivemum · 31/08/2026 14:47

Can I recommend that people don’t recommend electric heaters- our heating broke down last year and we had two months of electric heaters. Still paying it back now.

Op see there any providers with payment plans or could you buy the minimum amount monthly?

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 14:48

Napsarelife · 31/08/2026 14:42

I also have a house on oil, the government in Scotland ( I'm sure the rest of the Uk will have something similar) have a scheme you can apply for twice, £300 each, it was released in April, after the war started to try and prevent this. They pay your provider directly, you do need to prove you cant afford it, we just sent photos of us in our overdraft. We didn't have to re-apply for the second payment it was done automatically. If you dont already set up a monthly direct debit with a supplier, we do this and it evens out throughout the year, well did previously until the war, we will see how it works this year. I'll link the Scotland scheme below. https://www.gov.scot/news/support-for-households-using-heating-oil-and-lpg/

That's so very helpful, thank you

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Backfrombright · 31/08/2026 14:50

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 14:38

Just myself and my dog. I'm usually out from 8am until 630. I'll probably just go to bed as soon as I get home 😅

And weekends? So you actually need to heat yourself house for a couple of hours a day by the sounds of it… is that unaffordable?

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 31/08/2026 14:51

Can you increase your income ?

feellikeanalien · 31/08/2026 15:00

Keep an eye on prices all the time OP. I was able to get 500l for £346 in July when the price dropped briefly. I used Paypal so was able to pay in three instalments. Don't know if that would help. Also, as others have said, can you set up a payment plan with your supplier.

It's worth contacting some suppliers direct as you can actually get a better deal than through people like Boilerjuice. I buy direct from NRG and it's always cheaper than buying through Boilerjuice.

Beesclover · 31/08/2026 15:01

Have you got a log burner? That helps, especially if you have a stove fan on top to blow the heat around. Heated blankets for the sofa and the bed make a big difference too. Little oil radiators which you only use in the rooms you're using. We're on oil and all of these help us to keep our oil use down.

Lastly, it's worth remembering which politicians in this country were champing at the bit to join Trump in Iran next time we vote.

Beesclover · 31/08/2026 15:03

feellikeanalien · 31/08/2026 15:00

Keep an eye on prices all the time OP. I was able to get 500l for £346 in July when the price dropped briefly. I used Paypal so was able to pay in three instalments. Don't know if that would help. Also, as others have said, can you set up a payment plan with your supplier.

It's worth contacting some suppliers direct as you can actually get a better deal than through people like Boilerjuice. I buy direct from NRG and it's always cheaper than buying through Boilerjuice.

Careful with PayPal pay in three, it can negatively effect your credit score. I used it when I didn't really need it and seriously regret it. It's the only credit I have other than a mobile phone contract and it knocked 200 points of my credit score.

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 15:10

feellikeanalien · 31/08/2026 15:00

Keep an eye on prices all the time OP. I was able to get 500l for £346 in July when the price dropped briefly. I used Paypal so was able to pay in three instalments. Don't know if that would help. Also, as others have said, can you set up a payment plan with your supplier.

It's worth contacting some suppliers direct as you can actually get a better deal than through people like Boilerjuice. I buy direct from NRG and it's always cheaper than buying through Boilerjuice.

Yes, I could kick myself for not buying oil in July. The tank is completely empty now...I was hoping the war would be over by now. If only.

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Backfrombright · 31/08/2026 15:17

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 15:10

Yes, I could kick myself for not buying oil in July. The tank is completely empty now...I was hoping the war would be over by now. If only.

But if you only need for a couple hours a day… still unaffordable?

Will your dog be home all day every day 8- 18.30pm though?

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 15:17

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 31/08/2026 14:51

Can you increase your income ?

Unfortunately not. I'm already doing two jobs (cleaning and dog walking). I work from 8am and get home by 630. I also work on a Saturday. Plus, I'm 55 and just don't have the energy I used to have.

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Ikeepforgettingmyusername · 31/08/2026 15:18

If you earn less than £36000 you may be eligible for a grant for solar panels and a heat pump. I've just had them fitted and didn't have to pay a penny.
Check your local council for warm homes local grant to see if you are eligible for up to £30000 grant.

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 15:19

Backfrombright · 31/08/2026 15:17

But if you only need for a couple hours a day… still unaffordable?

Will your dog be home all day every day 8- 18.30pm though?

Edited

Dog is walked by my niece in the middle of the day. My heating oil also heats my water!!

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Backfrombright · 31/08/2026 15:19

Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 15:19

Dog is walked by my niece in the middle of the day. My heating oil also heats my water!!

Yes by only needed for a couple of hours a day?

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