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I won't be able to heat my home..

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Ihateboris · 31/08/2026 11:00

Due to the war in Iran, I simply cannot afford to heat my home.

I'm on heating oil, and since day 1 of the war, oil prices have risen sharply. I've just done a quick calculation, and to fill my tank today it will cost £550, the day before it all kicked off it would have cost £260. I'm just hoping and praying we have a mild winter. 🙏 Just venting.

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Cyclebabble · 08/09/2026 09:10

pragmatistnyuk · 07/09/2026 14:04

Everyone needs to accept that the reason for this is not the present war in the Middle East, it is a deep seated malaise in Britain; we are not longer " a rich country", we are a ,poor country, ot quite 3rd world but way off being rich, we were bankrupt in 1940 and have been living beyond our means, beyond our income, ever since, apart from a timecwhen we had oil revenues which were used to fund de industrialisation and the resulting unemployement .
of late " growth" has been entirely ficticious, a feature of The Treasury saying that an in rease in population increased the size of the economy. just maybe ut did, but it was fuelled by mass immigration of unskilled low paid labour, not only producing less than the average output of the rest of the country but receiving government benefits and sending the money they got back to their families overseas, reducing the wealth of the country besides driving down wages, and of course " per capital income and wealth". That is why YOU are poor and cannot afford to heat your house, the Swiss dont have that problem, they are rich and just pay the bills. YOU HAVE GOT WHAT YOU VOTED FOR, voting for politicians who have destroyed the country.

Completely untrue. Migration has had no impact on the oil price. I last filled just before the war started. The price was 54p, it is now around 95-97p. This is entirely due to the war in the Middle East and we need it to stop soon so we can all get back to normal. For many of us it will be a difficult winter where we will need to watch the pennies very closely indeed.

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 09:26

Migration has had no impact on the oil price nor the price of food, read whatvi said . immigration HAS reduced the Per Capita Wealth of this country which means that We Are Poorer, and Less Able To Pay For things, so when the Price if Food and Oil goes up people ca. it afford to buy them.
Without mass immigration the Whole Country and Everyone In It would BE BETTER OFF financially, besides I. every other way, And So Be More Able To Afford and Absorb Price Increases. tw, I hope that YOU are providing accommodation, food, schooing, healthcare a h eating for the Immigrants you do obviously welcome Out Of Your Own Pocket???Thought. ot, YOU want e eryo e else to pay for YOUR PREJUDICES.

emuloc · 08/09/2026 09:36

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 09:26

Migration has had no impact on the oil price nor the price of food, read whatvi said . immigration HAS reduced the Per Capita Wealth of this country which means that We Are Poorer, and Less Able To Pay For things, so when the Price if Food and Oil goes up people ca. it afford to buy them.
Without mass immigration the Whole Country and Everyone In It would BE BETTER OFF financially, besides I. every other way, And So Be More Able To Afford and Absorb Price Increases. tw, I hope that YOU are providing accommodation, food, schooing, healthcare a h eating for the Immigrants you do obviously welcome Out Of Your Own Pocket???Thought. ot, YOU want e eryo e else to pay for YOUR PREJUDICES.

Oh dear. I need to take a break from reading such rubbish.

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 10:00

Yes, as it doesn't agree with yiur prejudices it must be wrong. Maybe you'd like to use the other " default cards", it does save having to recognise that you need to learn rather than stick to preconceptions a d close out what you dont want to know.

Ihateboris · 08/09/2026 11:02

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 09:26

Migration has had no impact on the oil price nor the price of food, read whatvi said . immigration HAS reduced the Per Capita Wealth of this country which means that We Are Poorer, and Less Able To Pay For things, so when the Price if Food and Oil goes up people ca. it afford to buy them.
Without mass immigration the Whole Country and Everyone In It would BE BETTER OFF financially, besides I. every other way, And So Be More Able To Afford and Absorb Price Increases. tw, I hope that YOU are providing accommodation, food, schooing, healthcare a h eating for the Immigrants you do obviously welcome Out Of Your Own Pocket???Thought. ot, YOU want e eryo e else to pay for YOUR PREJUDICES.

What now??

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Ihateboris · 08/09/2026 11:03

emuloc · 08/09/2026 09:36

Oh dear. I need to take a break from reading such rubbish.

Were you able to make any sense of that tirade? 🤔

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Ihateboris · 08/09/2026 11:08

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 10:00

Yes, as it doesn't agree with yiur prejudices it must be wrong. Maybe you'd like to use the other " default cards", it does save having to recognise that you need to learn rather than stick to preconceptions a d close out what you dont want to know.

Donald, in the nicest possible way, unless you have any suggestions as to how to keep warm this winter, please go back to playing golf and fake tanning. Thank you. As you were.

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Tedsnan1 · 08/09/2026 11:56

@dreamiesformolly I rarely catch coughs, colds or other viruses thankfully, but I live alone and don't mix much. I was surprised how well I coped last winter. Like yours my body temp is lower than normal (is this an ME thing?) but, since Covid I have developed histamine intolerance/MCAS and spend hours a day overheating and flushing. Much like perimeno symptoms but I'm long past all that. I am concerned about how I'll cope as I age further, so I've applied for a grant for solar panels which will help if I get it of course.
Best wishes for the coming cold months, let's hope it's a mild winter.
And as a fellow PWME you have my empathy and understanding, which I find are in short supply x

Phelicity · 08/09/2026 19:35

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 09:26

Migration has had no impact on the oil price nor the price of food, read whatvi said . immigration HAS reduced the Per Capita Wealth of this country which means that We Are Poorer, and Less Able To Pay For things, so when the Price if Food and Oil goes up people ca. it afford to buy them.
Without mass immigration the Whole Country and Everyone In It would BE BETTER OFF financially, besides I. every other way, And So Be More Able To Afford and Absorb Price Increases. tw, I hope that YOU are providing accommodation, food, schooing, healthcare a h eating for the Immigrants you do obviously welcome Out Of Your Own Pocket???Thought. ot, YOU want e eryo e else to pay for YOUR PREJUDICES.

Utter nonsense.

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 19:37

Phelicity · 08/09/2026 19:35

Utter nonsense.

As in youbdontbagree but have no other constructive observation

Papainspain · 08/09/2026 19:58

fumingrightnow1 · 31/08/2026 11:58

If you're not already get fat. Ever since I got fat im boiling all the time when I was skinny I was freezing

I love this. Well, I'm certainly on the plumper side of what is apparently healthy. I'm not in the UK now but when I was and was working outside I used to say "I'm fat and happy". I have to say I was never cold. We stress too much about what the glossy magazines tell us we should look like, men and women. Stuff them all. Be you, be happy, enjoy food and it'll likely self regulate. But, whatever, a few extra pounds during the winter certainly helps keep the cold at bay. Being a little active helps hugely too. Not necessarily gym active but just doing stuff. Maintaining the house does that, right?

Phelicity · 08/09/2026 20:30

pragmatistnyuk · 08/09/2026 19:37

As in youbdontbagree but have no other constructive observation

As in utter nonsense.

changeme4this · 08/09/2026 22:54

Ihateboris · 08/09/2026 11:08

Donald, in the nicest possible way, unless you have any suggestions as to how to keep warm this winter, please go back to playing golf and fake tanning. Thank you. As you were.

OP you said up thread you already have poor credit history, so respectfully I’m going to suggest this isn’t so much about The Donald but rather the financial position you are, and have been in…

secondly, I’m guessing you don’t know any Iranians. DH’s barbers are. They are fortunate to have been able to get away from their country and try to start again. They would like to return home one day.

DH always asks them how their families are when he goes in. last month 2 people from their village were removed from their homes and murdered for speaking out…

they appreciate what The Donald is trying to do for them.

Lets reflect on what we do have (freedom to speak out, a home and the ability to have some control on the decisions we make for ourselves) for starters…

MonteShitshow · 09/09/2026 06:37

Hi OP. Another vote from me for a dehumidifier. I’ve seen them on gumtree / freecycle and some charity shops every so often. They will help in a few different ways - by removing excess humidity after bathing / laundry, the room air doesn’t feel as cold even without heating. The lower humidity reduces risk of mould which is troublesome to get rid of in a colder house. Also, they definitely generate warm air when they’re running. I find the small-medium sized room dehumidifiers to cost around 10p per hour, when looking at my smart meter. Most of them will shut off when the tank is full or when the humidity level is down, so you can run these in the evening when you get in, without needing to worry about staying up to switch them off. Moisture in the air just hangs around in winter as the doors and windows are shut. I hope you’ll be able to get one.

Ihateboris · 09/09/2026 08:52

changeme4this · 08/09/2026 22:54

OP you said up thread you already have poor credit history, so respectfully I’m going to suggest this isn’t so much about The Donald but rather the financial position you are, and have been in…

secondly, I’m guessing you don’t know any Iranians. DH’s barbers are. They are fortunate to have been able to get away from their country and try to start again. They would like to return home one day.

DH always asks them how their families are when he goes in. last month 2 people from their village were removed from their homes and murdered for speaking out…

they appreciate what The Donald is trying to do for them.

Lets reflect on what we do have (freedom to speak out, a home and the ability to have some control on the decisions we make for ourselves) for starters…

With respect, I was coping with my finances a lot better before The Orange One did what he did.

...and if you think he started this war because he cares for the plight of the Iranians, then I have a bridge to sell you. He only cares about money...and there's no denying that this war has certainly financially benefited him and his cronies.

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changeme4this · 09/09/2026 09:23

Ihateboris · 09/09/2026 08:52

With respect, I was coping with my finances a lot better before The Orange One did what he did.

...and if you think he started this war because he cares for the plight of the Iranians, then I have a bridge to sell you. He only cares about money...and there's no denying that this war has certainly financially benefited him and his cronies.

Clearly you have hit financial speed bumps well before now… and this is what life does to us all.

With or without The Donald effect.

I make no judgement on what he may or not be receiving from this. I’m aware of commentary suggesting it was a payoff for debt owed to some wealthy donors.

if you have a bridge to sell, then I suggest you use that opportunity to buy some oil to keep you warm over winter…

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