Does this woman have no decency??

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I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

You would bloody hope so!!!

I feel 🤢 there’s no need!
sick & twisted

I was saying...is this what you

Try reading it again now you understand....

Mental illness labels are used purposely to excuse someone from being responsible for their actions....

E.g. he abused someone because he was abused himself so he doesnt know

She has ADHD so cant help it....

Or it is used to label someone as having no capacity...e.g.

She is mentally ill so dont believe a word she says. ..

So she's having an actual baby ? Does she know who the dad is ?

She needs urgent intervention and someone explaining to her that it's about her DC now and how they will feel when they read this about mum ?

I agree and we see it time and time again.
Even the taliban is men living out the dream like that man Fritzl who imprisoned and rape his own daughter.

We are all in the jungle still we are all animals except we have sofas TV and cars.

Nope. They walk amongst us. They don't have 2 heads and a label on their face. We sit next to them on the bus, they're the policemen who turn up when you've been robbed, the guy running the corner shop, the local vicar, the plumber who turns up to fix the shower, the colleague we work on projects with. The people who think it's someone else's son/father/brother/husband could not be more wrong.

She’s revolting. I don’t see why people are so keen to assume she’s mentally ill. Plenty of people are perfectly sane but vile. Why can’t she be one of them? What about her mother? She must be mentally ill too then, right? Or is she just disgusting too? I think that’s more plausible.

If she’s really pregnant the child needs to be taken away at birth.

"But she doesn't have the right to involve her unborn child in sexual activity." What she's doing is horrible, but surely this quote would mean that any pregnant woman having sex or "sexual activity" was committing a child sex offence? Pregnant women are allowed to have sex, even disgusting and risky sex.

How sure are you?

Her baby has no choice and is not only being out at risk here physically but also mentally when older.

@StartingFreshFor2026 but it's being published so it goes beyond that.
Look at Brooklyn beckham .

I am not so sure about the reasoning here - many many men pissing on you and then penetrating you does not seem on equal footing with a pregnant woman having consenting relations (with husband, boyfriend even one night stand).

So you are correct there is a gradient of risk to the sexual activity that goes from within a range of ‘typical’ and outside there are additional harm/risk factors that do warrant attention and intervention. Otherwise no one ‘should’ intervene on anything, because then we get into the realm of the individuals ‘rights’ are always affirmed regardless of the harm they cause the individual or others.

A quick google says that the men convicted of raping Gisele Pelicot were indeed the most normal of normal:

"The 50 co-accused men represented a wide variety of professions across working-class and middle-class French society. Defense lawyers noted they came from all walks of life, earning them the nickname Monsieur-Tout-Le-Monde (Mr Everyman).

These professions included:

Medical & Care: Nurses
Emergency & Public Service: Firefighters, prison wardens, and soldiers
Media: A local journalist
Trades: Carpenters, tilers, construction workers, and farmworkers
Transportation: Lorry/truck drivers
Commerce & Administration: Supermarket workers, estate agents, and I.T. experts"

Not my Nigel is a bold statement to make when you stop to understand the scale of the problem.

Yep and no doubt most of those men were married/partnered with kids.

I’ve never understood why people feel safe around a man when he says he’s eg, a married father of two who works as a doctor/plumber/gardener. It’s just so dim.

I used to watch a lot of true crime and it would drive me mad when they’d say “it was such a shock to find out he did X and Y because he’d be the last person you’d expect as a married father who worked in the same job for 15 years”

The ‘not my Darren’ brigade aren’t ready to hear it. They need cognitive dissonance to survive.

And yet the thread is titled "Does this woman have no decency??"

Those poor innocent men, taken advantage of by the evil indecent BB <eyeroll>

Don't take it out on every man, though.

Aww, you’re right. I’ll start my apology letters today.

No need for that. It should come from within...

Can you let us know which ones are the problem then please?

Have you organised for them to wear special badges marking them as predators? Or started a campaign about it that men and women can join in with?

Or are you just peeved that women can't instinctively tell that you specifically are A Nice Guy and you want us to repent for that?

I think this is substantively different to the perfectly normal act of having sex while pregnant. Because the act is documented and public, and will forever be associated with Bonnie Blue's first child. So the child is being forced to participate in something and has no right to anonymity.

It's truly unbelievable when you think of all the well known celebrity offspring who have been screwed up by their parents' fame. So unbelievable, I'm hoping it's not actually going to happen and the whole thing has just been another bid for attention.

Sorry, I don't understand.

Like their depraved sexual urges, you mean?

I don’t think you and I will be queuing up to urinate on a pregnant women so all our counterparts can watch the video and masturbate.

I meant that the unborn child is not being sexually abused or "exposed" by any serial activity to their pregnant mother. There us no sexual harm to the unborn child although there are health risks. There are health risks with lots of things in pregnancy.

I am 100% with you though that this is very different to normal sexual activity, including one night stands though. It is extreme, degrading, bad for women, and just all round not good.