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Does this woman have no decency??

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somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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SproutingBee · 30/05/2026 00:16

Imanexcellentdrivercharliebabbit · 30/05/2026 00:05

Yes agreed
I can confidently say from doing sex work in the 90s pre- internet, in a flat with a friend, (advertising in the local paper) that I met absolutely every type of man, from every age/ relationship status/ walk of life/ social strata/ income/ looks/ pulling capacity etc etc.
Men are animals and the ‘dark side’ of male sexuality which is prevalent, commonplace and mainstream is a horrible fact that until faced with its awful outcomes- society refuses to acknowledge.

This is the truth of it that most women are not ready to accept and instead, defensively blame the woman.

NewGoldFox · 30/05/2026 00:17

Your title is ridiculous. Maybe direct some of your righteous anger to the leagues of men who participate in this and enjoy viewing it.

Notgonnalieaboutthis · 30/05/2026 00:22

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 29/05/2026 18:38

She is turning her baby shower into a 'golden shower', inviting men to come, play baby shower games, and then have sex with her. It is beyond grim. I do think she is not at all well.

I nearly threw up reading this

JillyComeLately · 30/05/2026 00:48

SproutingBee · 29/05/2026 23:51

Everyone shrieks in horror at the supply whilst forgetting the demand is laying next to them in bed. Check your husbands phones, ladies. Bonnie isn’t the problem here.

The men who queue up to urinate on and have sex with a willing pregnant woman are vile, as is she.
I lay next to a decent man in bed, I,m sorry you can't say the same.

Ladamesansmerci · 30/05/2026 00:48

I don't think she's mentally ill at all. And I truly wouldn't care what she chooses to do if she wasn't pregnant.

But that poor child will grow up mentally ill because of everything their mum has put all over the internet. She doesn't seem to have even vaguely considered the impact on the future child.

Also the men engaging in this are trash, absolute garbage tier men.

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2026 00:51

YourPoliteTurtle · 29/05/2026 19:46

you can't have it both ways.

If you believe that she has absolutely no mental health issue, and is just "greedy" , the men are doing nothing wrong either.

I disagree that she doesn't need help, but pretending that she's absolutely fine excuse all the men. Weird take on the whole story

So you can only be involved in something "wrong" if you have mental health problems? She can make shit decisions without a mental health problem, just as the men who fuck her make shot decisions without a mental health pool problem.

Toseland · 30/05/2026 00:58

Do you think she is being paid by some group to promote the degredation of women?

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2026 01:02

Samysungy · 29/05/2026 22:14

Yes it is....the D stands for disorder meaning abnormal. The whole field needs stigma to survive. Without it there would be no labels.

labelling is literally saying you are abnormal.

No,iit's saying the way a part of your body is operating is abnormal. A brain with dementia is operating abnormally. It doesn't mean the person is abnormal. A liver full of cancer is functioning abnormally l, it doesn't mean the person is. A brain that's generating hallucinations is acting abnormally, a brain that's resulting in the person feeling constantly depressed emotionally and contemplating suicide is acting abnormally. It doesn't mean the person is. And the brain mighy do that because it's responding to trauma or changes in the gut microbiota or misfiring of neurons or physical brain damage, just as the liver is responding to genetic changes or radiation. Our whole system is cause and effect.

Sweetbeansandmochi · 30/05/2026 01:06

Surely this sparks safeguarding thresholds somewhere that will result in the immediate removal of her child following birth.

The men, this plan, it actually causes me to feel a disturbed disquiet in my spirit. It is so beast-like.

k1233 · 30/05/2026 01:14

I just wish that, for the gross men to participate, they all had to be unmasked. They know what they're doing is revolting. She's identifiable, they should be too. Then the rest of woman-kind would know to steer well clear of them.

Ohdearnotthisagain · 30/05/2026 01:15

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 29/05/2026 18:51

Going by her past exploits, I’m assuming most of these will be young. If they turn into better adults, they will look back on this and it’ll cause them MH problems too. How many are going along because their friends are and they don’t want to lose their friends or status? In 20 years they could be completely different people, fathers of young women themselves.

Who is in charge? Does she have a manager or something?

Yes those poor young men…. Feeling they just must go along with the crowd. What on earth is wrong with you?

DinoDoughnut81 · 30/05/2026 01:24

I won't read the Facebook link. I am too depressed thinking about queues of young men waiting around to have their chances pissing on a pregnant woman. The next generation.
Poor poor baby.

YourPoliteTurtle · 30/05/2026 02:14

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2026 00:51

So you can only be involved in something "wrong" if you have mental health problems? She can make shit decisions without a mental health problem, just as the men who fuck her make shot decisions without a mental health pool problem.

you can't see the difference between men being involved in a vanity project, questionable as it might be

and men being involved in the self-harming event of someone with deep mental issues?

You believe that it's all the same?

If she's happy and healthy, what's so "wrong" then? Who are you to judge and decide that some behaviour are acceptable or not? You don't agree with her, who cares? Some people don't agree with us wearing mini skirt or being successful and loud. Again, who cares? You think you are superior? You really are not.

I don't believe she's well, and that's my problem with the whole sorry nonsense.

NameChangeMay2026 · 30/05/2026 03:09

I can only hope that she isn't really pregnant.

Calendulaaria · 30/05/2026 03:26

I honestly think people should stop interviewing her and giving her attention. She loves the money she makes from it all. Absolutely disgusting person.

ShutupLwren · 30/05/2026 04:38

NameChangeMay2026 · 30/05/2026 03:09

I can only hope that she isn't really pregnant.

She is genuinely pregnant.

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 30/05/2026 05:53

singthing · 29/05/2026 18:52

I notice nobody here has equally condemned the men who willingly and in great numbers have queued up to fuck this woman on a conveyor belt of other men.

They thought it was so spifffing and excellent that most of them (as pp did say), wore ski masks to hide their identities. It seems they did little more than drop their trousers for a few pumps, then leave the building. They literally just went along for a hole to fuck, any hole.

If none of these men wanted to partake in such things, then this woman would not have a sellable commodity. We each may unwittingly know one of them too, and there's no point saying you don't, because this is the tip of an iceberg that runs to 62,000,000 hits per month on a website about raping unconscious women, so they are out there in unfathomable numbers in normal everyday society.

i agree with you. Check the post above your post that assumes the men are young and only go along with it because their friends do it. What a crock of shit. The men are young, old and anything in-between. They are capable of making choices and they make the grimmest of choices.
It’s easier to condemn the women than face reality.
The whole thing is sickening! To think these masked males walk around amongst us and we don’t know who they are. Fathers, brothers, uncles, highly successful professionals. If they’re not screwing and degrading Bonnie Blue they’re paying money to screw and degrade someone else.

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 30/05/2026 05:58

somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Bonnie Blue has no decency and nor do the men who queue up to use her and go back home pretending to be the loving husband and doting father. 🤮

AndyBurnhamForPM · 30/05/2026 06:21

It might not be for you or me but you can't pick and choose: it's her body, her choice and sex work is work.

These are both non-negotiable, regardless of how prudish you (or admittedly I) are.

Idlewilder · 30/05/2026 06:49

Sweetbeansandmochi · 30/05/2026 01:06

Surely this sparks safeguarding thresholds somewhere that will result in the immediate removal of her child following birth.

The men, this plan, it actually causes me to feel a disturbed disquiet in my spirit. It is so beast-like.

This. I guess she has the right to do what she likes with her own body, however abhorrent those choices are. But she doesn't have the right to involve her unborn child in sexual activity. What a legacy for that child to process as they get older. Sadly, I think being taken into care may be the best thing for the child. Though they would still have the right to know their parent in future. What she is planning is cruel and selfish and cannot be undone. 😢

likelysuspect · 30/05/2026 07:19

Samysungy · 29/05/2026 22:02

Nope I do not think mental illnesses as such exist.

Diagnosing someone is stigmatising them for a normal reaction to trauma.

Which mental illness has 'likely to have sex with thousands of men' as a symptom? None!

Why medicate for something that is not biological? Pointless! It is a normal reaction to trauma....doesn't need a label, doesn't need medication, it needs understanding what is hurting her....

Using stigma is not ok.

You said this

If she is mentally ill and acting without her own autonomy and some magical force in her brain making her do it, then all these men are raping her as she knows not what she does.

Which is what I was responding to. You equated being mentally ill, with it resulting in her not knowing what she is doing and therefore the acts being rape

Having a mental illness (which she has not got), would not result necessarily in someone not having capacity to consent

OctaviaC74 · 30/05/2026 07:28

No wonder so many women will chose the Bear.

She picks "ordinary" guys, as do many other women involved in pornography, guys with partners, children, the men we go home to every day.

Don't anyone make the mistake their guy wouldn't do any of this.

Dollysleftnip · 30/05/2026 07:28

AlternateLook · 29/05/2026 22:58

No, it's those fathers, boyfriends, husbands, colleagues, brothers, neighbours, and uncles. It's certainly not me, so stop tarring us all with the same brush.

Thats what “they” would ssy but its someones brother husband son father uncle boyfriend

Iwannaeatapasty · 30/05/2026 07:30

AndyBurnhamForPM · 30/05/2026 06:21

It might not be for you or me but you can't pick and choose: it's her body, her choice and sex work is work.

These are both non-negotiable, regardless of how prudish you (or admittedly I) are.

I agree it’s her body her choice.

when you are pregnant, yes it’s still your body, your choice but you have to be okay with the risks you are putting the baby inside your body at. She obviously is, but fucking hell, there are women who won’t even take paracetamol for a headache when they are pregnant, so of course people won’t understand anyone taking risks like this.

I don’t give a shit about her choices really. But I can personally think it’s shitty to put a baby you are carrying at risk of harm from STDs and violence (I know she says she’s “protected” but it it takes one nutcase to harm her before anyone can step in).

I also think it’s a pedophiles dream with the baby food etc. she’s sexualising an unborn baby. No one could be called prudish for finding that disgusting and shocking. This has moved away from her usual sex stunts.

So that’s why I think it’s fucking grim.

As for the men, yeah I know. My ex husband who was a medical professor and also used to travel the world talking about women’s rights in healthcare used to shag sex workers on those trips, a lot of men are full of shit and absolute monsters behind the facade.

Dollysleftnip · 30/05/2026 07:34

AlternateLook · 29/05/2026 23:52

You absolutely hate men.

With good reason tbh