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Does this woman have no decency??

432 replies

somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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AlternateLook · 29/05/2026 23:16

VeganSteakAndFries · 29/05/2026 23:14

What the actual fuck kind of world do we live in. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!! Why is this being publicised? Make it fucking stop.

Don't talk about or get outraged, then, Ignore it, and move on with your life.

Franjipanl8r · 29/05/2026 23:17

I think her mum’s got some kind of personality disorder. Either narcissist or psychopath.

EvieBB · 29/05/2026 23:18

LimbOnTheTreeTheTreeInTheHoleTheHoleInTheGround · 29/05/2026 18:58

I judge the men.

She is clearly unwell, and they are taking advantage of that.

They must be mentally unwell also to partake is something so depraved. They're all sick

EvieBB · 29/05/2026 23:18

Franjipanl8r · 29/05/2026 23:17

I think her mum’s got some kind of personality disorder. Either narcissist or psychopath.

She must have. How can she stand back and allow this to happen? It's sickening

ItsTheSmell · 29/05/2026 23:28

Paedos will be loving this. Sexualising a baby shower. Baby food mixed with mens fluids being fed to her (and therefore her baby in utero) Pissing on a pregnant woman and then sex with multiple men whilst carrying her baby???

She IS sexualising her baby. She is using her baby as fetish content.

I sincerely hope SS step in.

I can guarantee the next thing will be filming and charging for watching the birth.

And then the sexualisation of breast feeding.

This woman is a pervert and is using her baby as a porn prop.

I feel sick.

How the fuck is that child going to feel when it's old enough to google what its 'mother' did for money whilst she was supposed to be growing and protecting him/her?!

homelovingalme · 29/05/2026 23:34

LimbOnTheTreeTheTreeInTheHoleTheHoleInTheGround · 29/05/2026 18:58

I judge the men.

She is clearly unwell, and they are taking advantage of that.

Or a sociopath?

Ayarreet · 29/05/2026 23:35

Samysungy · 29/05/2026 22:02

Nope I do not think mental illnesses as such exist.

Diagnosing someone is stigmatising them for a normal reaction to trauma.

Which mental illness has 'likely to have sex with thousands of men' as a symptom? None!

Why medicate for something that is not biological? Pointless! It is a normal reaction to trauma....doesn't need a label, doesn't need medication, it needs understanding what is hurting her....

Using stigma is not ok.

For example, EUPD is a very complex disorder.

Iwannaeatapasty · 29/05/2026 23:35

ItsTheSmell · 29/05/2026 23:28

Paedos will be loving this. Sexualising a baby shower. Baby food mixed with mens fluids being fed to her (and therefore her baby in utero) Pissing on a pregnant woman and then sex with multiple men whilst carrying her baby???

She IS sexualising her baby. She is using her baby as fetish content.

I sincerely hope SS step in.

I can guarantee the next thing will be filming and charging for watching the birth.

And then the sexualisation of breast feeding.

This woman is a pervert and is using her baby as a porn prop.

I feel sick.

How the fuck is that child going to feel when it's old enough to google what its 'mother' did for money whilst she was supposed to be growing and protecting him/her?!

SS probably will step in if she tries to film the birth to sell for content and definitely if she tries to sexualise breastfeeding.

Year and years ago I worked in PR. A glamour model was going to film her child’s birth to sell (or to watch live, I can’t remember which now).

She didn’t in the end citing complications- the real story was that SS were crawling all over her for it. They knew exactly the type of men who would be paying for that.

homelovingalme · 29/05/2026 23:36

TheBlissfulSloth · 29/05/2026 19:11

I agree. And I'm surprised Shelagh Fogarty went so easy on her during the LBC interview. It was like she was giving her credibility.

Shelagh looked like she was loving it.

Ayarreet · 29/05/2026 23:39

homelovingalme · 29/05/2026 23:36

Shelagh looked like she was loving it.

Yes. She's often very disappointing. Money/relevancy over principles.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 29/05/2026 23:39

Iwannaeatapasty · 29/05/2026 23:35

SS probably will step in if she tries to film the birth to sell for content and definitely if she tries to sexualise breastfeeding.

Year and years ago I worked in PR. A glamour model was going to film her child’s birth to sell (or to watch live, I can’t remember which now).

She didn’t in the end citing complications- the real story was that SS were crawling all over her for it. They knew exactly the type of men who would be paying for that.

Were her initials JC?

Ayarreet · 29/05/2026 23:44

ItsTheSmell · 29/05/2026 23:28

Paedos will be loving this. Sexualising a baby shower. Baby food mixed with mens fluids being fed to her (and therefore her baby in utero) Pissing on a pregnant woman and then sex with multiple men whilst carrying her baby???

She IS sexualising her baby. She is using her baby as fetish content.

I sincerely hope SS step in.

I can guarantee the next thing will be filming and charging for watching the birth.

And then the sexualisation of breast feeding.

This woman is a pervert and is using her baby as a porn prop.

I feel sick.

How the fuck is that child going to feel when it's old enough to google what its 'mother' did for money whilst she was supposed to be growing and protecting him/her?!

I think she's allowed to fuck up her own life but when she involves a baby the rules change.

AutumnAllTheWay · 29/05/2026 23:46

Im equally disgusted by her and the men

Stomach churning, all of it

AlternateLook · 29/05/2026 23:50

ItsTheSmell · 29/05/2026 23:28

Paedos will be loving this. Sexualising a baby shower. Baby food mixed with mens fluids being fed to her (and therefore her baby in utero) Pissing on a pregnant woman and then sex with multiple men whilst carrying her baby???

She IS sexualising her baby. She is using her baby as fetish content.

I sincerely hope SS step in.

I can guarantee the next thing will be filming and charging for watching the birth.

And then the sexualisation of breast feeding.

This woman is a pervert and is using her baby as a porn prop.

I feel sick.

How the fuck is that child going to feel when it's old enough to google what its 'mother' did for money whilst she was supposed to be growing and protecting him/her?!

To be more accurate, she's fetishising pregnancy. Preggo porn's out there, apparently...

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 23:51

whatcanthematterbe81 · 29/05/2026 21:45

With a baby inside her? Eewwwwww

I didn't realise she was pregnant. I naturally assumed it was a performative baby shower. I followed up with another post when I realised she was actually pregnant. I wrote that it's abuse of the baby because catching STDs in pregnancy can kill or seriously injure the baby.

SproutingBee · 29/05/2026 23:51

Everyone shrieks in horror at the supply whilst forgetting the demand is laying next to them in bed. Check your husbands phones, ladies. Bonnie isn’t the problem here.

AlternateLook · 29/05/2026 23:52

SproutingBee · 29/05/2026 23:51

Everyone shrieks in horror at the supply whilst forgetting the demand is laying next to them in bed. Check your husbands phones, ladies. Bonnie isn’t the problem here.

You absolutely hate men.

Whyohwhy321 · 29/05/2026 23:53

TY78910 · 29/05/2026 21:05

I agree and it’s interesting how we accept that men are gross and exploitative but when a woman does it we must explain it by her having MH issues.

There is no we here. I don't think she has a mental illness.

Crikeyalmighty · 29/05/2026 23:56

PolkaDotPorridge · 29/05/2026 19:07

I think she’s perfectly sane. She’s just incredibly greedy and has absolutely no morals. I really hope social services are watching her very carefully. That child deserves better.

Me too -

Iwannaeatapasty · 29/05/2026 23:56

SproutingBee · 29/05/2026 23:51

Everyone shrieks in horror at the supply whilst forgetting the demand is laying next to them in bed. Check your husbands phones, ladies. Bonnie isn’t the problem here.

I don’t think anyone is saying she is? The lines of men queuing up with their dicks out are the problem. I think we all know that men are obsessed with their cocks.

So she isn’t solely the issue BUT she is the one who is pregnant for this latest stunt. So yes, while is hundreds of sad little men queuing to piss on a pregnant woman, she is the one carrying a baby. For all of us who have been pregnant and let’s face it, for women who haven’t been pregnant, that’s just an unimaginable thing to do for the magority of us. It goes against all your maternal instincts.

So that’s why people are outraged at her for this, ahead of the men. She’s the one who should have the instinct to protect the baby she is (allegedly) carrying.

Crikeyalmighty · 29/05/2026 23:59

I don’t think we should be giving this woman the oxygen of publicity and yes the men are pieces of shit tooas is she

SproutingBee · 29/05/2026 23:59

AlternateLook · 29/05/2026 23:52

You absolutely hate men.

They don’t do much to counteract it to be frank. It wasn’t 1000 cardboard cutouts lining up to have sex with her, was it. It’s not 1m women subscribing to her OF. Got to be someone’s chap 🤷‍♂️

Imanexcellentdrivercharliebabbit · 30/05/2026 00:05

singthing · 29/05/2026 18:52

I notice nobody here has equally condemned the men who willingly and in great numbers have queued up to fuck this woman on a conveyor belt of other men.

They thought it was so spifffing and excellent that most of them (as pp did say), wore ski masks to hide their identities. It seems they did little more than drop their trousers for a few pumps, then leave the building. They literally just went along for a hole to fuck, any hole.

If none of these men wanted to partake in such things, then this woman would not have a sellable commodity. We each may unwittingly know one of them too, and there's no point saying you don't, because this is the tip of an iceberg that runs to 62,000,000 hits per month on a website about raping unconscious women, so they are out there in unfathomable numbers in normal everyday society.

Yes agreed
I can confidently say from doing sex work in the 90s pre- internet, in a flat with a friend, (advertising in the local paper) that I met absolutely every type of man, from every age/ relationship status/ walk of life/ social strata/ income/ looks/ pulling capacity etc etc.
Men are animals and the ‘dark side’ of male sexuality which is prevalent, commonplace and mainstream is a horrible fact that until faced with its awful outcomes- society refuses to acknowledge.

StrictlyCoffee · 30/05/2026 00:14

Grim on every level, the men are just vile

ItsTheSmell · 30/05/2026 00:14

We know its men making her famous but the bar is pretty low for men. I don't expect anything else.
I'd hope a pregnant woman wouldn't stoop so low as to pimp her pregnancy for the gratification of porn addled perverts.
And not only does she let her baby down by doing this but she makes men think this is normal sexual behaviour. She is encouraging the sexualision of pregnancy. Which means more normal women have to experience scary, negative experiences from porn fuelled men.
Yes, its mens fault, mens choices, mens failures but women like this throw fuel on the fire and end up burning innocent women in the process.

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